Good Starter Toy For Those Who Want To Fly

This was a fun introduction into vibrators for us. As we used it, we learned what we do and do not like. For instance, I need something with longer length and possibly stronger vibrations.

While this may not be perfect, it still makes our time together more fulfilling for both of us.
Great value for price
Good starter toy
Great for partners
Variety of vibration speeds
Easy to cl
Needs more length
Could use stronger vibrations
Rating by reviewer:
useful review


After 30+ years of marriage, we decided to spice up our life with some "toys". This was the first one we bought and we chose it because it would stimulate both the clitoris and the G-spot.

As a plus-size woman, I would not be able to use this toy by myself. My arms are simply too short to handle it well. However, using it with my partner was a blast for both of us. He enjoyed watching my face as the vibrations increased and I, well I just plain enjoyed it! Days later, I still think about how it felt and look forward to using it again.
  • Who / How / What
    [ ? ]
    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Everyone
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • G-spot

Material / Texture

I was always hesitant to consider adding toys to our relationship because I pictured them as being hard and inflexible and I thought any toys would feel alien and uncomfortable.
However, this felt natural (although small) when we used it. It is fairly flexible and adapted well to my body.
    • Flexible
    • Smooth

Design / Shape / Size

My favorite part of this toy's design is the bulb head. It was a perfect size for stimulation and was easy to grab hold of with my muscles.

I enjoyed the vibrations and the fact that there were different levels of vibration. The variety enhanced the experience as things progressed.

It wasn't until the second time we used this that we learned how to use the butterfly for maximum effect. I enjoyed the butterfly, however, it did not seem to be placed quite right for my full satisfaction. I believe this is because the Butterfly Kiss is too short for maximum benefit for a larger woman like me. Because the main shaft is not long enough, you have to hold it at an awkward angle and the antennae do not stimulate the proper areas.

If the shaft had an additional 2"-3" of length, full figured women like myself would probably enjoy it much more.
    • Beginner
    • Partner play

Functions / Performance / Controls

The vibrations are evenly spread throughout the shaft, so I do recommend it as a G-spot stimulator. At times it can be hard to control the vibration settings if you are not used to using it. It can be hard to find the button to change speeds during use.

Additionally, this item has too much drag to be used for external foreplay. I recommend it for internal use only.

This is your basic, traditional "insert here" vaginal sex toy. Great for beginners who don't need anything exotic.

If you don't need much length or super strong vibrations, this is a good basic toy to start with.
    • Easy to use
    • Multiple settings
    • Not very discreet

Care and Maintenance

Made with TPR, this can be cleaned with warm water and soap. It doesn't seem to pick up much lint or have a strong odor, so you can probably store it just about anywhere.

The batteries are easy to change.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store
Follow-up commentary
I still love this product and continue to recommend it as a first toy to newbies. While it is not our most powerful toy---nor is it our most-used toy---it has a special place in our sex life.

While my husband usually picks our toys, I now ask him to use this one first as a warm-up if we haven't had sex in two to three days. I find that its smaller size is very comfortable to start out with, and the clitoral stimulation works very well at helping to build the mood for some fun.

I've thought a few times about what I will do if it ever breaks and I've decided that for the low price, I would definitely replace it because of its use in cases like this.

I am so glad that this was our first toy because it was a great introduction to how much fun sex could be with just a bit of extra help from toys.

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