After having viewed a Toys for Better Sex video, my wife and I purchased the Bend over Beginner Harness kit. While the kit was wonderful and we really enjoyed it, my wife desired a more realistic sized dildo with balls attached to it. We tried the Tantus VIP, but it turned out to be just a little too firm for it's size. Then when we were visiting a shop, we came upon this dildo which was softer and flimsier than the VIP. When we got home and read a little bit more about the product, we discovered it had only a little bit of silicone in it, and that it's material safety was a 1 out of 10 on Eden Fantasy's scale. While this worried us a little bit, we had already purchased it and we just followed Eden's recommendation for safe use.

While using it with a condom multiple times, it has been highly enjoyed by both of us. We have used it with the strap on kit, and just by holding it for masturbation. It is softer than the VIP, but it has just enough movement with firmness to be used with a strap on kit. We have tried it in both doggy style and missionary, and it works wonderfully. While we are still waiting to try out another pure silicone dildo, this one works for the time being. Also, every time we have used this dildo, my wife has orgasm'd quite quickly, so it is highly effective for her.

While I do not consider it a good purchase for long term use, we have used it at least five times now, and it is just the same as when we brought it home. We just store it in a zip lock bag dusted with cornstarch, and we put a condom on it every time we use it. I would recommend this dildo probably for someone that is searching for the right size dildo for their body, but doesn't want to spend a lot of money. If I would have known about the material before being at the store, I might not have purchased it.

The material is a thermal plastic elastomer, a mixture of PVC and silicone. The material makes the dildo very realistic. It is soft while also being firm enough for harness use. It is not at all uncomfortable for my wife. It is also easy to hold in your hand during masturbation. There is a little bit of a smell when I just opened the bag, but I don't know if that was the dildo or the cornstarch. My wife has a very sensitive nose, and in the multiple times that we have used the dildo, not once did she complain about any smell.

Besides the non-ideal material of not being made out of silicone, the design of the toy is perfect. Just the right about of firmness/softness, perfect sized in the 6 inch model for shaft and diameter, the balls are nice, and the blush on the head is a nice touch. My wife says it has a very realistic look and feel, and is very comparable to my penis. I also believe it would be travel friendly, but I would personally pick one of our silicone toys if I was to do that just for easier cleanup and use.

For performance, it has worked wonderfully. Firm enough for good thrusting during harness use, and it stays in our harness without difficulty. Perfect size and softness for being comfortable for the wife. The only negative thing I can say about this toy is that it is not made out of silicone, but I kinda expected something like this with the price we paid for it.

The material is a thermal plastic elastomer, a mixture of PVC and silicone. Because of the material, it is not very clean. That is why we have always stored it in a ziplock bag dusted in cornstarch, and when we pull it out for use, we always use a condom on it. I also try to keep the balls away from my wife's anus since it is hard to clean the toy. Also, even though I use a condom with it, any time the wife and I are playing around and there is a possibility of a toy coming out, we always use our water based lube. The only reason that we currently have a silicone lube is because we received it in a shipping error.

The package wasn't anything special, just a standard plastic package with a cardboard display inside.

It would be the perfect dildo....if it was just pure silicone.