From the moment I saw the Fluffy Flog Her, I knew I had to have it. All my BDSM gear|Bondage Gear is black and white and not being a huge fan of pink (at least not when it comes to BDSM) I immediately ordered this sexy flogger in the black and white color.

Finally holding it in my hand, I was surprised at how well it is weighted. It isn't so heavy as to cause any strain on your wrists, but it isn't so light as to feel flimsy either. I found the weight perfect for just letting the tails slap down without any added force behind them. The loop on the end of the handle is great too. I use this to store it hanging in my closet and also as a wrist strap during use. I feel that I must mention the beauty of the handle. The leather strips are woven together to create that sexy checkerboard look, and seem to be excellent quality. The smell of the leather is lovely too. It's not overpowering at all, but it is strong enough that I can smell it when I try.

The suede tails create a lovely sting, that when paired to the light and fluffy feeling of the "Muppet Fur" is delightful. I found the flogger simple to use, just make sure you know the rules of flogging and take some time to practice before using with a partner. Make sure to always keep clear of the face, spine, organs, and other sensitive areas. The amount of pain that I could inflict with a well aimed and forceful swing amazed me. It was a very different sound and sensation than when I just allowed the flogger to make use of its own weight. I thought a full on slap from this felt similar to a slap from a hand with spread fingers. I have been on both ends of this flogger, and thoroughly enjoy both.

The handle measures 8 inches with the gripable (checkerboard) part being 5 ½ inches long. The handle fits both my husband’s wider hands and my narrower hands very comfortably. The tails themselves are 20 inches long which was the perfect length for our uses.

Thankfully I have not gotten this dirty yet, so cleaning has not been an issue for me. If I were to get it messy however, I would use a damp rag (with mild soap if it were needed) and just wipe it off. A good leather conditioner would be a good idea too, just to keep this in tip top shape. Suede is a little trickier to clean. I have not had to clean it yet as I said, but I have read that for dry stains to try a pencil eraser or an emery board.

For my husband and I, BDSM|General Information about BDSM is a once a week special treat, as it takes more time and prep than our usual sex does. Since we have gotten this sexy flogger|Fluffy flogger, we have used it during every session, whether it has been gentle and more playful, or a harder more pain intense scene. I would highly recommend this to anyone who enjoys giving, receiving, or is just curious about a little pain in their sex life.