Love pacifier beginner - butt plug by Cal Exotics - review by charmedtomeetyou

A pacifier for grown ups!

If you are curious and have no anal experience, this is for you. If you have any experience with anal at all, keep on walking!
A small, unintimidating toy that is easy to insert and will stay put
Too small for anyone with any anal play experience
Rating by reviewer:
useful review
I think this toy is well suited for beginners. It looks benign, certainly not huge or intimidating. The color is nice and vibrant, and the toy is well made and cute. It would be great as a way to dip your toe in the water when it comes to anal play. It works well for what it is. It is quite small, so it's not going to cause any sort of intense sensations, but if you were brand new to anal play, the "newness" of sensation might be enough for you. It has a pop sensation when you put it in. It stays where it is supposed to and has a nice large loop at the end to keep it from going anywhere you don't want it to go. This toy holds heat relatively well. If you run it under warm water, it stays warm for quite a while, which gives you a different sensation (don't make it too warm!).

It is a silicone toy, so be sure to use a water based lube. You won't need a ton of lube because it is such a small toy and the tapered tip works well for insertion. It has a decent amount of "squish" to it, so it is gentle to insert. There has been a lot of talk about the seam and discomfort from it, but I didn't really experience any issues with it. The seam is visible, but I didn't feel it at all. You can boil it or throw it in the dishwasher to disinfect.

Overall, if you are brand new to anal and curious, you might want to try this. If you have any experience at all, then maybe something with more to offer you might be the way to go. For what it is, it's a great toy, but it's not for everyone.
Follow-up commentary
I have recommended this to a few others, and they've really liked it as a first step to anal play. Although I feel like you would "outgrow" it fairly quickly, it would still be useful for a warm up toy, or those times when you just want a little something extra.
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My Love pacifier beginner tags
  • Who / How / What
    [ ? ]
    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Anyone
    • Can be worn during intercourse
    • Temperature play
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
    • Bath / shower
    • Bedroom / on a bed
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Anal
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  • P'Gell
    Thank you for the review. I have intermediate experience with anal play (some plugs, beads and my husband's penis) and I still really enjoy this toy, especially before we engage in actual anal sex. It stays in pretty well during PIV, too.

    I think we all have different preferences.

    Thank you for your input.
  • ScottA
    Some people have mentioned that they found this plug difficult to insert - did you notice that?
  • SecretToyMan
    Thanks for the review. Did you feel the line down the edge? I have the love pacifier with 3 balls and I could really feel that line and it felt weird. My wife loves it on the other hand.
  • charmedtomeetyou
    I didn't find it difficult to insert at all. Also, I could see a line but never felt a line as far as the seam is concerned. I think it might be a case by case situation for that seam....which is really a shame, since this toy has a lot of good things about it.
  • Artishok
    Cool review
  • charmedtomeetyou
  • Harpina is gone
    Thanks for the review.
  • Kirill1171
  • charmedtomeetyou
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