Masochistic masturbation techniques

Contributor: oohlookasquirrel oohlookasquirrel
I'm just getting to know my masochistic side, and I really want to have some painful sexual encounters. Unfortunately, my dom is on the other side of the Atlantic for the next few months, and I'm not ready for another play partner at this point. Receiving pain while masturbating is proving to be tricky. I don't have the urge to inflict pain, so hurting myself sort of ruins the moment for me. I'm just not a sadist. I like clothespins on my tits and cunt because they seem to have minds of their own; after I place them, they keep hurting me while I leave them alone. Unfortunately, the clothespins are getting a little predictable. I need something else to work with.

Are there any other masochists out there who have found a way to experiment with pain solo, without having to spend a lot of effort and attention topping yourself?
05/15/2014
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Contributor: HouseWench HouseWench
Nails, a wartenburg wheel (also called a neurowheel), and figging must be my favorites by far
05/16/2014
Contributor: dv8 dv8
Mr. S. Leather has a set of cuffs that use ice- you freeze water in the cuffs, then they unlock when the ice melts. You can use them for self-bondage for some masochistic masturbation.
05/16/2014
Contributor: lilswitch lilswitch
I second figging. You might want to consider different types of clothespins. There are some plastic ones that are stronger. Also, real nipple clamps. I've heard the clover ones are the most intense.
06/20/2014
Contributor: anyankaleigh anyankaleigh
You can imitate (sorta) the feeling of a blow by taking an elastic, around your waist, arm, thigh, breast, etc and snapping it down. Doesn't have the psychological hold-up of trying to actually beat yourself.

I also usually find that scratching myself (esp nipples and clit) works
07/21/2014