The Love Rider, by Cal Ex, is a really nice double-ended "sharing" dildo, that is designed for strapless strap-on fun. Made of a really nice, smooth, and firm silicone, the Love Rider is a quality product at a very reasonable price. The Love Rider is meant to be worn by a female-bodied person who can wear this in the vagina. The wearer's end is bulbous enough that with decent kegel muscle strength, this will stay in with little effort on the wearer's part. It can be worn with a harness if you need a little stability; however I would recommend a harness that is easily adjustable and that can be adjusted to hold the dildo fairly low on the crotch.

The Love Rider is made of a really great, firm silicone. This is extra fun because it's fully sanitizable, and for those of you who engage in pegging, this is really a nice feature. You can sanitize this by putting it in boiling water for a few minutes, the top rack of your dishwasher (sans soap), or even a 10% bleach solution as long as you completely wash off the bleach before sticking this back in your body. I recommend a water-based lube for this toy. It is a possibility that silicone lubes could damage your toy. If you're hell-bent on silicone lube, I recommend a toy cover or spot-testing it to avoid degradation.

There is a seam in the silicone, but I did not notice it at all and neither did Mr. The shaft of the Love Rider also has a ridge on the top of the shaft. Mr is not a big fan of that ridge. It's not angled sharply, but it is defined enough to be uncomfortable. I did not notice this vaginally. Mr did enjoy the firmness of the silicone. It was not so firm that it was unyielding, like glass or steel; but it was firm enough that it provided enough pressure the the P-spot.

The "gun-like" shape to the Love Rider also makes this an easy toy to use solo. Whether you're using this anally or vaginally, the bulb provides a great handle for thrusting. The pointed tip, I found, was not enough of a curve for G-spot play; however, Mr did enjoy it for P-spotting. The length of the shaft and the firmness, I did find to be pleasurable for vaginal/A-spot orgasms. Another bonus to the "handle" is that if for some reason (such as angle) this doesn't work as intended, you can easily use this on your partner and thrust with your hands.

The shape is also not phallic at all. This is a very appealing alternative for those who aren't into penises. The size of this toy ranges, based on your experience, from modest to large. The insertable bulb is about 3.5 inches long. The length of the shaft is about 8 inches. The circumference is 5 inches at the widest part. I was not aroused wearing the dildo internally, nor was I turned off. It was just OK.

As far as discretion, since there are no mechanics,it's very quiet. The shape is, as I said a second ago, not phallic, so there's a good chance that, unless someone who is into toys finds it, no one is going to know what it is or how it's used.