Clitorial Orgasm - Pee?

Contributor: Himawari Himawari
Hi everyone,

I'm new to the community. I'm curious as to how many women pee or have that pee like sensation when they orgasm. Whenever I orgasm through clitorial stimulation, I clench up and this liquid comes out which feels very much like I'm peeing. A friend has told me that it wasn't pee and that it was some other liquid that comes out when we orgasm. I've also read on a few articles that it isn't pee. But I'm confused because I've smelled the liquid and it smells very much like pee.

My husband has told me that I'm the only woman he's been with that orgasms like that. All his ex-girlfriends or previous loves have never peed when they orgasm. I've been like this for years now. So now I'm really curious about this.

Recently, I started to wonder if I have weak vaginal muscles and results to pee when I orgasm. I've never done any Kegel exercises which I am looking into getting some Kegel exercisers.

Any insight would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks!
11/02/2011
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Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
There's two sides to this. Some will argue adamantly that it's female ejaculate and others will say its pee. Is it possible to pee during orgasm? Yes. But I've also "squirted" so you know,if it doesn't bother you and it doesn't bother your partner, just do whatever feels good!
11/02/2011
Contributor: Himawari Himawari
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Originally posted by PassionQT
There's two sides to this. Some will argue adamantly that it's female ejaculate and others will say its pee. Is it possible to pee during orgasm? Yes. But I've also "squirted" so you know,if it doesn't bother you and it ... more
Thanks PassionQT. My BFF, who is much more experienced than I am, is adamant that it's not pee and that it's female ejaculation - exactly what you mentioned. And she tells me that it's actually very hard to climax in to the point that we ejaculate. At least, that's the case for her. She says it's only happened to her twice so far in her entire lifetime. So this whole chat got me curious...maybe I'm just peeing myself this whole time! Ha.
11/02/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
It could be either, and even when women "ejaculate", it often contains urine (although people don't like to admit that). I wouldn't worry about it.. I do it as well. If it feels good, just let it flow. Just have some towels handy!
11/03/2011
Contributor: LQ LQ
There was another thread talking about this that has some more information about that gotta-pee feeling. Link
11/03/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
women do ejaculate, be it from internal or external orgasms. i highly recommend the video 'the art of female self-pleasuring' to learn more about the many kinds of female orgasms and how to come about having them.


did you know you can have an orgasm from urethral stimulation too? i sure didnt!

i dont think it's pee though doll, it's just female ejaculate. there is often the urge to pee just before orgasm but it doesnt mean you're peeing when you orgasm.

the art of female self-pleasuring. dvd on EF

11/03/2011
Contributor: LoveDove LoveDove
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
women do ejaculate, be it from internal or external orgasms. i highly recommend the video 'the art of female self-pleasuring' to learn more about the many kinds of female orgasms and how to come about having them.


did you know you ... more
It's female ejaculate. It may smell a teensy bit like pee, but if you were to put white sheets on your bed, the fluid would probably come out clear & water-like. Not yellow.

If you're okay with it and your husband is too, embrace it. There are many women who would kill to be able to squirt and can't.
11/03/2011
Contributor: silverfeather silverfeather
Quote:
Originally posted by Himawari
Hi everyone,

I'm new to the community. I'm curious as to how many women pee or have that pee like sensation when they orgasm. Whenever I orgasm through clitorial stimulation, I clench up and this liquid comes out which feels very much ... more
I've had that problem too. Sometimes when my bf gets me close I tell him to stop cause I seriously feel like I am about to pee on the bed. He insists I won't. But I don't trust him on that. Haha. From what I have heard it is one signs of an orgasm and that it comes out as clear liquid and does come out where the women relieves herself. Sorry I am not much help.
11/03/2011
Contributor: Himawari Himawari
Wow! Thanks for all the replies!! Everyone here are all so helpful and informative. I'm so glad I posted. I was always to shy to ever ask about this.

LeighQ - Thanks for the link! I'll hop on over to do some reading.

aliceinthehole - Thanks for the dvd suggestion! I'm definitely going to look into getting the dvd. This could be very helpful to me.

Thanks again everyone! You guys are the best!

xoxo
11/03/2011
Contributor: Liz123 Liz123
I think mine is more pee, but I don't care. What ever squirts out is fine.
11/09/2011
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
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Originally posted by Liz123
I think mine is more pee, but I don't care. What ever squirts out is fine.
I've noticed that when I'm better hydrated, it has a much lighter scent for me..
11/10/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I have had both happen. I have peed... which obviously smells like pee, looks like pee, etc. But I have also ejaculated... which smelled nothing like pee, and had a completely different consistency than pee. (Very, very slippery, not watery like pee.) The feeling was different each time - when I peed, the sensation was "I have to pee", but when I ejaculated I didn't feel any "I have to pee" sensation, stuff just squirted out.

One sure fire way to tell is to do it in an empty bathtub. Whatever comes out will stay in the bathtub with you and you can examine it for color, odor, etc.

Study it, identify it if you want... or just put some towels down and have fun! There's no way to know for sure what it was, so tell yourself whatever makes you feel better and just keep on truckin'!
11/10/2011
Contributor: LQ LQ
I actually accidentally ran the white sheets experiment the other day. Got the bed damp & decided to change the sheets. My white mattress pad underneath was also damp, but still totally white... so there ya go.
11/10/2011
Contributor: Katastophy Katastophy
If it's not pee, it's most likely female ejaculate, as others have said. When I have a clitoral orgasm, I never get the feeling of needing to pee. If I'm stimulating my gspot and I'm getting close to orgasm, I do get that feeling, although I don't think I've ever reached orgasm through gspot stimulation.
11/10/2011
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
It's very likely that it's female ejaculation, but if your boyfriend is willing, there is one surefire test: the taste test. That is actually the only reason MY boyfriend convinced me that I wasn't peeing. He felt 100% certain that I was squirting, so he shamelessly tasted after I had done it one day, and gave a sort of 100% verification that it was not pee. Beyond this, I ALWAYS pee before sex because I have such a phobia of it... When I cum, I definitely squirt! ( And I squirt a LOT, too! )
11/11/2011
Contributor: samopayn samopayn
I always get a strong urge to pee but I have never have. I've always been afraid I would though.
11/13/2011
Contributor: Spencer Nixon Spencer Nixon
I always think I might pee so I stop it from happening
01/25/2012
Contributor: Spencer Nixon Spencer Nixon
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Originally posted by samopayn
I always get a strong urge to pee but I have never have. I've always been afraid I would though.
Same!
01/25/2012
Contributor: x203 x203
i ALWAYS feel like i have to pee. So annoying
03/09/2012