Straight guys and anal sex

Contributor: Xarien Xarien
I myself am bisexual and have enjoyed the wonders of receiving anal sex from both male and female partners for several years. But I've also known a few straight friends that have enjoyed it as well.

I'm curious as to how straight guys tend to come upon this discovery. Did you have an adventurous lover at some point that experimented on you? Did a stray vibration from something catch your attention? Or were you simply curious about your sexuality or the sensations and experimented on yourself at some point?

As a side note, keep in mind that I do mean anal sex (legitimate in and out thrusting of a dildo or similarly hard/phallic object) and not just the use of a prostate massager.
10/29/2012
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Contributor: luvslukin luvslukin
I think it was a combination of a few things.

I had seen some strap-on porn (at the time only in magazines)and knew the thought excited me. I was/am extremely sexually curious, so eventually I tried a dildo in my butt and was able to come from that alone. It felt REALLY good.

Later I had a bisexual GF that had been seeing a dykey lesbian that was using a strap-on on her, but wouldn't let my GF return the favor. One night in bed she told me of her desire to use a strap-on on me. This was something I would have NEVER asked for, but when she told me she wanted to do it, I was ALL for it!!

Needless to say we tried it and I enjoyed it and it is something I have kept as part of my regular (solo and partner) play ever since.
10/29/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
I find it so odd that there's this stigma against any anal pleasure for a man, because it supposedly indicates latent homosexuality. I get why guys, even if they are interested in it, are hesitant to ask for it from their female partners though, because they don't want to be seen as in the closet, or have it get out that they enjoy anal. I make little connection between anal pleasure and homosexuality--there are many ways that two people, gay, straight, or whatever, can engage each other sexually. I have even had gay friends confess to me that they don't enjoy anal sex, and it really bothered them...like they believe that they couldn't legitimately identify as gay without it.

So given the stigma, I'm interested to see other's thoughts on this as well. How did you open up that Pandora's box, guys?
10/29/2012
Contributor: Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
Quote:
Originally posted by Xarien
I myself am bisexual and have enjoyed the wonders of receiving anal sex from both male and female partners for several years. But I've also known a few straight friends that have enjoyed it as well.

I'm curious as to how straight guys ... more
My partner's a straight guy and likes receiving buttsex. I think the biggest factors are that firstly, he's with me. I like experimenting and make sure we have a very sex-positive and exploration-positive atmosphere. He knew he could try it and that I wouldn't judge him or tease him or question his sexual orientation. Secondly, we found this really wonderful article about pegging for straight men. It's about how all men still have prostates and can still feel anal pleasure even if they're not interested in other men. The way many lesbian couples use dildos or penetrate one another with their fingers without needing/wanting an actual man/phallus, straight dudes can enjoy anal stimulation without being gay. So, anyway, we really love this article and it really explains where a lot of straight couples who are into pegging come from. Since then, he'd been really excited about trying it, and I usually give him a bj at the same time (which is something you can probably assume he loves).
11/05/2012
Contributor: Svenson Svenson
Straight guy throwing in my input. I wasn't curious about my sexuality, and have always known that I was attracted to the female form.

I am primarily attracted to women and always have been. But, around Junior year in high school (I'm in sophomore year of college now) I discovered what transsexuals were. I'm still very much into women, but am also very attracted to some MtF transsexuals (pre-op, but only if they look completely like a woman otherwise).

Up until this time the most I had really done was finger play down there, because I am open to exploring my body and the sensations it can feel. But this new found interest led to me, eventually, buying my first toy and it's added a lot to my self-pleasure life. I probably used some kind of phallic object before getting my first toy, but nothing long lasting that I can remember.
03/10/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Mine was in the ER. Doctor had to get a specimen. I was in severe stomach pain. Her digging and curling of the knuckles on the way out gave me a erection.
03/10/2015
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
My friend's husband is straight as hell, and they do pegging. xP Me and my partner are both bi and curious about it too though.
12/06/2015
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
Quote:
Originally posted by Xarien
I myself am bisexual and have enjoyed the wonders of receiving anal sex from both male and female partners for several years. But I've also known a few straight friends that have enjoyed it as well.

I'm curious as to how straight guys ... more
My experience started with my wife rubbing 1 of her vibrators in that area on me while going down on me and the feeling I got when I got ready to get off was amazing. We have since then got a prostate massager and plug and a strap on and have used both the plug and massager several times. The strap on only once so far tho but hopefully more to come with it
12/06/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Andykh
My experience started with my wife rubbing 1 of her vibrators in that area on me while going down on me and the feeling I got when I got ready to get off was amazing. We have since then got a prostate massager and plug and a strap on and have used ... more
Andykh, finally. See, told you, patience, patience my friend.
12/06/2015
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Andykh, finally. See, told you, patience, patience my friend.
Yes u did lol
12/06/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Quote:
Originally posted by Andykh
My experience started with my wife rubbing 1 of her vibrators in that area on me while going down on me and the feeling I got when I got ready to get off was amazing. We have since then got a prostate massager and plug and a strap on and have used ... more
Good for you! I'm happy for you Andykh!
12/06/2015
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
Thank ya thank ya thank ya very much lol
12/06/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Andykh
Thank ya thank ya thank ya very much lol
No, you mean thank her !

