When my (straight) boy friend expressed his interest of anal play, I wanted to surprise him with something that would not freak him out. He is new to anal play and while wanting to try it for some time was afraid of even slightly larger toys. He didn’t want a dildo or anything that looked like a penis to start. The original appeal to the “Love Pacifier” was its shape. It just doesn’t cry out “I’m a sex toy!” Another attribute of this toy was its promise of prostate massage.

We have been playing with this one for about a month now. This toy is great (especially for straight men) because of its shape and texture. The different curves and tip hit him in new places that cannot be experienced in the normal sexual experience. We also looked forward to the health benefits of prostate massage.

The Love Pacifier’s small size allows for easy insertion and its handle makes it really fun to just let him lay back while I gently move it around for him. We have found that not pulling it out, but moving around side to side and up and down resulted in the best sensation. The shape applies pressure to his g-spot. Its soft and flexible body allows him to comfortably perform on me and even walk around the house without having to remove for a break. As with any anal play, we like to use LOTS of lube!

The first few times we used it, he had to pee a lot and was not able to climax even though he really enjoyed the sensation. After several uses as a couple and a few on his own, he is now able to reach a full climax (rather quickly at times) and says it is a much more intense orgasm that usual.

Cleaning was extremely easy with hot water and antibacterial soap and had no nasty after-smell. He also insisted that I add to my review the ability to take it on a plane. It has no metal (or otherwise detectable materials) and is discrete... it's not likely anyone would guess what it was while looking through your bag. If someone did find it he could say it’s mine… who wouldn’t believe it?

I got this for my boyfriend a while ago, after he began expressing interest in anal play. It's now on the smaller side of what we play with, but has become a staple for him. It's always a good starter tool for bigger toys, and still offers more intense orgasms. We look forward to trying some of the other shapes!