Should Routine Circumcision of Male Infants be Illegal?

Contributor: indiglo indiglo
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Originally posted by KaraSutra
While I'm not an expert on the matter I have spent much time researching the effect of circumcision in regard to HIV prevention and seem to keep coming up with results that it 'reduces' the risk of contracting HIV and other ... more
Well, a condom is 99.9% more effective against contracting HIV than being circumcised, so I'd go that route and use a condom for disease prevention rather than snipping off part of the body!
07/25/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
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Originally posted by indiglo
Well, a condom is 99.9% more effective against contracting HIV than being circumcised, so I'd go that route and use a condom for disease prevention rather than snipping off part of the body!
lol you posted the same thing I was editing into my post about 2 seconds before I could hit submit.
07/25/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
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Originally posted by Sex'и'Violence
lol you posted the same thing I was editing into my post about 2 seconds before I could hit submit.
Great minds and all that! lol
07/25/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Figured I'd post a few fun things I found while reading up on this topic.


Comic Book
ADL condemns comic as anti-semitic
ABC News- Circumcision ban to appear on ballot
07/25/2011
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
no why
07/25/2011
Contributor: JessCee JessCee
Should routine circumcision be illegal? No.

Should parents be more educated to make whatever decision is right for them, their family, their children? Absolutely.
07/25/2011
Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
It's a really bad thing to equate male circumcision with female genital mutilation. Even if both are wrong, the degrees of wrong are like cutting off someone's finger versus cutting off someone's entire arm.

People who are deprived of the entire clitoris are likely to never have an orgasm or to have extreme difficulty ever achieving orgasms. People who are deprived of a small portion of the penis are very unlikely to have any orgasmic difficulty at all, and may never realize that anything is "wrong" with them unless told by society.

People who do activism against male circumcision and equate it to female genital mutilation are scoring some points for their own cause at the cost of having more people decide that female genital mutilation is okay because of the attitude of "male circumcision is okay and if FGM is the same thing then it should be fine too."

If you care about FGM at all, please don't equate these two procedures and two movements in the future. They are not the same thing and implying so is very costly and damaging for females.
07/25/2011
Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
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Originally posted by bayosgirl
They were going to circ him without your consent?! I'm pretty sure THAT is illegal. Geez.
Apparently it was just such a standard practice back then that they felt it was a given that all parents wanted it done
07/25/2011
Contributor: Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
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Originally posted by Sex'и'Violence
Figured I'd post a few fun things I found while reading up on this topic.


Comic Book
ADL condemns comic as anti-semitic
ABC News- Circumcision ban to appear on ballot ... more
I can understand the point the creator of the comic book is trying to make. However, I think it was distasteful in the way it portrayed Jews. There are better ways of expressing one's feelings about this subject that don't require the demonization of an entire religious group.

I think that is why I am so conflicted on this topic. I am very hesitant to completely support banning circumcision as a ban on it potentially violates the First Amendment rights of those for whom it is a religious sacrament.
07/25/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Eucaly
It's a really bad thing to equate male circumcision with female genital mutilation. Even if both are wrong, the degrees of wrong are like cutting off someone's finger versus cutting off someone's entire arm.

People who are deprived ... more
Thank you!
07/25/2011
Contributor: thebest thebest
Yes
07/25/2011
Contributor: null null
I think it should be allowed if the parents want it. I don't think doctors should suggest it, and I think that if parents ask for it they should be given reading material about the cons of it.
07/25/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
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Originally posted by null
I think it should be allowed if the parents want it. I don't think doctors should suggest it, and I think that if parents ask for it they should be given reading material about the cons of it.
Why, though? If there's no medical reason, what justifies putting a baby through a painful surgical procedure that alters his body for life? Not picking on you, but I genuinely want to know why some people believe this is OK (besides religion)-we've already established that cleanliness is a non-issue.
07/26/2011
Contributor: Noira Celestia Noira Celestia
It's cosmetic surgery that should be left for the owner of the penis to make a decision about.

Male genital cutting is comparable to female genital cutting in that not all forms of female circumcisions removes the clitoris, some simply prick the clitoris to draw a drop of blood. In the United States any procedure done one a females genitals without medical reason is illegal. What sexist law, to protect female genitals and not male genitals?

You know female circumcision used to be performed in the united states for MEDICAL reasons the same as male circumcision?

