Butterfly kiss - g-spot vibrator by Cal Exotics - review by Pleasure Piratess

Butterfly, Your Kiss Was A Miss

The butterfly kiss is an inexpensive, beginner-friendly style of rabbit vibrator with moderately strong vibrations. Best of all, it is water-proof and easy to travel making it a great addition to solo and couples play.
Beginner friendly
Strong vibrations
Low quality material
Head does not hit G-spot
Butterfly may not reach clit
Shaft is short & thin
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


The Butterfly Kiss would be best suited for women who are beginners to sex toys or who prefer small, unobtrusive shafts. This toy is a good addition to both lady's solo or couples play. It is intended to stimulate both the clit and g-spot simultaneously, although the particular way it is shaped may make it difficult to use exactly for its intended purpose. However, the moderate vibrations carry well ensuring you will find this toy a great clit stimulator, even if your body does not support the intended use. The fact that it is travel-friendly and water-proof mean you will surely find more than one way to float the butterfly or sting with the bee!
  • Who / How / What
    [ ? ]
    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Bachelor/ bachelorette party
    • Couples
    • Sensory play
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
    • Campus/roommate living
    • Tub/shower/pool
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Clitoris
    • G-spot
    • Nipples

Material / Texture

Butterfly Kiss is comprised of somewhat porous, soft, jelly material with a plastic battery cap. This toy had only a slightly sweet yet rubbery smell, but I did not taste it. It is completely smooth with a moderate drag when running your fingers across it without lube. After lubrication is applied, it becomes completely slick. Unfortunately, frequent reapplication of lube may be required as this toy tends to suck up lube. Storage in a plastic bag or pouch is necessary as this toy collects more lint than a fuzz buster! The jelly is extremely soft and the shaft is very pliable. If you wiggle the toy from the base, the shaft will actually jiggle almost like Jello (picture that without smiling). The butterfly as the clit stimulator gives just the right amount of texture to add stimulation without feeling rough or intimidating for beginners. It should be noted however, that jelly toys carry a safety rating of only 2 out of 10, and do not tend to have a long shelf-life compared to higher quality toys like silicone.
    • Flexible
    • Light odor
    • Porous

Design / Shape / Size

By sight this toy is quite obviously a sex toy, but since it is small and easily hidden, it is not likely to attract attention. It would also be easy to travel with, and although there is no button lock, the one button that is located on the bottom of the toy must be very deliberately pushed to turn on the toy. However, simply removing the batteries ensure no accidental powering will attract attention to your bags. And fortunately, if you are looking for a toy that is discreet in sound, this will likely fit the bill. On its highest setting it will probably not attract attention outside of a closed door. Be warned, however, that the sound tends to reverberate in the tub, so make sure any roommates are gone to ensure privacy. Fortunately, this is not an issue in the shower.
    • Beginner
    • Whimsical / artistic

Functions / Performance / Controls

The Butterfly Kiss was the result of a beautiful idea that didn't quite hit the mark. Its one button located on the bottom of the battery compartment is easy to access without risk of accidentally changing settings. It starts and stops with one push and continues to boast three deep and rumbly (not buzzy) speeds; low thrum, medium thrum, and OMG thrumming, but sadly does not have any pulsation patterns or emergency off switch. The 3 inch insertable shaft has a bulbous-head of 1 ¼ inch diameter that is intended to stimulate the g-spot, but because it is so soft and has no curve, I doubt it would work for most women. Especially because it has no texture and the shaft is very small, measuring only ¾ of an inch diameter, and does not carry vibration well, it does not add much excitement at the entrance either. Its second intended purpose is as a clit stimulator, but because the butterfly is only one inch in length, it probably won't stimulate all the way to the top of the clit, and for many women, this would make it completely useless. Its one redeeming quality is that the vibrations are quite strong and directed right up to the clit stimulator, so if you are willing to use this toy by laying the shaft against your vulva and perineum rather than putting it inside, the butterfly can kiss your clit as intended and you may finally find love. And while the butterfly wings don't flutter, the antennas do tingle against your clit adding the ability to tease or use light stimulation, even to the nipples.
    • Easy to use
    • Multiple settings
    • Powerful

Care and Maintenance

The Butterfly Kiss is compatible with your favorite water-based or silicone-based lube and is easy to clean with simple soap and warm water. And because it is water-proof, you won't have to worry about water getting on the controls. However, because it is made of jelly it cannot be sanitized, so be sure to use a condom if you will be sharing this toy. This toy should be kept away from your other toys as it may have a reaction and melt, ruining both toys. Fortunately, it is small enough to fit in a standard pouch for safe-keeping. Unfortunately, no pouch is included, so be sure to add one to your order. To extend battery-life, remove the two AAA batteries from the battery compartment between uses. By simply removing the batteries, I have managed to use my Butterfly for more than 2 hours total without having to change the batteries. Although it is always a good idea to have a back-up set available "just in case".
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store


I have had my Butterfly kiss for over 6 months now, and while I do like this toy, it is far from my favorite. It has a way of migrating to the bottom of the toybox, usually only to be rediscovered if I am looking for something to play with in the water. As a dual stimulator, I find that the shaft is far too small to provide enough stimulation. And when it is inserted, the clit stimulator does not properly reach my clit. However, I have managed to circumvent these issues by not using the shaft internally. Instead, I lay the shaft against my vulva and move the butterfly to a more pleasurable position. First I let the antennas dance softly over my clit, then as I start to warm-up, I find that the butterfly is perfect to grind against. I love that the vibrations are deep and thrumming rather than buzzy, and are comparable to a very strong bullet.
Follow-up commentary
The most impressive thing about Butterfly Kiss is the long battery-life; it still has the same ones in there from the first review and still going strong. Unfortunately, my anatomy hasn't changed and neither has the shape of this vibe, so it still does not fit my anatomy properly. I would love for Cal Exotics to redesign this vibe to be just a bit more body friendly. I would definitely purchase the 2.0 version!
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  • Selective Sensualist
    Thanks for the great review!
  • Sammi
    Great review!
  • Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
    Very nice review! I also own this toy, and like you found the vibrations to be only moderate and the design of the toy not quite right as far as reaching my clit properly. Oh well -- it's still a fun toy to have at times!
  • Kaltir
    Thanks for the review
  • link82
    Fantastic review - thank you!
  • Miss T
    Awesome review, thank you!
  • charcat
    It didn't quite fit me, either, which was a little disappointing
  • Lady Neshamah
    thanks for the review
  • sweet seduction
    Great review!
  • freda
    nice review
  • JackLynn
    Thanks for taking the time to review this product
  • richsam
    thanks for the review
  • mrssnyder
    nice review
  • deltalima
    Thanks for sharing
  • deltalima
    Thanks for sharing
Discussion Posts Last Update
Worth the price difference? 3
Just fyi if you are replacing you butterfly kiss 6
Why is the blue one more expensive? 9
What's up with different Butterfly Kisses? 10
i used this one and after 7
Blue more expensive? 5
Jelly Deformation? 33
i have experiment attraction to women,,, i´m bicurious? 7
I'm having battery issues! 5
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