The Mistress, manufactured by Vixen Creations, Inc, was one of best decisions to buy. I haven't used it on myself currently, as the entire reason I bought it was for use with a harness for pegging with my partner. My partner was very happy with my choice, as I hadn't spoken to him about my choice, just saying it was a surprise for when it arrived. The base it has is large and fits comfortably inside my harness, which is a Sedeux divine diva plus size harness for those who are interested.

When we first opened the container, I was surprised at the scent and waved at my nose for protection. I went inside and cleaned the little bugger with hot water and a clean washcloth and thankfully the odor disappeared. The smoothness and solidity of the Mistress was what I enjoyed the most. We had only used softer toys with pegging before, and to be able to fully thrust and move as if it was my own penis was a lovely thing.

With it being so smooth and harness compatible, along with just the fact that it has such a nice base, this toy is very nice for beginners. Though if you're using it anally and you're not used to that often, prep yourself before hand! Stretch yourself and lube yourself! Remember to stay safe.

I adore the color and the shape of this toy. It's very pretty to look at, and the shape makes it wonderfully easy to thrust in and hit my partners prostate. Shape wise, the toy is slightly realistic. It does have a 'head' of sorts, no veins or other realistic attempts with the Mistress. The toy fits comfortably inside my harness, not shifting around and sitting close to my own crotch.

Anally, I'm unsure how an average or beginner would take the Mistress, as my partner is much more on the advanced side of the spectrum. Vaginally, I believe nearly everyone would be able to take it, as long as there is lube or vaginal juices.

Using my Sedeux divine diva plus size harness with the Mistress was my first time using either of them, and I was terrified that the Mistress wouldn't properly fit through the O-ring or, honestly, inside my partner. But thankfully my partner was a trooper and gladly took the entire toy, while the harness fit itself along with the Mistress snug in place.

The toy is VERY easy to clean thankfully, which makes me and my partner happy! We just get some water up to boiling, toss her in for a bit and pull her out and scrub her down. Usually we toss her back in for a bit before taking her back out and drying her off. She is a bit hard to keep from things sticking to her sadly, so we try to keep her stored away from other toys. As for lube, the only kind we've currently tried with her is the Sliquid organics warming lubricant, which is a lovely lube if you've never tried it! It works phenomenally which her.