The reason circumcision was brought to the United States originally was to stop masturbation.

Also, some botched circumcisions have removed massive portions of the penis. Not to mention babies die from it ever year.

I read a study regarding HIV and circumcision that found a difference in condom use when comparing intact to circumcised penises (this was on MM sex in the US) and it found that there was not a substantial difference in contraction when taking this into account.

I am very passionate about the prepuce and that is has a function(protecting the glands of the penis and keeping it moist and lubricated) and should not be removed without the owners consent.
07/26/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I def don't agree with it. Im not sure if it should be illegal though.
07/26/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Sex'и'Violence
I know of this happening first hand (friends with the parent) and I know that if I were the parent I would have freaked out, not to mention what my husband would have done to the guy who performed the procedure. They (the couple) didn't treat it ... more
The David Reimer case is so sad. And so unnecessary. Most cases of phimosis can be treated with cortisone cremes.

When My Man (who knew nothing else other than circumcision when I was pregnant with our children, not realizing fewer and fewer American boys were being subjected to it) was upset about my not wanting our kids circed (if we had had boys) I showed him a couple of videos of the unmedicated procedure being done, and said, "If you want to do this to your son (as we never knew what gender baby we were having) you have to be in the room and hold him the entire time." The videos so upset him that he agreed he would not do that to our babies.
07/26/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Eucaly
It's a really bad thing to equate male circumcision with female genital mutilation. Even if both are wrong, the degrees of wrong are like cutting off someone's finger versus cutting off someone's entire arm.

People who are deprived ... more
If you read the entire thread, you would have learned that MOST forms of FMG is not removal of the clitoris, but removal of the clitoral hood. Essentially the EXACT same procedure and part of the body as male circumcision.


Please read the entire thread to see.

NO ONE who works against male circumcision says "male circumcision is okay and if FGM is the same thing then it should be fine too." Nor do we want anyone to think that. I have no idea where you got that idea.

Fewer and fewer American baby boys are being circed, the latest data is somewhere between 25 and 50% of baby boys are cut. (Depending on the area, the more Conservative the area, the higher the cutting rate.) Europe, Australia and Canada and parts of Asia got smart sooner. Babies are rarely cut in these places.
07/26/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
I'm so glad you brought this issue up. I'm ashamed to say I don't know much about it, but now that I'm pregnant with my first this gives me a lot to think about.
07/26/2011
Contributor: fleshlightluvr1 fleshlightluvr1
I think they should be allowed to do what they want.....just my two cents
08/13/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
If circumcision is done to demonstrate one's religious affiliation, do it as an adult. That would be a much more powerful show of faith than doing it to an infant.
08/13/2011
Contributor: onehotmomma onehotmomma
To me it's one of those abortion type subjects...To each their own.

I will say this..out of all the crap they gave me at the doctor/hospital when I had my son not ONE thing or person ever explained how to clean a penis, and yes, you do need to clean it if he's not circumsized.
08/13/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by fleshlightluvr1
I think they should be allowed to do what they want.....just my two cents
Yes, the baby should have a say. So, wait until they can give their consent before doing it.
08/13/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by onehotmomma
To me it's one of those abortion type subjects...To each their own.

I will say this..out of all the crap they gave me at the doctor/hospital when I had my son not ONE thing or person ever explained how to clean a penis, and yes, you do ... more
You have to clean it if he IS circumcised, too. And change the bandage over the raw hamburger meat looking penis, and administer a litany of creams and ointments, and give him Tylenol (which isn't great for a newborn's liver) for the pain, and deal with sucking problems and latch on difficulties caused by the pain and trauma. An intact penis is MUCH less work, for both parents and the male child himself than the aftermath of the cutting is. You just take a soft washcloth and clean the entire thing! No pulling or retracting or anything.

The foreskin of a young child whose foreskin has not yet retracted should never be forcibly retracted. The outside should simply be cleaned until the child retracts the foreskin himself. Usually playing with it helps gently break the adhesion (which in an infant is as strong as the adhesion that holds your finger nail to your finger) sometime between 2 and 14 years of age will take care of the retraction.

