Charmer - sex toy by Tantus - review by JustYourAverageGuy

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The Charmer is charming and offers a unique feel that most toy's can't match. Great to hit the G/P-Spot's, this toy delivers great sensation. A bit slim for those wanting a full feeling, and not a toy for anal beginners. Overall a great toy for any experienced user's arsenal for all uses, especially since it is made of silicone which lends itself to being a superior product.
Unique texture/design, safe silicone, O-ring compatible, price.
Not for beginners(anal), can hurt if used incorrectly, a bit slim.
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


The Charmer is a O-Ring compatible (Strap on compatible) dildo. It does not vibrate, but has some very nice ridges for added stimulation. It can be used vaginally or anally as it has a flared base. For those seeking a unique texture (one that is not phallic, smooth, veiny, etc.), this toy is for you. While the toy is fairly slim, I would advise against this toy for anal beginners due to the ridges... it might be a bit much for you at the start.

Material / Texture

The Charmer is made of Tantus' silicone which is 100% silicone with a polished-like finish. It is smooth and firm. The main feature of this toy are the ripples along the shaft which are a bit rigid, more rigid than the Echo, but large enough you can feel them while in use, despite the slim nature of this toy. The silicone is non-porous, phthalates-free, hypo-allergenic, and latex-free.

Design / Shape / Size

The Charmer has a very unique design. I would describe it somewhat like a saw blade. That's not to say this toy is sharp or will hurt you, but the ridges are very defined. The toy is 7" long, 6 1/2" of that is insertable. It is 1 1/4" in diameter, making it a fairly slim toy, especially for vaginal use. As stated earlier, I would suggest this toy for intermediate/advanced anal users, and NOT beginners due to the ridges. They offer a great feel, but easily could hurt if you aren't ready for them. The toy I purchased was the purple color which was a very light colored purple, which some swirling visible in the silicone.


I was surprised by how this toy felt. I used it anally and when relaxed it felt wonderful. The ridges could be felt going in and out, but the toy did not have a lot of girth, so there was no fullness or stretching type of feeling. I really could concentrate on how the toy felt going in and out on my anus. Since this toy has an upward curve to it, it also hits the P spot (anally for guys, or G-spot when used vaginally). In fact each of the ridges hits the P-spot, which was quite an amazing sensation in and of itself. A very different sensation even from toys made specifically for the P-spot.

However, there is a catch. When using this toy and closing your anus for a tighter fit, the toy had a somewhat unpleasant feeling. As soon as one of the ridges hit on the way out, the body naturally sensed this pain and let the sphincter loose. With that, I would suggest using this toy relaxed, as it felt wonderful that way.

The toy can also be used vaginally, and will hit the G-spot due to its upward curve, which my girlfriend enjoyed quite a bit. However, since this toy does not have a lot of girth it didn't offer a real feel.

The bottom line is that this toy has a very unique feel to it due to its sawtooth style ridges and G/P-spot abilities, but will not offer a fullness feel to it regardless of where you use it.

Care and Maintenance

As with all silicone products, it can be disinfected/sterilized boiling it for 3 minutes or by throwing it into the top rack of your dishwasher or by using simple soap and warm water. Silicone is a very resilient material and will not break down and will last a very long time if properly cared for.

Use only water-based lubes with this toy, as silicone lubes will cause the toy to deteriorate.


This toy is no different from most of the Tantus line and comes in a simple plastic box. It doesn't offer much instruction for use, but allows you to see the entire product without removing it from the box, so you know exactly what you are buying.
Follow-up commentary
I don't have much else to say about this toy as a follow up review, except that it has continued to perform well and all of my comments have simply been affirmed over time. This is still a great toy!

The charmer offers a unique texture which in turn gives a different feel from most toys. It is versatile since it is O ring compatible, made of silicone, can be shared (if sanitized between uses), and works well both anally and vaginally. It is slightly curved which helps with P and G-spot massage and can give fantastic orgasms.

The cons? I only can think of two. One is that it is fairly narrow and does not offer that stretch and filled up feeling, and two, that the ridges potentially can be too much for some and can sometimes hurt if the toy is used improperly.

This toy is still high on my list and enjoy it every time. For anyone looking for something different, this might be your solution. I highly recommend it.
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