Hope to see you start a thread on this soon. How about something in the way of how it affect her and your relationship.
12/06/2015
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
Lol ok I will do
12/06/2015
Contributor: acelen acelen
Hey, I, myself also enjoy doing anal. It is my stress reliever sometimes.
03/27/2018
Contributor: Redpath 48 Redpath 48
Quote:
Originally posted by Xarien
I myself am bisexual and have enjoyed the wonders of receiving anal sex from both male and female partners for several years. But I've also known a few straight friends that have enjoyed it as well.

I'm curious as to how straight guys ... more
Actually, It was my physician that turned the tables for me. It was suspected I might have prostate cancer; apparently I failed all the tests. Too large, too hard, too high PSA, and finally too young to be experiencing this problem.
I had several biopsies, all with questionable results. After a couple years, it was determined I did not have cancer. I had other issues, and that was taken care of with surgery. Where this left me, was after two years of regular anal penetration by one physician or another went from mortification to not that unpleasant. In fact, I really have to admit I kind of looked forward to the pressure I felt.
This led me down the road to anal plugs, and eventually dildos. I began quite small and graduated over the years in size. I have had my use a strap-on with me, a task she isn’t excited about, but she helped me out just the same. I no longer put her in that position and use a dildo on myself a couple times a month while she is at the gym.
I would consider myself to be heterosexual, but have also wondered about taking another mans penis in my hands or mouth or even what it might feel like to be penetrated by a real human penis.
04/05/2018
Contributor: ToyTimTim ToyTimTim
I was taught at an early age to know my body inside and out, my mom may have beat it into me for health type reasons but I took to mean learn all I can. Self exploration was an early adventure for me so when I started puberty it was very natural to explore the new world. At the time (35 years ago, different social age entirely) I couldn't help but wonder why a guy would want a penis in his ass so I gave it a try. I used my hair brush handle and some lotion... that wad hit me in the face.
04/10/2018
Contributor: SexyBigEars69 SexyBigEars69
Ran into pegging while looking at lesbian porn
06/06/2018
Contributor: SoloRebel SoloRebel
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10/02/2018
Contributor: onlyiturnedbad onlyiturnedbad
Quote:
Originally posted by Xarien
I myself am bisexual and have enjoyed the wonders of receiving anal sex from both male and female partners for several years. But I've also known a few straight friends that have enjoyed it as well.

I'm curious as to how straight guys ... more
exactly my ex started out with a very small pair of anal beads I live alone now love movies and I have a large toys inventor. i wish I had login earlier I broke out all brand new toys I read somewhere the question was how big you go I have an 18 inch 1 1/2 inches in diameter that went all the way . that wasn’t enough I then took the 12 1/2 pounds and should have diameter with veins and balls all the ways that was two of them to top it off a 9 1/2 inch with balls One and three-quarter inch in diameter and penetrated also the feeling was completely incredible I know this may sound really bad there’s a lot of people but don’t lock her in to try .I made a huge anal beads on a 1” broom handle is in several different things I space balls a part where I’d like them a diameter smaller to large I Purchased several penis extensions I pulled it over the balls double the diameter .I would love to share this with photos with someone
10/03/2018
Contributor: onlyiturnedbad onlyiturnedbad
Quote:
Originally posted by Xarien
I myself am bisexual and have enjoyed the wonders of receiving anal sex from both male and female partners for several years. But I've also known a few straight friends that have enjoyed it as well.

I'm curious as to how straight guys ... more
exactly my ex started out with a very small pair of anal beads I live alone movies and I have a large stock of anal toys today I wish I had come across this site earlier I broke everything out all brand new toys I read somewhere the question was how big you go I have an 18 inch 1 1/2 inches in diameter that went all the way . that wasn’t enough I then took the 12 1/2 pounds and should have diameter with veins and balls all the ways that was two of them to top it off a 9 1/2 inch with balls One and three-quarter inch in diameter and penetrated also the feeling was completely incredible I know this may sound really bad there’s a lot of people but don’t lock her in to try .I made aahomemade
10/03/2018
Contributor: Love getting pegged Love getting pegged
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Originally posted by onlyiturnedbad
exactly my ex started out with a very small pair of anal beads I live alone movies and I have a large stock of anal toys today I wish I had come across this site earlier I broke everything out all brand new toys I read somewhere the question was how ... more
Well me and my wife love it and we are both straight my wife Love's screwing my ass almost as much as I love getting it it feels so good that P Spot orgasm which maybe all men cannot hit it and as far as a toy we use it is 10 and 1/2 in long and Serta Bowl and 9 inch girth we have done this so much that's what size I am up to
11/14/2018
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Love getting pegged
Well me and my wife love it and we are both straight my wife Love's screwing my ass almost as much as I love getting it it feels so good that P Spot orgasm which maybe all men cannot hit it and as far as a toy we use it is 10 and 1/2 in long and ... more
For the math challenged out there the 9" he refers to as 'girth' would be the circumference which translates into almost 3" diameter (circumference divided by Pi gives you diameter and inversely Pi times diameter gives you circumference).
11/14/2018
Contributor: Smooth69 Smooth69
I love using anal toys especially my 8” veined vibrating dildo ! I suctioncup it to a wall lube it up and bang it hard !
Until I get a body shaking orgasm
I’m hoping to get my wife to peg me soon
My hole is begging for it !
11/28/2018