haven't fantasized about it - not sure I'd like being tied up. but, hmmm, after reading that Oh&w thinks that someone should tie me up to keep me around, hahaha, welllll, might be interesting. who knows, maybe it might be fun to see who's up for the challenge. hahahahaha

We have tied each other up many times. Good times.

I've never been tied, but I have been handcuffed. I have tied someone up once

I'm open to some light tying up.

Any sort of tying takes a lot of trust and communication between the people involved. When you have that, it is a great experience!

Think about it often, it gets done to me occasionally, and I do it occasionally.

I freaked out sitting in the back of a police car for a ride home when I found the back door had no way out and no window controls either! (I panicked deep inside, I kept my cool outwardly, but barely!)Sure, my mom was in the front seat and we four kids in the back. NO! Not what it seems, LOL!! At the end of a Memorial Day parade, a cop gave us a free ride which I thought would be cool. WRONG! Apparently, I don't do well confined; lack of control upsets me. I'm the jerk who'd be testing my safe word like the boy who cried wolf!! I trust no one! People lie and are MEAN. No way I'm giving up my escape options!!! And don't get me started on ball gags and such! What if my nose plugs up and I have to vomit? It could happen. I need peace of mind, okay? Unfortunately, I have been completely under medical professional's control and had them do things I said not to, so that nearly killed me (several times, they don't LISTEN, or learn). If this is just for fun, I doubt I could get past the life and death situations where I was NOT listened to. Yeah, I have issues.

That said, I've seen some amazingly cool couture ropework clothes someone shared with me on another forum. Would I like tying someone up? Considering my preference for self-control, maybe it would extend to liking controlling others? I don't know. But, part of the fun for me is the interactivity with a person. Maybe that's because I've been stuck with just the minimally interactive toys for so long. Fucking an immobile object is only so interesting after a while, at least it is that way for me with the toys. Maybe the sentience of the immobilized is the key? I may not want to participate, but it also has never been brought up for me with sex, so I've never tried.

Yes! And we experiment with it all the time! The key is communication

Yes, in fact, we'll likely be doing that tonight!

Oh gosh I love being tied up! It is the base of most of my fantasies!!

Wanting to be bound and gagged has been a recurring dream ever since I can remember. Not surprisingly, it has become something I've incorporated almost day-to-day and it makes my life *amazing!*

Yes! Tho SO is less inclined

Good topic! I just asked my partner and was told, "Sometimes and a little bit." I'm not sure exactly what that means, but, I will further explore this topic with her at a time when she isn't so tired.

Now if you are asking me, I can take it or leave it. I don't have any specific fantasies of being bound or restricted in any way in particular. My fantasies cater to several different scenarios.

I would love being tied up with several 'rules'. Loose binding, no gag, and it's very sexy when done by someone I am very attracted to....and a safe word.

Then MY fantasies can take over.

I have been tied up once by a friend, but sexually I did not like him so it did nothing for me.