I'm always the one to introduce my partners to toys, though I always hesitate for fear that they will feel I'm doing it because I'm not satisfied or something.
Who's Idea was it to start using toys?
06/06/2012
It was my idea, as usual
06/07/2012
My husband was the first to bring up the idea of toys. A good friend of his happens to work in a toy shop and they were talking about different things, and one of the toys she recommended was the We-Vibe. It took a few months, but I was the one who actually followed through and bought it while he was at work.
06/09/2012
It was mine, but I had to convince him to let me get at least a vibrator and dildo first, then he started to want stuff XD.
06/10/2012
That would be me! I was the one to expose my boyfriend to toys, which we'll be using quite a few times this coming week. :3
06/10/2012
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I (husband) bought our first toy. It was a large dildo that never saw much use and I have no idea where it went. I like to surprise her with the UPS truck pulling into the yard. Its funny when she tries to explain to her nosy friend about the mysterious package.
Originally posted by
Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
My husband and I are extremely new to the whole toys thing, and it was his idea. I am wondering about you lovelies out there. Who idea was it? How did you initially react?
06/10/2012
Since I'm currently with no one, yeah it was my idea
06/10/2012
It was mostly my idea, but there was a hidden mutual interest!
06/10/2012
It was mine.
06/18/2012
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She's more mature than I was.
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Gunsmoke
My idea - luckily she was open right from the beginning.
The first time (years ago) he handed me a dildo, I threw it in his face, called him a pig and ran downstairs to cry on the couch!
To my credit, he didn't TELL me what it was. I was stressed about Christmas, as we were having it at our house, and he was behind me with the classic, "I have something for you." I'm lying there thinking, "OMG, no. I'm not in the mood." He thrusts this huge vibrating dildo into my hand and I screamed. Then the above happened.
It lay in his underwear drawer until after Christmas that year, and I was having a hard time coming and I thought "Oh, what the hell, grab that thing and let's see what happens." Wonder of wonders... I liked it!
A few months and many toys later he said, "I've created a monster." LOL! That monster continues to live and play.
I don't know what I would have done if he hadn't thought of introducing sex toys into our marriage, though. I'm glad he did.
06/19/2012
I had my own collection before we got together, that I pretty much hid from him for awhile. Then one day he mentioned toys, and I was like, "well... here." and drug the bag out of its hiding place He was very pleasantly surprised.
06/19/2012
He brought it up, but I agreed about them.
06/19/2012
crap, I said mine but it was HIS! He bought me my first bullet and vibrator set almost 10 years ago and I've been addicted ever since!
06/19/2012
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Of course mine because I already owned a vibrator before we got together. Over the years we have bought only 2 (two) in 14 (fourteen) years. However that is changing now that I have found this site. More the merrier now. Let the party begin!
Originally posted by
Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
My husband and I are extremely new to the whole toys thing, and it was his idea. I am wondering about you lovelies out there. Who idea was it? How did you initially react?
06/19/2012
I actually owned some before I met my husband. Trust me they have come a long way in 20 years (dang I feel old). My husband has never had an issue with using them. I had to leave for the family for aprox 8 weeks with a traveling assignment and my husband, in one of his great moments, sent me a package of toys.
06/23/2012
Ofcourse the female half lol
06/23/2012
Mr. John
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I initiated toys first. She was very willing to try. I introduced the Hitachi first, years ago. It numbed her. Next, I introduced the Eroscillator. It remains her hands down favorite. I still buy new toys, but they go unused. It's the Eroscillator w/ the grapes attachment for her.
Originally posted by
Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
My husband and I are extremely new to the whole toys thing, and it was his idea. I am wondering about you lovelies out there. Who idea was it? How did you initially react?
04/07/2013
I brought it up and we got into it together.
04/07/2013
I had toys before I started dating my guy, and when we started dating, we were talking about each others' kinks. He asked if I'd ever used toys before, and I showed him the only two I had at the time: a cheap Jelly sleeved traditional vibrator and a dumb plastic bullet. He thought it was cool that I use toys, which got me interest in actually researching them, and here I am! Technically I brought them into playtime, but he'd expressed interested in it before.
04/07/2013
Mine, originally to replace a plastic one from Spencers. Since then my toy education has grown and matured. Even my SO now enjoys some of them which surprises me. In the end, we both benefit.
04/07/2013
We were both into using toys before we met one another, so it was very natural for us to use them with one another.
05/13/2013
It was my idea to start using toys, but he would always look at them in the stores and online but never cared to buy one. Since I bought the first one he has wanted more and its the best thing ever to spice things up
05/13/2013
my decision cuz I got so horny I had to do something & I didn't have a lover at the time.
05/13/2013
A few months ago, I got extremely sexually frustrated and thought "I NEED TO USE A TOY!".. & that's where it began.
05/13/2013
His idea! Now I shop, research, suggest what I would like and he orders them!! I'm enjoying the toys but I'm still learning how to use them.
05/13/2013
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we bouth did we have talked about it several times and we have ben togather for a long time and needed to add somthing new to make things fun
Originally posted by
Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
My husband and I are extremely new to the whole toys thing, and it was his idea. I am wondering about you lovelies out there. Who idea was it? How did you initially react?
05/13/2013
It was my hubbys idea.
05/13/2013
actually me...the male...odd right?
05/13/2013
Mine. We both never tried them before. I don't regret it.
05/14/2013
I was talking with an old flame a couple of years ago who used to joke about toys when we were teens, and he told me that he and his wife had some toys and that they were fun. That got me to thinking about getting one. We don't use toys together, I'm shy about it, and he doesn't quite understand that penetration isn't all that great for me. I use them occasionally when I have some down time and don't hate myself. I introduced lube, which made a big difference. We're still working up to toy time together. He is definitely interested in them,so soon I hope to feel comfortable bringing out the vibes.
05/14/2013