I have a few friends who had to physically restrain pediatric nurses from violently retracting her infant son's foreskin! The uneducated nurses (and I a nurse, but not an uneducated one, and they used to teach us barely anything about natural penises) told her "You need to pull this back to clean him." Absolutely wrong. The foreskin protects the glans, and the frenulum is there to keep the foreskin in place and protect the tip of the penis from rubbing, urine, feces etc. The frenulum is there for a reason and will retract the foreskin when the body is ready for it to.
08/13/2011
Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
Since pretty much all the reasons we circumcised boys have been debunked, I think this practice should go the way of the dinosaurs.
08/13/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
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Originally posted by P'Gell
You have to clean it if he IS circumcised, too. And change the bandage over the raw hamburger meat looking penis, and administer a litany of creams and ointments, and give him Tylenol (which isn't great for a newborn's liver) for the pain, ... more
OMG, I would be livid if a nurse tried to do that to my baby boy! It's really shocking that there isn't more education on the topic, especially at least in the medical community. Maybe one day!
08/13/2011
Contributor: oldman oldman
For Jewish families, having male babies circumsised on the 8th day is a covenant with G-d that traces back to the days of Abraham and in most families remains unbroken to this day. Government needs to mind its own business in personal choices. You don't have to agree with people's choices, but you should respect their choice. That is why abortions are legal. You don't have to agree, but it is none of your business (unless it's your or your partner's pregnancy).

And, speaking as one who was circumsised as an infant, and the Dad of 3 boys who were circumsised as infants, none of us experienced any problems. Of course any procedure that cuts and causes bleeding is painful but that does not mean we should outlaw having your gall bladder removed.
11/14/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by oldman
For Jewish families, having male babies circumsised on the 8th day is a covenant with G-d that traces back to the days of Abraham and in most families remains unbroken to this day. Government needs to mind its own business in personal choices. You ... more
I think it should be illegal as a hospital based "routine" procedure.

It's always hard when something is part of someone's "culture" or their religion.

However, removal of the clitoris and sewing closed the labia is part of some religions in parts of Africa and it certainly isn't legal here!

I know some Jewish families and some of my clients who practice a "Bloodless Bris" The ceremony, without any cutting or ripping the foreskin from the glans is performed, and if desired the father's finger is pricked to draw blood or nothing is done physically at all. It's a beautiful, painless and crying free ceremony. More and more Jewish families (at least in my social group of Aware, Attachment Parenting, Self Weaning, Child Centered families) are choosing this alternative.

Also, some Jewish people believe that all "Blood sacrifices" are no longer part of the Jewish faith and that circumcision is certainly a "Blood sacrifice."

Things change when we learn the actual science and truth about them.

I must say more Mohels do a better job than even the most practiced OBGYNs do. Usually less tissue is removed and it at least appears less painful, although not painLESS. I've seen hospital performed circumcisions where the baby cried so hard that he lost his voice and actually passed out. Many who were nursing fine before the procedure chose to sleep for day on end, making feeding difficult or even impossible, due to the pain and feelings of distrust from the procedure. There is simply NO need for that.

IMO, at least the "routine" circumcision of infants should not be legal. If someone feels their "culture" trumps the law, they can apply for an exception to be allowed.

As for Gall Bladders, we don't take them out at birth "just in case something eventually goes wrong" with them.
11/14/2011
Contributor: AndromedaJane AndromedaJane
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Originally posted by bayosgirl
This is one topic I feel strongly about. I don't understand why so many babies are circumcised. Everyone is upset about FGM (female genital mutilation), and rightfully so. But how is male circumcision socially acceptable? Essentially it does the ... more
Yes, it is unethical and should be outlawed.
11/17/2011
Contributor: Badass Badass
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Originally posted by bayosgirl
This is one topic I feel strongly about. I don't understand why so many babies are circumcised. Everyone is upset about FGM (female genital mutilation), and rightfully so. But how is male circumcision socially acceptable? Essentially it does the ... more
i personally have nothing against christianity... but this whole concept of circumcision came from dudes running around in the desert drinking wine... 2000 years ago-ish..

perhaps its time we come up with some weird new rules.
01/29/2012
Contributor: ss143 ss143
I think education is more important. In today's mind frame my fear of it being illegal as others have said would be under the table procedures, people attempting them with no medical knowledge or in less than sterile environments there fore putting these babies in more risk. As with anything I believe knowledge is power and with the right and proper education parents would most likely chose differently.
01/31/2012