So my husband has always had this infatuation with the fetish stuff. He has always wanted to tie me up, gag me, and so on. We have slowly added to his fetish fantasy with various toys and outfits. I want to keep him interested since we are newlyweds. I was always terrified to try a gag for fear that it would make me gag and then throw up. When I saw that there was a breathable gag, I decided to give it a try. Then when the product arrived, I thought, "Oh, no—is my tongue ring going to get stuck in the holes?" Thankfully, it did not, and my husband loved the product. We used the gag along with a sexy maid outfit, handcuffs, and some thigh-high boots. I was trying to provide him with one of his fantasies, and the gag added to the thrill. This product can be used for men or women, in any kind of relationship. I think that this is more of a beginner to intermediate product because of the holes. I think a more advanced couple would use one without holes. We look forward to adding more toys and outfits so that he can get the full effect of his fantasy. We have not tried to use the ball gag without the other artifacts to heighten the fantasy.

The reason I got the breathable gag was for the breathable feature. I am slowly trying to get used to my husband being dominating in the bedroom. I have mild claustrophobia, and I freak myself out thinking I am going to get harmed. When he first told me he wanted to get a gag, I freaked because I thought I was going to throw up and choke on it. I know—silly me! So I got the breathable one, and he was excited. Then I freaked, thinking my tongue ring was going to get stuck in the holes. I like that there is an adjustable strap so that different shapes and sizes can enjoy the same product. The strap is made of the fake leather material and has a metal clasp. The ball is made out of harder plastic; it is hollow and has holes in it. The feeling of the strap was not bad at all; the inside of the strap is lined with a softer material. My only issue was that my head size was between two of the holes, so we made our own hole. I had to make my own hole so that the strap fit tighter around my head and did not fall down. The strap has many holes, which can fit many different sizes.

The breathable ball gag worked very well for me. For the first time, my husband actually got to experience his fantasy of using a gag and not just mildly choking me. My husband watches fetish porn, so I wanted him to experience some of the stuff shown in the fetish porn. I have invested in several restraints, sexy outfits, cuffs, and various lubes; I have never had a gag, so this was my first experience. In the future, I plan on trying the gag on him, along with cuffing him, so that we can try some role reversal.

After we used the ball gag, I rinsed out the ball so that spit was not kept inside to make the ball smell.