Contributor: Omega6989 Omega6989
I'm just wondering what people prefer to do and try to get some tips that I can do to try some of these things. Don't be shy to hear the poll we all have the kinky side
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Hey, Omega6989!

Thank you for bringing this up. Anal sex is one of the hottest topics here, on our forum, and I'm sure that the vast majority of our community members are speaking openly about their love of some backdoor action.

We are all for
Classic anal
Double penetration
Pegging
Rimming
Gaping

You name it - we love it, we do it!
08/19/2019
Contributor: SoloRebel SoloRebel
I prefer “all of the above”...although I haven’t necessarily experienced “all of the above”
09/12/2019
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Why fool around, just go for it.
Part of the mystique is watching it go in and out.
09/12/2019
Contributor: Ali3n☆qu33n Ali3n☆qu33n
Quote:
Originally posted by Omega6989
I'm just wondering what people prefer to do and try to get some tips that I can do to try some of these things. Don't be shy to hear the poll we all have the kinky side
Honestly when it comes to anal sex this is the way that I'm able to get myself to finish quicker. Regular sex can get me off as well, but it takes quite some time. I've recently just gotten more into anal myself so as far as your poll goes my answer would have to be ALL OF THE ABOVE lol.
12/18/2019
Contributor: Bailed Bailed
My fiancee has had a lot of anal sex. I've never tried it. I know a lot of men like anal sex. She said many of her former partners loved having anal sex with her. It has never interested me. My fiancee wants me to try it.

According to my fiancee, anal sex requires a lot of prep and a lot of silicon lubricant. She said silicon lubricant can be messy because of the amount needed. She told me that anal sex is nothing like it's depicted in porn. Porn does not show a man prepping a women's butt. My fiancee said men had to begin the process by massaging her butt, then inserting one well lubricated finger inside of her butt. Then he had to slide another well lubricated finger inside of her butt. If her butt were sufficiently relaxed, he could very, very slowly penetrate her butt with his well lubricated penis. It would take a while before he could be thrust inside of her butt. If done correctly, it was enjoyable for her. She said first a small then medium butt plugs work better than fingers, but either way, anal sex requires a lot of prepping.

It sounded like too much work for me.
12/28/2019
Contributor: Croc Croc
Quote:
Originally posted by Bailed
My fiancee has had a lot of anal sex. I've never tried it. I know a lot of men like anal sex. She said many of her former partners loved having anal sex with her. It has never interested me. My fiancee wants me to try it.

According to my ...
don't forget that silicone lube is ony when flesh on flesh. if you wear condomn, have to use water-based lube

as for too much prep, it's relative. I eat my gf out, then we have sex, then we go for anal. in both cases she cums or gets close to cummin and her rump is more relaxed.
after that she can sometimes take 2 fingers in right away. I play with her butt a little and lick her pussy, she's lying faceup on the bed. When she's ready we start.
So it's not like you are wasting your time on some hussle.
little ttip: first several times wear a condomn, or you won't last long. since she needs to relax you'll have to go slowly and rubber really helps
12/29/2019
Contributor: Zach5353 Zach5353
I like anal sex, the first time I penetrated her it my penis though. It felt so tight and the different feeling of something of a rough ribbed sensation that my d**k felt sore.
Mar 8, 10:49 am
Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
I don't do any of that to anyone else but I, myself, do enjoy the fingering and anal sex. Not the licking though--I can't. I just can't. I also enjoy anal toys.
Mar 10, 11:23 pm
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Of Course, All of the Above!
My preference is to (first ensure that the hole is clean) rim that hole. Then lube and finger that hole before easing my cock in. I do enjoy when I'm the recipient of that sort of attention too.
Mar 11, 10:03 am
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
Quote:
Originally posted by Omega6989
I'm just wondering what people prefer to do and try to get some tips that I can do to try some of these things. Don't be shy to hear the poll we all have the kinky side
I've had all of it done to me, but everyone I've been with has never been interested in buttplay so I have never experienced doing it to someone.
Mar 11, 10:06 am
Contributor: Larryjjj33 Larryjjj33
I can't get enof anal sex turns me on
Mar 11, 12:15 pm
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by frisky069
I've had all of it done to me, but everyone I've been with has never been interested in buttplay so I have never experienced doing it to someone.
Many of us consider a female partner initiating something "new" to be Very Hot!
Mar 11, 1:02 pm
Contributor: lilkitty lilkitty
whats better doggy or missionary for the long run
Mar 11, 10:21 pm
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
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Originally posted by lilkitty
whats better doggy or missionary for the long run
If I have anal sex, I prefer doggy or to be on top so I can control it a bit more. I think everyone's preferences may differ though.
Mar 11, 11:46 pm
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
As reported elsewhere on EF - my wife has gone from not wanting anal sex at all - to almost preferring it to PIV. For her the sensations and orgasms from anal sex are more intense - and of course I'm not complaining

As for me - although I love pegging, my wife is usually too wiped out from her orgasms to accommodate

If I'm desperate, I'll put Outlaw into her harness and climb on top for a ride. Eventually she recovers and usually gets into it - often to have more orgasms while pegging me
Mar 12, 3:33 pm
Contributor: Bailed Bailed
Quote:
Originally posted by Larryjjj33
I can't get enof anal sex turns me on
You seem to be in the majority of men. I know a lot of men are in to anal sex. My fiancee has had more than a few boyfriends who were in to anal sex. Many of her girlfriends do anal sex.

I have no aversion to anal sex. For me, it's all about logistics. After my fiancee explained the process of anal sex to me, I did the math. I could've had two orgasms by the time it took her boyfriends to get her in an anal sex mood (euphemism for half-looped), prep her ass, bang her ass, clean up, shower, and get ready for vaginal sex or a blow job.

My fiancee did tell me that she's had body trembling orgasms masturbating her clit while her former boyfriends were banging her ass.
Mar 24, 4:02 pm
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by Bailed
You seem to be in the majority of men. I know a lot of men are in to anal sex. My fiancee has had more than a few boyfriends who were in to anal sex. Many of her girlfriends do anal sex.

I have no aversion to anal sex. For me, it's all ...
My first wife was able to have those kind of "body trembling orgasms" during anal sex. Those are among some of my fondest intimate memories of her.
Mar 24, 4:51 pm
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
Quote:
Originally posted by Bailed
You seem to be in the majority of men. I know a lot of men are in to anal sex. My fiancee has had more than a few boyfriends who were in to anal sex. Many of her girlfriends do anal sex.

I have no aversion to anal sex. For me, it's all ...
What about you? Tell us, please, about your personal experience in anal sex. Do you enjoy it? Would you like to try pegging with your fiancee or maybe you already did?
Mar 26, 10:11 am
Contributor: Bailed Bailed
Quote:
Originally posted by Leil@
What about you? Tell us, please, about your personal experience in anal sex. Do you enjoy it? Would you like to try pegging with your fiancee or maybe you already did?
Hi Lei,

I have no interest in anal sex.

I have no interest in pegging.

My fiancee hasn't tried to get me to have anal sex with her in about a year.

I have no clue if my fiancee is in to pegging. We've never talked about it. I would doubt she has pegged a dude. She wouldn't be attracted to a guy who'd want to be pegged. She is sexually submissive. I can easily see her giving up anal sex. I can't see her with a strap on.
Mar 29, 8:31 pm