Weighted orgasm balls - vaginal balls by Cal Exotics - review by meezerosity

Big Heavy Balls of Steel...Literally

Overall these took some getting used to and I have still not mastered them but I do like them and I think I'll learn to like them even more. I would not recommend these for beginners, they are just too big and heavy unless you have been doing kegels for a long time and are used to the sensation. I'd start with a smaller, less weighty exerciser as your first set and work your way up.
easy to care for/store, size, smooth
heavy, large, not for beginners
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


These are certainly not for the faint of heart. They're much bigger than the standard size and very heavy. I was skeptical that I'd be able to handle them at first but I've practiced a bit and I have gotten the hang of it. I would not recommend these for beginners due to the weight and size at all. They're for vaginal exercising mostly, though some people do leave them in during external masturbation I have not tried it that way. I feel like they are too big and heavy for me personally to use them that way.

They are steel, so any lubricant will work fine if you need some to help with the exercising and insertion. They're also very very easy to clean, just a quick soap and water wash or spritz with toy cleaner. NOT for anal insertion, these could easily get lost. I don't know why they say that on the packaging, I hope it was an error that will soon be remedied.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Solo
    • Travel friendly
  • Where
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    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly
  • Body / part areas
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    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Kegels

Material / Texture

The material is cold, hard, smooth steel. Very smooth and shiny. It quickly warms to your body temperature though you can hold it in your hand for a while first if you aren't keen on inserting cold metal into your vagina. The weight is definitely not for beginners unless you already have strong pelvic floor muscles to begin with. I couldn't handle them at first but with a bit of practice on something smaller I managed to work my way up to them. Steel has no odor at all, so there's nothing to worry about there and these are not porous at all either.
    • No odor
    • Not porous at all
    • Smooth

Design / Shape / Size

I like the design, just simple steel orgasm balls. The diameter is about 7/8" which is a bit larger than most of the others. They are twice as heavy as the other set of ben wa balls I have too. It's discreet, I suppose. Unless someone was familiar with orgasm/ben wa balls they wouldn't really know what they are but they might question why you have a pair of large steel balls. They came in a cute mesh drawstring pouch for storage. You could travel with them easily as they are small and easy to tuck away.
    • Discreet look/design


I like these overall but the major downside is the weight. I feel that even for a more advanced user they are just too heavy to use standing upright. I had no issues laying on my side or sitting down but gravity combined with the weight, no matter how hard I tried I just couldn't keep them in long enough to really work with them. They are easy to use in theory though and they're just your basic set of vaginal exercise balls.
    • Easy to use

Care and Maintenance

These require very little to care for, just clean them before and after use with soap and water or a toy cleaner. They were packaged in a cardboard box and came with a lavender colored mesh drawstring pouch for storage which I keep them in. The material is steel so they are compatible with any lubricant you choose if you need to use some, which is nice. Not at all porous and unless you have a severe nickel allergy it is a very body friendly material. Keep in mind that steel is an alloy which does contain nickel though, some people that are allergic to cheaper jewelry generally are sensitive to nickel. If you are using these longer term and have a nickel allergy you may experience some irritation depending on the severity of your allergy so it's good to be informed.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store


The packaging is not at all discreet, it clearly states on the front of the box what they are in large lettering. There were some basic instructions included but not really required as this is a more general item, if you aren't sure how to use orgasm balls a quick internet search will pop up several tutorials. The box could be wrapped as a gift but I wouldn't store it in the box itself. I store them in the pouch that was provided and threw away the box.
    • Good for storage
    • Minimal
    • Not discreet

Personal comments

My huge issue with this was that on the package it said suitable for vaginal and anal use. These are not safe for anal use and I think this was possibly a printing error. I do not recommend them for anal use at all. They do not have a string, loop, or other retrieval method and could easily get lost.


My first few uses of these were difficult. I still cannot use them standing up but laying on my side and sitting down are fine. I hope to work my way up to using them standing but I feel like the weight and gravity are against me on this one.
Follow-up commentary
After using these more frequently and strengthening my kegels I've managed to keep them in longer and find better use of them. I can use them standing for about 5 minutes which is far better than before where they fell out in under 1 minute due to gravity and just not being able to hold them in.

I still do not recommend them for beginners due to size and weight but if you have tried smaller, lighter vaginal exercisers these would be the next step up and a nice set to try. I have definitely noticed an increase in the strength of my pelvic floor muscles but I haven't noticed a significant difference in my orgasm though.
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  • Kate
    Wow, really good to know that the packaging says that these are good for anal when they most definitely are NOT safe for anal use. Hopefully the company fixes the packaging! Great review! Thanks for sharing
  • ksparkles16
    Great review!
  • Jimbo Jones
    The product page says that these are nickel free. Is that stated on the packaging at all? One of the stock photos makes these look as if they are almost pearl colored, is that a mistake? Thanks for the great review.
  • Jon S
    ty for the review
  • meezerosity
    I did not see that it was nickel-free on the package, thank you for pointing that out. They definitely shiny metal, not pearl colored at all. That may have been a trick of the lighting.
  • roskat
    Thanks for the review. I just ordered these for myself. I won't be sticking them up my bum though, no matter what the package says.
  • animepanda89
    good review
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  • PassionCpl
    Great review and thanks for including the heads up about anal. I can't believe that's even mentioned on the packaging!
  • Dirtydiggins
  • Kristi :)
    thank you for a great review!
  • GingerSpice
    great info!! thanks for also following up
  • RedFreak
    thanx for sharing
  • Real or memorex
    Thanks for the review!
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