Sedeux flare - strap-on dildo by Sportsheets - review by married with children

This is best used for vagina play, but will also work for giving anal pleasure. It can be used in a harness, or hand held. It can be used alone, or with a partner. The smaller size makes this perfect for someone just starting out with sex toys. But will also work for those of us with 100's of sex toys in our collection. The material is soft and forgiving. Unfortunately, because this is made from silicone it will not work very well for temperature play. It will however hold body temperature very well. It warms up quickly to your body temperature within the first few minutes of play time. There are no moving parts and it is 100% waterproof.

This is made from 100% silicone, and is nonporous and hypoallergenic. The silicone has no texture, scent, or taste to it. And because it is nonporous, it should never pick up any unwanted scents or flavors. The silicone is firm with little give. It is also just slightly flexible. You can bend it in half, but it takes some effort. It is rigid enough to not give you any problems during insertion.

Silicone has a bit of drag to it. So you will want to make sure to use lube while playing with it. But because this is silicone, you will want to make sure to not use a silicone based lube. The two do not play nice together. Try to stick with only a high quality water based lube. If you must use a silicone based lube, put a condom over the dildo to help protect it from any reaction that might happen from the lube.

This is a typical shape for a dildo. There is nothing outstanding about the design. Not that it is a bad design, they just did not add anything to the design that most dildos follow. The overall dimensions of this are, just under 6 inches long and 1 1/4 inches in diameter. I would consider this a medium sized dildo. The base is flared for harness use.

The head is slightly larger in diameter then the shaft. Not by much. It is maybe 1/8 inch larger. Just larger enough to feel the difference in diameter while using it.

While this is not realistic looking, anyone who sees it will know it is a sex toy at first glance. So you might want to keep this put away and out of sight from wondering eyes.

This worked pretty well. It stays in a harness and does not work itself out. It has just about the right amount of flexibility to it. The size is not too large for us. It is just a little on the boring side. I wish they had added something else to it, something to set it apart from the 100's of other dildos just like it. Don't get me wrong, its a great quality dildo; its just missing something. The diameter difference between the head and shaft is a nice touch, but it is just not enough.

This worked for my wife as a warm up toy, before moving to the more textured and larger dildos and vibrators. But that was about it. It did not provide enough pleasure for her to stick with it over her other toys. It worked, just not well enough to be one of our top toys. If it had some light texture to it, or even balls on it; then it might be able to move up the ladder to a top toy.

The nice thing about silicone toys is that they are very easy to clean and take care of. You have many options to choose from when it comes to cleaning this. You can put it in the dishwasher on the top shelf. You can boil it in some water for a few minutes. You can soak it in a bleach solution. You can wash it with warm water and soap. You can even use a toy cleaner. We stick to the warm water and soap. It has never let us down, and because we have a bathroom in our bedroom it is the easiest solution. When we are done playing with this, we wash it with soap and water and dry it with a towel. Then it goes into the toy drawer or back into the closet until the next time we use it.

I have never had a problem with our storage or cleaning methods. It all depends on your situation as to what will work best for you. The packaging that this comes in works for storage as well. You can even purchase some storage bags sold on this site. Or make your own storage. This is pretty easy to store no matter what your choice of storage ends up being. I would use caution when storing it around other toys though. I have heard that silicone toys do not like to be in contact with each other. I have never had a problem, but that is what I have heard.

This is packaged in a large plastic clam shell type of box. The box is huge. You could almost hold 3 dildos in the box. I am not kidding, it is a large box. It is made from thick clear plastic. It is designed to hang from a hook on a shelf. The dildo is front and center in the packaging. It is not discreet at all. And with the size of the packaging, it is very hard to hid. It is 4 inches wide by 11 inches tall and 4 inches deep. Much larger then the dildo housed inside.

There was very little info included in the packaging. There was a paper insert in the box, but it is pretty much useless. There is nothing on it on how to care for your dildo, or proper use, or anything else. All you get for info is the color of the dildo (I would have thought since you can see the dildo in the package, you would not need the color written on the insert), the length and diameter, and that it is made of silicone. I expect so much more from manufacturers. Unfortunately, most of the time I get left down.

This packaging can be used for storage. It is not ideal, but it will work at protecting your toy from damage during storage. I chose to not keep our packaging for storage. As it would take up way too much space, space I do not have at the moment.