Anal or vaginal,which do guys prefer

Contributor: dbtracy dbtracy
Sex is great with my husband but he always wants anal so I am worried that he isn't satisfied with vaginal sex any longer.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I prefer vaginal
I prefer anal
A little of both
Total votes: 150 (142 voters)
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Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
From my standpoint, anal sex can be better than vaginal because 1. it's considered naughty and kinky, so it's more arousing, and 2. it is generally tighter, and thus feels better. I enjoy both, and there are certainly times when I very much prefer one or the other.
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I second that...
Contributor: Yoda Yoda
I love anal, but couldn't live without my wife's vjj.
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Both feel different. Perhaps your husband is interested in the novelty of anal, or perhaps something else, but I'd imagine that things will probably level out eventually.
Contributor: Crash Crash
If only I could get my gf to try it. I don't want to force her but I feel like it would add to our sexlife. She has vaginismus or something too, which as caused problems for us before...
Contributor: That Guy That Guy
Anal requires way too much prep, and I've always got to be more gentle. I like to mix it up, but if anal were better, we'd never bother paying for birth control.
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
My guy likes both. I like both, too, so it works out.
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
My guy enjoys both but vaginal sex is less of a hassle and he prefers that to anal sex.
Contributor: Miguel M. Miguel M.
I like both. There's no way around it, a tighter sensation feels so much better...and anal is without a doubt...the tightest entry point in a woman's body.

However, with that said, if she's not into it then I can skip anal. I do give respect to my lovers.

Side note:

For women, this is a really tough situation. A woman's vagina can change over time for several reasons. Giving birth has been known to enlarge the vagina, but so can living la vida loca--having multiple partners. Both are considered taboo to talk about, but it does occur. There is also the phrase a "dropped vagina/uterus" that explains an extreme condition of this. Porn actress Sasha Grey performed with porn actor Diesel in one porn video in where near the end of a scene he yells out "...make that pussy tighter!" and begins to stimulate her clitoris with his fingers because her vagina was too wide. He was hoping that would tighten her vagina. He is about 6 feet tall, with an estimated 11 to 14 inch erection, and she about 5 feet 2 inches tall and weighs around 110 pounds. Again, it is taboo and medical experts, pastors, and counselors immediately jump in to say that isn't so...but it is true...I've got buds that talk about this sort of thing. Their sex lives are no longer fun, BUT those men don't want to go to another woman. So they ask what can they do. Read on for my suggestion. Please note, I do not guarantee that this will work but it is worth a try.

The remedy:
About 9 nine years ago I had a lover that was so talented in bed that I still remember her movements while she rode on top of me cowgirl style. She could squeeze and maneuver her PC muscles around my erection like no other lady I have had the pleasure of making love to. So, I asked her where did she learn those techniques...the answer was not what I expected. To my surprise, she had read a HOW TO book, a guide for women on how to satisfy their man...however, it was advice, yes mostly from a female author, but some of that advice was from a gay man that gave insights on what the female reader could do with her vagina to have maximum effect on the male shaft. The book also gave advice on oral sex. She was excellently skilled at that as well. Apparently, there were 2 competing books that were released at the same time. She read them both to gather as much info on techniques to satisfy her man.

She said it was the best money she had ever invested in. I don't doubt it for a second.

I bring that up because it could be VERY useful for couples that are on opposite ends of the question "to have or not to have anal." If she can learn new may save a relationship.

Perhaps, Eden Fantasys can look into it and locate those books for our members to purchase.

