Sedeux please - strap-on dildo discontinued by Sportsheets - review by PropertyOfPotter

Sedeux Please from Sportsheets is a small dildo that is great for beginners! For the ladies, this would make a great item to try out if you've never been vaginally penetrated before. That being said, I would imagine that it wouldn't take long to 'outgrow' this toy if vaginal use was the sole purpose. It does have a very slight curve to it, but whether or not it will stimulate your G-spot will all depend on anatomy.

For those who've experimented with some anal penetration and are looking to graduate from fingers to a toy, this is a great choice since it's not much larger. The slim design is non-intimidating and when relaxed and well lubricated, is easy to insert. The base at the bottom prevents the toy from slipping inside of you, and also makes it a great handle for self play. Just like stimulating the G-spot on a woman through vaginal penetration, whether or not this will stimulate the prostate on a man will depend on your anatomy.


This toy isn't great as an anal plug. There's nothing really that prevents it from slipping out of you and the base is a little wide to fit comfortably between your cheeks. Eden carries lots of beginner friendly plugs, some can be found here.

The base of the toy also makes it o-ring compatible, encouraging couples to break out the harness and play together! Whether you're using the harness to penetrate your female partner, or are pegging your male partner, this toy is great! There's no concern about the toy being pushed too far inside your partner since the short length prevents it from causing discomfort.

Taking your dildo in the tub or shower is perfectly suitable. Since there's no internal working parts there's no worry about anything leaking inside your toy and ruining it. On top of that, because the size is so modest it's easy to hide making it great if you have a roommate or if you're looking for a dildo for on the go.

This dildo is made completely from silicone which has an Eden Material Safety rating of 10/10. It's one of the best materials you can get in a sex toy, especially for a toy like this one. Silicone boasts some great safety features such as being made from food-grade material, being hypo-allergenic, latex free, non-porous, and phthalates free. On top of that, this material repels bacteria and dirt and retains temperature very well.

The surface of the dildo is totally smooth and has no texture to it. This also makes it a great beginners toy since there's no overwhelming sensations associated with the toy. You can simply thrust it and get used to that sensation on its own. The only area of the toy that isn't smooth is where the company name is stamped into the base of the dildo. It's on the top of the base, but isn't in an area that would be inside your body, so it shouldn't be an issue.


Because the toy is silicone, it's a lint magnet. This is the shiny looking type, not the matte, buttery smooth kind. The silicone doesn't feel sticky, but it has a very light tacky feeling and a lot of drag. The drag can easily be eliminated by using a water-based lubricant along with it.

This dildo has a fair amount of bend to it and has a small amount of give. It can be bent in half with little effort, but still remains firm enough that it's easy to insert. When you squeeze the toy, you can really feel the firmness of it. It had slight give, but it's nothing like the dual density dildos that are carried by Eden.


When I first opened the package, there was no smell to the silicone, and no taste. After using on my husband and thoroughly cleaning the toy, there was a very slight smell that was eliminated by leaving the toy to air out for a couple of days.

Sedeux Please is only available in an interesting, marbled lavender color and isn't a realistic looking toy. However, it is a very commonly shaped toy; the tip is rounded, the shaft is all one size, and it widens at the bottom to form the base. The base is 2 1/8" in diameter and totally flat on the bottom; making it able to stand on its own when placed on a flat surface.



The size is very small and is very beginner friendly. That being said, more advanced toy users probably won't find this to be a very interesting toy. The total length of the toy is 5" with an insertable length of 4 1/2". On top of being a short toy, the girth is also on the small side, coming in at 7/8" in diameter. Size queens would laugh at this product, but beginners can truly appreciate the non-intimidating size and shape of it.

This toy easily fits inside a purse, backpack, briefcase, etc. without taking up much space. It would also be suitable for flying since it won't set metal detectors off, but if someone were to see it, you wouldn't be able to disguise it as anything other than a sex toy.

This toy preformed very well for its intended use. We didn't use it in a harness, but I put it in one to see the feel. It fits well and didn't sag, making it seem as though it would work really well.

When I was using it with my husband, it was comfortable to hold and easy to use. The base made a great place to grip and my hand didn't get tired while we were playing. With him being on the receiving end, he said that the toy was stimulating and never felt uncomfortable for him. The great size makes discomfort very unlikely which is yet another reason why this is such a great beginners toy. So make sure that you and/or the toy are well lubricated and you're feeling relaxed; you should be all set!

Silicone is really easy to clean! Using antibacterial soap and warm water or your favorite sex toy cleaner are great for every day cleaning, but if you're sharing with a partner or want to disinfect your toy, you can wipe it down with a 10% bleach solution, boil it in water for up to 3 minutes, or place it on the top rack of your dishwasher. Always make sure to sterilize if using between two different people, or if you're switching from anal to vaginal play.

This toy is only compatible with water-based lubricant and caution should be used when storing it. Other types of lubricant and storing directly next to a toy of similar material could cause damage to the surface, making your toy unusable.

The box this comes in doesn't work very well for storage. You want to make sure you put this inside a sandwich bag or other small toy pouch to prevent anything from harming your toy.

Sedeux Please arrives in a plastic package that is much larger than the toy itself. It's totally clear and the entire toy is in full view. The top says the company name and, "Please Flared Base Dildo". The clam shell packaging is easily opened, and you'll find the toy encased in a plastic piece that is shaped to fit the dildo and prevent it from moving around. There is a paper on the back of the packaging that has some information but it's minimal. Both the packaging and the information sheet can be recycled since they aren't necessary to hang on to. The packaging is not discreet, is too large for storing the toy, and doesn't make a very good gift.

After carefully considering which item to purchase, I chose the Sedeux Please. Although I'm an advanced toy user, I happen to love someone that isn't. My husband and I have played around a little bit with anal penetration, but not enough for him to feel comfortable with a larger sized toy. I went with this one because the diameter was under 1" and I knew his eyes wouldn't get big at the sight of it.

After some stimulation and using my fingers to prepare him, the lubricated dildo slipped in without an issue. I made sure to pay close attention to my husband's reaction to see if he was enjoying it or not. He doesn't know enough about his own anatomy to know if it was stimulating his P-spot directly, but it was obvious that he was enjoying the feeling. I carefully thrust it inside of him for a little while before preforming oral sex on him. I did notice that the toy created a very quiet slurping sound when thrust. It was obvious that he was into it much more than oral stimulation alone and provided him with the great feelings he was looking for.

After we were finished and were talking about how it felt, he said that he wished it had more of a curve to it and that my fingers still feel better to him. I think for a toy like this, it really needed to have a sharper curve so that it was hitting his P-spot more directly, especially since it doesn't vibrate or have any other special qualities about it.

Overall we're pleased with this toy. While it doesn't stimulate him as much as we were hoping, it does feel good to him and gives my fingers a little break. It's a high quality toy, and a great option for any anal beginner.