We find it kind of hard to. I'm more into it then her but it doesn't get very "hardcore". Mostly compliments on feeling good.
Do you find it easy to talk dirty to you partner?
09/20/2011
I can do it and he may like it but I feel out of place.
10/05/2011
I love being talked to, but I'm usually pretty shy about talking back. I got a little better about it after a long-term online relationship, but I dunno... I just feel silly or embarrassed I'll say something that makes my partner go "OMG! WHAT did you just say?!" I think if I let myself go with the talking I'd be shocking or something. *shrug*
10/09/2011
I find it hard not to talk dirty
10/21/2011
A little dirty talk is fun, but sometimes it goes overboard.
11/04/2011
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This is me.
Originally posted by
Domineight
Despite being pretty comfortable with myself sexually I always feel on the spot when attempting to dirty talk. I feel like I sound silly. I can text or something but actually in person talking makes me feel awkward for some reason.
11/04/2011
not really comfortable with it, I guess
11/04/2011
Just start off easy and take it slow, like others have said. We guys like to hear the "ooh's" and "ahh's". If it's genuine, it'll come naturally
11/13/2011
The girl I'm with loves it, but I have been in mostly pretty vanilla relationships in the past so I'm still getting comfortable with actually thinking of things to say. It's fun though.
11/13/2011
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I am not a very vocal person out of the bedroom and it is no different in the bedroom. I say some tidbits and encouragement because my wife likes it, but anything more feels silly for me too.
Originally posted by
Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
11/13/2011
Only if I'm really horny. I think because he's less versed in it, for some reason I feel a bit self conscious!
11/14/2011
While I've never been in the situation to warrant it, I would be completely incapable of talking "dirty" to a partner. It would be ridiculously out-of-character. And humourous.
11/14/2011
I can only really get dirty talk to come out during sex. It's always been hard for me to talk dirty.
11/17/2011
it's generally easy for me unless we are having a fight.
11/17/2011
over time yes but not at first
12/01/2011
Nope! Totally hard to do AND awkward!
12/02/2011
It's extremely easy, though it's usually her who makes it so. We talk dirty back and forth because it's comfortable, it's never really forced.
12/03/2011
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That article is AMAZING, thank you so much for sharing it.
Originally posted by
joja
Dirty talk came pretty easily to me with my current partner, as we talked about sex a lot from the very beginning - often during sex itself! After a while I started to enjoy going on about what I wanted to do, what I liked that he was doing, etc.
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Dirty talk came pretty easily to me with my current partner, as we talked about sex a lot from the very beginning - often during sex itself! After a while I started to enjoy going on about what I wanted to do, what I liked that he was doing, etc. However, I still have trouble getting "in character" for D/s play (which we are new to but both very interested in). I just don't feel convincing as a dominant - it doesn't help that I break out in giggles when I think I sound silly. The best cure for this is being really turned on.
There are a few really good games you can play to help get into this. I highly recommend Sexuality.org's erotic talk article as a starting point. less
There are a few really good games you can play to help get into this. I highly recommend Sexuality.org's erotic talk article as a starting point. less
12/03/2011
I have a hard time talking dirty just because it soudns silly to me. Although, sometimes it feels okay. He really likes it.
12/09/2011
She doesn't like it.
12/09/2011
It depends on who my partner is and how comfortable I am with him. It also depends on my mood.
12/11/2011
I have no problem with it...however she does, which bugs me a bit. We're both switches, and she's so rarely a domme...kinda disappointing.
12/11/2011
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I always think I want to say more than what comes out of my mouth, but I sat down with my partner and had a casual conversation about it, and he said he just likes to know it's going well, and that if it's genuine, it works.
Originally posted by
Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
Otherwise, I'd say when the going is good, there is lots of cussing!
12/12/2011
if your really into the moment, it just sort of flows!
12/14/2011
you just have to jump into it. I love when my partner and I both are dominant, and its like "who can go the furthest?" almost.
12/26/2011
Dirty talk during definitely. Never discuss specifics of what a lover likes during. Usually handle that aspect at lunch or dinner.
01/21/2012
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It always depends on the guy I'm with. My current bf is kind of low-experience in all aspects, so talking dirty to him is practically impossible. Every once in awhile, he says "That feels good," and I almost have a mini heart attack. lol. As for advice, you're more critical of yourself than he will be.
Originally posted by
Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
01/27/2012
yes
01/27/2012
I think it's easier for both of us than it used to be, but she is till very quite
01/27/2012
I feel silly talking dirty during sex. Normally, I just test the waters and start out by whispering or saying something "slightly naughty". If that seems to go ok and I don't feel weird or silly about it, sometimes it increases the pleasure and I tend to get into it a lil much. At that point, it spirals from there and I say things that make me blush afterwards LMAO. Then of course we'll giggle about it together.
01/28/2012