Helpless Honey

Everything you’d want out of a spreader bar, it’s here: sleek, shiny, and lightweight metal that comfortably keeps the arms and legs spread apart, leaving one helpless. The most enticing thing of all is that you can adjust it while wearing it, and when walking in it, it’s so humiliating! The fun never stops with this spreader; there are so many ways to use it. Trust me when I say it will be the only spreader that you’ll ever need in your BDSM toy box.
Entirely adjustable, keeps your arms or legs spread apart, deliciously humiliating to walk in.
Screws can loosen, metal pins can be stubborn to slide through the holes.
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review
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This sleek, light, and shiny metal spreader truly means business folks. Two heavy duty bolts lie at each end of the bar, allowing for wrist or ankle cuffs to attach to them with a padlock. The design of this bar is in three pieces, which enables this product to fit into your toy bag for storage and travel (it doesn’t come in a tube package, just on its own). It has two metal pins that slide through the adjustment holes, keeping the bar sturdy and durable. The most striking quirk of all is its length, a merciless 25” that can exceed up to 37”, and a 2” length between each adjustment hole. Some may tremble at the knees at just the thought of 25”-37” metal forcefully spreading their arms and legs apart, restricting every movement while being spanked, pounded, and humiliated to a pulp. Scary? Yes. Exciting? Hell yes. Orgasmic? Oh boy…it’s more than orgasmic, it’s absolutely thrilling!

I decked out my ankles with the Dragon Silk Wrist Restraints|Sex toys reviews - Dragon silk wrist restraints, attached one end of the spreader bar to its D-ring, and spread my legs wide as I adjusted the bar to 25”, locking it in place with the sturdy pins, and then padlocking the last bolt to my restraint. All I could think was “oh my fucking God, I’m so helpless!” Helpless, but feeling comfortable wearing it. Before I even got down and dirty, one thing I knew for sure was that this baby keeps your legs spread apart, strongly restricting body movement. The metal pins didn’t slip out, and added more intensity as I tried to wiggle and writhe in my bondage.

Standing up, I grabbed my Screw butt plug|Sex toys reviews – The screw, eased it in my bum hole, and then eased my new G-spot Lover|Danni's e-glass G-spot lover into my dripping wet pussy, giving her a good and rough pounding. As I quickened the pace while also thrusting my butt plug in and out of my ass, my legs gagged to be free, wanting to move, desperate to close together with touching knees, but I couldn't. My horniness heightened; I screamed, and I came, and immediately adjusted the bar at its whopping 37” length afterwards. Instead of standing up, I lied down on my back with my legs in the air, and gave my holes another good pounding. Spread at 37”, oh boy, I didn’t think it could be possible, but I was as helpless as ever, and cumming more than ever.

By the time I was through, with knees and legs shaking and all, I was in love with this spreader bar; I almost didn’t want to get out of them! In the future, I plan on exploring suspension bondage|BDSM accessories: Suspension kits, posture bondage|The play arsenal of BDSM, and using it in a variety of positions with my partner. If anything, the only downside is that the screws can loosen a bit, but can easily be re-tightened again. The metal pins can also be rough to slide through the holes, but with many uses it slides in more easily.

The adjustable spreader bar|Adjustable spreader bar is by far the most thrilling toy I have in my toy box. It’s sexy, versatile, extremely comfortable, and humiliating, and just makes you want to scream for more, more, more.
To get the best optimal results out of this toy, make sure you use the best ankle/wrist restraints that you have! Don't be afraid to explore this spreader bar; there are other uses for it other than just keeping the legs and arms spread. For instance, while wearing the spreader, use the rings from the metal pins as a way to attach to a pair of wrist cuffs; this further intensifies the bondage! Posture bondage, suspension bondage, and testing out this toy in various positions is recommended---it can all be done. Also, despite this bar being top notch and sturdy, be gentle with it. Whenever a screw is loose, tighten it immediately, and be patient with the metal pins if they get stubborn, they won't break, but they can wear off if handled very roughly, and most importantly, don't loose them! Explore, have fun, and be the helpless honey that you are!
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  • Contributor: karenm
    Great review, thanks!
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