Calling all helpful advise

Contributor: J's Alley J's Alley
Ok, so my very best friend and her husband are interested in reversing rolls. They want a strap on and they really want to experiment. I have NO experience with strap-ons so I need your help. I am considering ordering one for them. They called me asking about it (they know everything about my lifestyle), but I really know nothing about using a strap-on. So can I get some advise from some people experienced with them please?
03/13/2010
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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03/13/2010
Contributor: LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
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Originally posted by J's Alley
Ok, so my very best friend and her husband are interested in reversing rolls. They want a strap on and they really want to experiment. I have NO experience with strap-ons so I need your help. I am considering ordering one for them. They called me ... more
I don't have any experience either, but I helped my sister pick out her first strap on the other night. She decided on the Vibrating Corsette Harness link and the Tantus Silk in small link. The harness was her choice, and I helped her pick out a dildo small enough for her boyfriend to start with. The set also fit into her budget.

I hope that's helpful.
03/13/2010
Contributor: J's Alley J's Alley
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Originally posted by LikeSunshineDust
I don't have any experience either, but I helped my sister pick out her first strap on the other night. She decided on the Vibrating Corsette Harness link and the Tantus Silk in small link. The harness was her choice, and I helped her pick out a ... more
That one is really pretty, AND her favorite color. I will show it to her and see what she thinks

OMG...advice...nice. I can't spell today.
03/13/2010
Contributor: Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
Awesome suggestions, LikeSunshineDust! For some one without experience you did a nice job shopping with your sister. My one comment with that strap on is that it is pretty feminine, and if there is any condition under which he might want to use it on her, he's might be less likely to do so because of how it looks.
Your next question is why would he want to use it on her? Well, a strap on and harness can be used above his penis so that he can double penetrate her or if he is already spent he can strap on a dildo to finish the job for her.
I guess I should suggest an alternative harness if I am going to point this out, so I will say: link
The Flame Harness Kit might work as well: link
The New Comers Strap On Kit would probably be good if they were trying to save some money: link
03/14/2010
Contributor: LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
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Originally posted by Jimbo Jones
Awesome suggestions, LikeSunshineDust! For some one without experience you did a nice job shopping with your sister. My one comment with that strap on is that it is pretty feminine, and if there is any condition under which he might want to use it on ... more
You bring up a really good point, Jim. My sister only mentioned her wearing it (She ended up getting it in black, but that's out of stock now). I was glad to help her pick one out. My boyfriend won't let me peg him, so I got to live vicariously though someone else
03/14/2010