Butt plug for girls

Contributor: shepegsME shepegsME
Any suggestions? My girl wants one to use during sex. Not too big, but not too small, just right. She wants the filling feeling during intercourse and not the thrusting. Figured a BP was the best option.
07/02/2010
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
I like this one.

It could be a little big, but that's something you'll have to use your best judgment on.
07/02/2010
Contributor: Victoria Victoria
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Originally posted by shepegsME
Any suggestions? My girl wants one to use during sex. Not too big, but not too small, just right. She wants the filling feeling during intercourse and not the thrusting. Figured a BP was the best option.
I know I always suggest this one, but I really think it's the best butt plug ever! As long as you're not looking for a large plug, that is!
07/02/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by Victoria
I know I always suggest this one, but I really think it's the best butt plug ever! As long as you're not looking for a large plug, that is!
I agree with Victoria. The Bootie is the best one.
07/02/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
If you want one that's going to stay in look at the already-mentioned Bootie, Vixen Tristan (a bit bigger) or Tantus Ryder.
07/02/2010
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
My preference is the Njoy Pure Plug in size medium. The Pure Plugs come in three different sizes. It is the only one amongst my plugs that stays put inside my butt during sex. It is also super comfortable - the only thing you'll notice is the weight of the plug inside you.
07/02/2010
Contributor: shepegsME shepegsME
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Originally posted by Victoria
I know I always suggest this one, but I really think it's the best butt plug ever! As long as you're not looking for a large plug, that is!
can it be used during penetration though?
07/02/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
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Originally posted by Rossie
My preference is the Njoy Pure Plug in size medium. The Pure Plugs come in three different sizes. It is the only one amongst my plugs that stays put inside my butt during sex. It is also super comfortable - the only thing you'll notice is the ... more
Same here...I almost always use a butt plug during intercourse. The NJoy (med) stays put and gives delicious stimulation to my partners' cock as he thrusts.
The Ryder and Tristan are also work as super "stay put" butt plugs for me as well.
Haven't tried the Bootie but I am going to...
07/03/2010
Contributor: shepegsME shepegsME
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Originally posted by Liz2
Same here...I almost always use a butt plug during intercourse. The NJoy (med) stays put and gives delicious stimulation to my partners' cock as he thrusts.
The Ryder and Tristan are also work as super "stay put" butt plugs for me as ... more
She's turned off by metal toys though.
07/03/2010
Contributor: David88 David88
Another plug option, the Ace Plug Small is really great and would be easier to get used to then a metal or glass toy. Does she have a good level of experience with anal? If not I would say the Ace or Bootie plug would probably be better. I don't have experience with the Bootie but I love my Ace Small.
07/03/2010
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by shepegsME
She's turned off by metal toys though.
The Njoy plugs are beautifully crafted and they'll last a lifetime!
07/03/2010
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
My vote is for the njoy (medium or small, depending on her comfort level) or this lil guy.
07/03/2010
Contributor: PurpleReign PurpleReign
I've just put together a 'sampler' pack for my wife, consisting of most of the suggestions except the N'Joy and the Bootie (which have been on my list too).

So the collection has the small Tristan, Tantus Ryder, small Ace, small Tulip, and small Infinity. I'll let you know what she prefers, once she gets a fair trial with them all.

This would be for her private 'me' time use, or to be inserted during less hurried fucking (we have a house full of kids).
07/03/2010
Contributor: dabigguns54 dabigguns54
Get an inflatable one and let her set her own size
10/06/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by dabigguns54
Get an inflatable one and let her set her own size
Most inflatable toys are of questionable durability and quality. Best to stay with something well made and bodysafe.
10/06/2010
Contributor: David88 David88
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Originally posted by ScottA
Most inflatable toys are of questionable durability and quality. Best to stay with something well made and bodysafe.
Couldn't agree more plus there not all that comfortable. The only I tried made me feel like I had to go to bathroom which unless she likes that feeling than it won't work out too well. I still stand beside my ace plug small option.
10/07/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I vote Ryder and second place Njoy medium!
10/07/2010
Contributor: David88 David88
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Originally posted by Naughty Student
I vote Ryder and second place Njoy medium!
I don't like the Ryder because of it not having a long base but some people like that "locked" feeling. It definitely makes you more aware of it. The Njoy plugs do seem really nice. I'm looking to get the large at some point but will probably end up getting [this one|link] first since it's so much cheaper. I may still get the Njoy one at some point though too. It seems like its main advantage over the other would be that the base is smaller so better for long term ware which I don't do too much right now.
10/08/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
The longer the neck the more secure it stays in (in general), and a smaller body will reduce the "go to the bathroom" feeling because it won't be stretching your rectum as much.
10/09/2010
Contributor: bunnylovr bunnylovr
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Originally posted by shepegsME
can it be used during penetration though?
yeahh
12/30/2010
Contributor: dv8 dv8
You might want to experiment with vegetables to find the most comfortable size. if a plug's too small, it can pop out. If it's too large, not only can it be uncomfortable by itself but it can make vaginal sex uncomfortable.
12/30/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by dv8
You might want to experiment with vegetables to find the most comfortable size. if a plug's too small, it can pop out. If it's too large, not only can it be uncomfortable by itself but it can make vaginal sex uncomfortable.
Fingers are probably better, just because they are firmly attached (unless you have a very unfortunate sex accident). Another thing to look at is the Love Pacifier series by Cal Exotics. They appear to be modeled after the nJoy plugs but are soft silicone and much less expensive.
12/30/2010
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by Victoria
I know I always suggest this one, but I really think it's the best butt plug ever! As long as you're not looking for a large plug, that is!
That looks nice!! I wish it wasn't out of stock
01/04/2011
Contributor: Nice to Eat you Nice to Eat you
were interested too but there are so many choices
09/14/2012
Contributor: pierced cock 4 her pierced cock 4 her
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Originally posted by shepegsME
Any suggestions? My girl wants one to use during sex. Not too big, but not too small, just right. She wants the filling feeling during intercourse and not the thrusting. Figured a BP was the best option.
she'd like it, but make it glass
02/16/2013
Contributor: StarrStacked StarrStacked
I bought the Neo and small ripple for this reason. My plan is to work up the Neo.
02/18/2013
Contributor: RedGlitter RedGlitter
I'm looking into getting one myself! Thanks for the suggestions, everyone! I'M gonna look around, too!
02/18/2013