Miguel M.
Contributor: ihavenipples ihavenipples
I voted vaginal because I want it ten times a day, every day. On the other hand, every once in a while I've got to feel a womans ass pressed against me and that sphincter wrapped around me. The single most amazing sexual moment of my life was just before orgasm during a long anal session. To me it's still an occasional thing. All that said,Vaginal sex is the still the bee's knees as Lois would say. Vaginas are just great.
Contributor: Blooddragon Blooddragon
Originally posted by dbtracy
Sex is great with my husband but he always wants anal so I am worried that he isn't satisfied with vaginal sex any longer.
I prefer vaginal but anal is always fun to throw in the mix
I prefer Vag to anal. Mainly because the vag is pre-lubed, and not prep is necessary. with anal, there is the prep work and added lube, and the discomfort (I get feelings of guilt when it is uncomfortable and not satisfying to my wife, so I really don't both her for anal except once or twice a year when I get urges for kinky, and she understands. i stick with the vag, I can go as fast and as hard as I want without a wimper of remorse or regret from my wife, and she enjoys it, so we are both happy.
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
I love both but vaginal is first with some anal every now n then
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
Originally posted by dbtracy
Sex is great with my husband but he always wants anal so I am worried that he isn't satisfied with vaginal sex any longer.
He probably wants anal all the time because it's not what he's getting all the time.

I know for me I want my wife's ass because I want all of her. I'm a man who loves cuming in every orafice of her body that's designed to please a cock. I find her taking my cum in every hole to be not only erotic, but highly romantic knowing a part of me is left inside her.

I know some women here feel the same way about their men. They find the idea of their man filling each of their holes very intimate and romantic. The fact that they can please their man with more than just one part of their bodies.

Don't be so hung up on what part of your body he wants to make love to, it's all still your body and you should be proud that you are providing your husband such a pleasure with it. Just make sure he gives you pleasure in whatever way you desire in return.
Contributor: bobowaxer bobowaxer
Originally posted by Hallmar82
I second that...
I'll make it three...I feel exactly the same.
Contributor: tammyandy69 tammyandy69
We just like the option of being able to choose. Being the guy half of our relationship I will say that is exactly what it's all about...verity. If you nalways have grilled gets boring but through a little ham in there..and wow it's a whole new ball still love grilled cheese..but something different is way cool
Contributor: DPierced DPierced
As a man; I LOVE vaginal. I also LOVE anal. My ex GF also LOVED anal; and I foundd she would actually orgasm harder that way. I found that almost every sex session would involve both. She'd frequently suggest anal while on her period; even though she knew I had no compunctions about 'going in' during that time. plus she was very finicky about letting me ejaculate inside her vagina; but the moment she whispered "you can cum in my ass; if you want"...well; I did.
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Originally posted by dbtracy
Sex is great with my husband but he always wants anal so I am worried that he isn't satisfied with vaginal sex any longer.
Contributor: ID42 ID42
I love both and more often than not, don't just want one or the other. My husband on the other hand is happy any way it goes...
Contributor: PersonalAngel PersonalAngel
both at once! Use your partner and a toy
Contributor: beautifulpierced beautifulpierced
my husband almost begs for anal but i have never seen him desperate for vaginal sex.. idk i feel the same way sometimes. so im going to vote for him.. anal
Contributor: extrafun extrafun
I didnt vote because i have never been let to give my wife anal. Ive always wanted to just to see what is was like but she says im just to big for her. Your husband is probley not getting tired of vaginal, but more likely likes something different and maybe a little taboo
Contributor: Texas Steel Texas Steel
I like both. I love giving my wife anal because of the taboo factor, and she has very intense orgasms from anal sex. But I also like vaginal sex for all of the usual reasons. One drawback to anal for us is that I always use a condom, otherwise I get a prostate infection which can be difficult to cure.
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
We usually do vaginal just because it's easier and less messy, but I love both. They're both fun in their own ways and the taboo of anal sex is really a turn on!
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Originally posted by Vaccinium
From my standpoint, anal sex can be better than vaginal because 1. it's considered naughty and kinky, so it's more arousing, and 2. it is generally tighter, and thus feels better. I enjoy both, and there are certainly times when I very much ... more
Anal is also tighter for the man, as you observe, but is thus more intense a feeling for me, the woman....but thankfully we love both!!
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
My man prefers vaginal, with the occasional foray into anal, but he also says he's got to work oral in there too. lol
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
Surprisingly, upon asking my hubby, he replied that he loves vaginal the most. I always thought a man would like anal. It's funny that I never knew this. I enjoy anal sex but I might offer my ass up a little less often if I had known he liked my pussy more. He said it feels nicer and has more texture inside?
Contributor: That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
Anal is certainly tighter. We're working up to that point.