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Contributor: Gingy Gingy
So me and my partner (lesbians) want a dildo that is not penis shaped or looking in anyway like a penis. Why is this so hard to find or is there something out there? Preferably strapable.
My partner likes me driving her but doesn't like the look of anything we have come across.

anyone else in this boat?
11/23/2011
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
Quote:
Originally posted by Gingy
So me and my partner (lesbians) want a dildo that is not penis shaped or looking in anyway like a penis. Why is this so hard to find or is there something out there? Preferably strapable.
My partner likes me driving her but doesn't like the ... more
Have you seen the Tantus Silk series? They're just tubular with a slight curve (not really like a penis) and they're very good quality.
11/23/2011
Contributor: LQ LQ
Quote:
Originally posted by Gingy
So me and my partner (lesbians) want a dildo that is not penis shaped or looking in anyway like a penis. Why is this so hard to find or is there something out there? Preferably strapable.
My partner likes me driving her but doesn't like the ... more
Well, any dildo is going to be kinda-sorta "penis shaped" in terms of being generally cylindrical and all. Are you looking for an unusual shape? Or just something that's non-realistic?

Tantus has a number of nice strapables that are really plain, if that is helpful.

Silk Medium

Is that the sort of thing you're looking for? Or do you prefer more texture? Or a different shape? Easier to point you in the right direction with a little more detail.

If you look under Dildos > Strap-On, and then sort by company for Tantus, you'll see several that might appeal.
11/23/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by Gingy
So me and my partner (lesbians) want a dildo that is not penis shaped or looking in anyway like a penis. Why is this so hard to find or is there something out there? Preferably strapable.
My partner likes me driving her but doesn't like the ... more
i am TOTALLY in that boat. only one of these is strap-on compatible but..

heres some of my favorites:


reflections cool, glass g-spot dildo by doc johnson


bandito by fun factory

Curve by fun factory



double ended g-spot bump and swirl glass dildo




enjoy!
11/23/2011
Contributor: LQ LQ
Ooh, I've never seen that Reflections Cool. It's gorgeous!
11/23/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
it's brand new. i love mine.
11/24/2011
Contributor: jedent jedent
go for the tentacle!
11/24/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
It's not available on Eden anymore (discontinued by the manufacturer), but there are still some sites which have the Fun Factory Wave in stock.



That's one of my favorite non-realistic strappables. The Silks have far too little texture, imo.
11/24/2011
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
How about the Tantus Tiger? link
11/25/2011
Contributor: hyperballad hyperballad
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Originally posted by Antipova
It's not available on Eden anymore (discontinued by the manufacturer), but there are still some sites which have the Fun Factory Wave in stock.



That's one of my favorite non-realistic strappables. The Silks have far too little ... more
That looks so great - especially those ridges omg
11/25/2011
Contributor: Gingy Gingy
Thanks for all the suggestions, my partner is still being picky so I think Im just going to order something and keep the lights out....They should really make more non-phallic designs.
I dont know how or what of but the fun factory wave would have been fun even if it looks a little like a melting penis!
11/29/2011
Contributor: ehue1992 ehue1992
They have a banana shape silicon toy on here that I've been thinking about a lot lately
11/30/2011
Contributor: Gingy Gingy
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Originally posted by ehue1992
They have a banana shape silicon toy on here that I've been thinking about a lot lately
lol i love that toy I totally forgot about it thanks for the reminder
11/30/2011
Contributor: jessi2 jessi2
we are in this boat for sure.. we generally buy a weird colored dong, and have been known to cut off the balls on a few to make it less realistic.
12/11/2011
Contributor: deae04 deae04
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Originally posted by jessi2
we are in this boat for sure.. we generally buy a weird colored dong, and have been known to cut off the balls on a few to make it less realistic.
this is amazing. i never thought to do that and have always just avoided toys with balls. scissors? or a hacksaw?
12/11/2011
Contributor: Utamey Utamey
Quote:
Originally posted by LQ
Well, any dildo is going to be kinda-sorta "penis shaped" in terms of being generally cylindrical and all. Are you looking for an unusual shape? Or just something that's non-realistic?

Tantus has a number of nice strapables ... more
I know this was written ages ago, but firstly, thank you for showing me that make because it's utterly beautiful and exactly what I've been looking for. Secondly! OP was rather clear about what she meant by non-realistic. She just doesn't want it to look like a penis. You know, with a head and the veins. A cylindrical, textureless dildo does a pretty good job at not looking like it's got a guy attached to it.
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