What is the Sexy Spades Medium all about?
The Sexy Spades Medium Butt Plug made by Doc Johnson is a truly beautiful piece of artwork that is intended to go up your butt. I know what you are thinking, why would I want to shove art up my butt? Well.. I have the answers for you. It is a nice way to train your butt for bigger and better things. It can also be used for masturbation purposes and double penetration. Mind you, glass is a very hard kind of material as we all know. It may feel bigger than it really is because of how sturdy it feels. It really is extremely smooth, but honestly, it is a little bit too much for me. I love glass products, but this isn't as comfortable up my butt as I normally am accustomed to. I wish it had a nicer base that fit between my butt cheeks and wasn't as uncomfortable. I still love this piece and will keep it in my toy box until I am ready to use it fully, but for now, I am still training my butt for the day that I will be able to wear this comfortably without hesitation.

It is obviously made of glass.. but what else can you tell me about the product?
It is very smooth. It is very hard. It is very pretty. What else can I say about it? Tempered glass is an inorganic non metallic material that does not have a crystalline structure. Such materials are said to be amorphous and are virtually solid liquids cooled at such a rate that crystals have not been able to form. Pyrex, a brand name for borosilicate glass, is made by adding boron into the mixture of sand, soda and ground lime.

Pyrex is a hard material with a high chemical resistance and mechanical strength. The boron in Pyrex reduces any stress caused to the material due to temperature changes. It is less dense than ordinary glass, making it much more resistant to shattering and breaking as well, if it were to break it would not shatter or splinter into tiny pieces but instead it would snap or break in large pieces. It retains temperature extremely well and requires only a little lube for a super-slippery effect.

You must be careful with glass products and protect them with your life. If there is a chip in any glass products, DO NOT USE IT. It can damage you and that won't be a very fun ER trip.

Why did you choose this particular butt plug?
I chose this butt plug because I thought my my ass could handle it. When I was working my way up to inserting it, it took awhile. It was rigid and hard. I wasn't used to it at all. I had only one other glass butt plug and it is still remains my favorite glass item in my possession. The Cobalt Glass Butt Plug. On the other hand, this butt plug is bigger. I wanted to see if I could withstand the pleasure it may have brought me.

Length: 3 3/4"
Insertable length:
3 1/4"
Circumference:
6 1/4"
Diameter:
2"

As you can see, the diameter is pretty large. I purchased this plug months ago and I almost have forgotten about it until I noticed it in my toy box that is getting increasingly bigger. I thought, well.. I should write a review on this plug and let everyone know about this product. It is very beautiful, but very hard to get used to.

Am I ready for such a hard, dense, and large butt plug?
That really depends on you. I know that this was my second glass butt plug and I am still not ready for it. It is very rigid like I said before, and very hard to get used to. My ass was not ready. The first time that I eased this butt plug in my ass was a day to remember. I remember that it hurt. NO TOY PRODUCT SHOULD HURT. My ass muscles were not ready. Maybe I tried to use this product to quickly, who knows. All I know is that I remember pain, and I immediately took it out. I tried again and there was less pain but it wasn't comfortable. I tried all kinds of times to make this product work for me, but alas, it did not. This plug is not for beginners. It is for moderate to advanced users in the butt plug department. It is 2" diameter and it really feels bigger since it is made of glass. I would caution any beginner to use this without lots of practice, going slow, and doing this with ease.

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Is glass one of your favorite kinds of materials?
I am very fond of glass products and I do own a lot of glass dildos. I have to be in the mood for glass, and this butt plug.. I really have never found my "mood" for it. I really, really, want to. One day I hope to use this plug with ease but for now, my ass can live without it. I really enjoy stainless steel and silicone products at the moment. They are divine. Glass to me is just.. a piece of art. If it is beautiful, I am going to want to use it. I am going to want to find pleasure from it. If the glass is gorgeous, I will buy it and try it out. This glass product is almost fizzled out, even though it is completely adorable. One appeal to glass is that you can use it for some temperature play. It is really a great sensation. You can put this quickly in a glass of ice water and insert it for some cold sensation or run it under some warm water for a warming sensation. Always be careful when doing temperature play because your hands and your genitals/ass area are very different in temperatures when touched. You don't want to freeze or burn your intimate parts.

How do I clean this product?
Glass is extremely smooth and nonporous. Easy to clean, with soap/water or sex toy cleaner. Use condoms if sharing. It has a Eden Safety Rating of 10. That is one of the reasons that I love glass, it is just so safe. I personally wipe it down with an antibacterial wipe and dry it completely before placing it into a padded bag so it doesn't get destroyed or broken. It is very space efficient, so it fits just about anywhere you want to put it. I keep this stored in my toy box with my other glass toys that are all in padded bags for safe keeping. You can also use any type of lubrication for glass as you'd like. That is always a plus.

Anything else you'd like to share with all of us?
I wish that this product was more my style, but unfortunately.. it didn't end up that way. I will continue to try and accustom myself to this product, but I highly doubt that I will enjoy it in the future. I have moved on to my love of stainless steel njoy products and silicone for my butt plugs. I will keep this around and probably just look at it in awe at the beauty of such a product.