What am I doing wrong?

The Aneros male g-spot is designed to provide hands free self-pivoting simultaneously massages of the p-spot and the perineum, creating intense orgasms. Sorry ladies, but this toy is not for you. Of course you could still have fun by helping your man with using this, but it is a toy made for men. This toy makes no noise and is water proof, so it can be used just about anywhere you can think of using a sex toy.

This is made from silicone, and plastic. From what I can tell, the piece is made from plastic and then coated in silicone. The toy is very firm with no give to it. The silicone has a velvety feel to it. It also has a bit of drag when ran against the skin. The drag is nothing to worry about if using high quality lube. I would not use silicone lube with this, unless you use it with a condom covering the toy to keep the silicone lube off of it. But with a high quality water based lube, and lots of it; the drag will not be a issue.

Silicone does not have a taste or smell to it, nor will it ever gain any. Silicone is non porous and will not absorb any nasty scents or flavors from use.

This does not have any texture on the surface of the toy. I could just barely see a seam on one side, but could not feel it.

As you can see from the product pictures, this is shaped sort of like a bent finger. The head is thicker then the neck. This has a insertable length of about 3 inches, with an overall length of 4 1/2 inches. The head is about 1 inch in diameter, with the neck being only 3/8 inch in diameter. On the base, there is a handle for taking it out of your anus; and a perineum tab for rubbing on your perineum. The handle does not have a silicone coating. Everything else is coated in silicone.

The design of this is good, but does not stand out from the rest of the anal toys in the pack. It looks like the standard anal toy. From other reviews I read before I purchased this, the design worked for some and did not work for others. This is typical for every toy sold here and every other sex toy shop, even on great toys like NJOY's pure wand. This did not work for me, no matter how much I wanted it to. I wont give up trying to get it to work, but as of today it has done nothing for me. But more on that below.

While this toy is built with good materials and I have not had any problems with the craftsmanship, this did not work for me. It went in easily with no problems. I was able to take it out, again with no problems. But I could not get it to do anything to my p-spot while inserted. I tried following the instructions that were included with it, and I felt nothing. I tried following what other uses wrote about in their reviews, and again nothing. Other then not working on my p-spot, it was comfortable to use and move around with it inserted. I could insert it and walk around the house like it wasn't there. It was not as easy to sit down with in inserted as it is with a pure plug, but it could be done with no pain.

Because this is made from silicone and has no moving or powered parts, you can soak this is water to clean it. I like to hold mine under running warm water and wash it with some soap. This method works best for me. I clean it right after use, dry it and then store it back in its box. I have had no problem with this method yet. I find that if you keep it stored inside the box, there is less lint and dust on it when you take it back out to use it again.

This is packaged in a nice heavy duty cardboard box. It is more of a two layer packaging. The outside box is designed to hang from a hook at the store, for display purposes. The inner box has a magnet catch that helps keep the lid closed. The inner box opens up sort of like a book. Inside you will find the Helix Syn sitting in a plastic tray. This packaging works great for storage, though it does take up a lot more room then the toy alone. The inner box is about 5 1/2 by 7 1/2 by 2 inches tall. This is a lot bigger then the toy it houses. I have kept my packaging for storage, but this might not work for you.

The packaging is not that discreet. There are writings about the Helix and what it can do for the male orgasm, on the back of the package. But this is only on the outer box, so you can toss that and be left with a discreet storage box.

This includes a booklet on the how to's on using, cleaning and cautions that need to be taken with this toy. It is more thorough then most toys, which I am happy about. Nothing worse then getting a toy, and not having any information about how to care for it or use it.

Even though I have not been able to make this work like it was designed to work, I will keep trying. I refuse to be a quitter.