This toy is not intended at all for penetration. It is a soft silicone packing dildo, used for gender play or as a regular every day packer for genderqueer/FtM trans* people who like the feeling of a good bulge in their pants. I've found it fits well in a pair of boxer briefs and jeans just fine without a harness. I have not tried the harness made for it but it seems as though it would get in the way. It feels more realistic to me when just worn inside my boxer briefs. You could also wear regular briefs but I think loose boxers wouldn't hold it in. A jock strap would also work nicely. This is not meant to be a STP (stand to pee) device though I have seen some people convert their packers in to STPs using a medicine spoon or silicone tubing before.

The packer is very realistic and feels like a semi-erect penis. It is a bit on the stiff side, not nearly as soft as the Mr. Limpy packer but still not usable for penetration. The material is 100% silicone which is nice because it is durable and can be sterilized. This is especially handy if you're trans* or Gender Queer and plan to use the Mr. Right as a daily packer. There wasn't any unpleasant smell, a light odor of plastic but it aired out after a day or so. A dusting with cornstarch can help keep tackiness down. I'd recommend a toy cleaner just to keep things clean if you're wearing it in your pants all day.

Anyone can use this since it is not so much a toy as an accessory or piece of trans* gear.

The size for a packer I feel is a bit on the large side. At a whopping 5" long at the shaft due to the firmness of the silicone and size it can create a rather large bulge if you're wearing it as an every day packer. It is however very durable and able to be sterilized. On a person of a smaller build this may seem a bit much to wear out and about and would be better for bedroom play or perhaps search for a more practical packer.

This is very realistic and detailed, from the definition of the head down to the wrinkles and shape of the scrotum/testicles. I wouldn't travel with it unless you keep it in your pants and pass as male. It does pass the squeeze/patdown test with flying colors.

Compared to the Mr. Limpy size small they are nearly the same. Pictured left is Mr. Right in vanilla, it has a more prominent ridge down the shaft. Mr. Limpy is a very unrealistic bubblegum pink shade, has smaller balls, and is much squishier. It also has a strange smell and almost oily feel that Mr. Right does not.

The performance of Mr. Right is just that, right. I'm not a fan of how firm the silicone is and how large the packer is itself since it can create too much of a bulge though. You can use a harness or a jock strap but I just tucked it in to my boxer briefs. It is comfortable and the silicone warms quickly to your body temperature. This packer is purely for show though. It cannot be used for penetration nor as an STP device.

There is nothing discreet about Mr. Right. It is blatantly a dildo, even if a soft packing kind.

The Mr. Right is silicone so no silicone lube of any kind should be used, although as it is not meant for penetration I can't think of any circumstances when you would need to use a lubricant on it. It is fairly easy to take care of, washing it off after wearing the packer out or spraying it down with a toy cleaner is the best way I've found to clean it. There is a weak spot near the base of the shaft where it connects to the balls so be careful about it tearing over time. It comes in a hardshell box that you can store it in, though it is clear and not discreet in the packaging.

This comes in a hardshell box that you can store it in, though it is clear and not discreet in the packaging. It would make a great gift, especially for your trans* SO or anyone in to gender play. There are minimal instructions as there aren't any special functions to it, just a straight packer.