Butterfly kiss - g-spot vibrator by Cal Exotics - review by Mwar

Butterfly kiss

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Flutter Me Senseless!

The Butterfly Kiss is beginner friendly yet has qualities that appeal to anyone. If you've been looking for a vibrator with a worthy clitoral attachment, THIS is it. The butterfly is sure to flutter your clitoris to high places. Add that to a great price point and... SOLD!
Great Price
Good Clitoral Attachment
Really Great Value
Very flexible Shaft
May not be strong enough for some
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


The Butterfly Kiss is a G-spot vibrator that has an adorable butterfly clitoral attachment for dual stimulation. It can be used purely as a clitoral vibe by either using the tip or turning the toy 180 degrees so the butterfly lies on the clitoris without insertion.

Butterfly Kiss is great for solo play or foreplay with a partner. It is also waterproof, allowing for bath-time enjoyment.

This toy is not intended for anal play. However, it is possible so long as a condom is placed over it. Because of the butterfly attachment it will not get lost in the body. A condom is recommended for anal play because the material (TPR) is porous.

Almost anyone can gain enjoinment from the Butterfly Kiss.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Solo
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
    • Tub/shower/pool
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Clitoris

Material / Texture

The Butterfly Kiss is made of TPR. It has a drag to it, but it will glide effortlessly if a little lubricant is added. The head is bulbous and then thins to the neck. The shaft is smooth. While a seem is visible vertically up the shaft, it cannot be felt when used.

The butterfly attachment is detailed with antennae, wings, and a stripped/segmented body. The ridges on the body are pleasing and provide extra stimulation without being too much for beginners or those new to texture.

The lower part of the toy has an array of little hearts on it. They are mainly decorative and add a nice touch to the design.

There is a slight odor to the Butterfly Kiss. It is only very noticeable if you place your nose to the toy.

Design / Shape / Size

The size, shape, and overall design of the Butterfly Kiss is beginner friendly. The insertable length is 3.5 inches (not much longer than fingers). The widest point on the head of the shaft is 3.25 inches. I would recommend the Butterfly Kiss for anyone looking for a first toy, a toy for a shy friend, and those starting out. Though it is beginner friendly, the Butterfly Kiss is a nice addition for anyone's toy collection.

The shaft is curved in order to provide G-spot stimulation. However, the shaft is VERY flexible. If you need a firmer pressure on your G-spot, the Butterfly Kiss may not be for you. Here's to show how flexible the shaft is.

The Butterfly Kiss is not very discreet for travel. For discreet travel, you could place it in a personal bath/body bag and then in a purse or luggage. There are toys better designed for travel. If you do travel with it, be sure to remove the batteries. Since the ON button is at the bottom of the toy, an unlucky discovery could occur during your travels.

In terms of sound, the Butterfly Kiss is very discreet on the lower settings. At the first setting it can barely be heard. At the highest it can barely be heard beyond a door (but only if it is totally silent otherwise).

The overall design is cute and well thought.
    • Whimsical / artistic

Functions / Performance / Controls

The Butterfly Kiss takes 2 AAA batteris and doesn't guzzle battery power. It has one button at the bottom of the toy. It is easy to use and is as follows:

1st Press - ON and Low Vibration
2nd Press - Medium Vibration
3rd Press - High Vibration
4th Press - OFF

If you press the button midway at any interval and hold it there, the vibrations will pause until you release it.

The vibrations are centered at the base of the toy. This means the butterfly gets a lot of vibrations. The shaft does but not as much. When on the high setting, the wings and antennae on the butterfly will flutter.

The vibrations are impressive for this toy when considering its price and look. At the highest setting it is about 4 Vrooms.

The Butterfly Kiss is noted as waterproof. I have not submerged it completely, but it is able to withstand showers with ease. I am hesitant to submerge it because it doesn't have that "plug" of rubber and plastic that protects batteries like other waterproof toys.
    • Easy to use
    • Multiple settings

Care and Maintenance

The Butterfly Kiss is relatively low maintenance. It can be washed with soap and water, or toy cleaner. It does collect lint, but not an obnoxious amount. Wiping it with a baby wipe will remove any lint right before use.

Debris can collect on the butterfly, especially in the ridges of its body. You can see if the toy is completely clean if you hold it in the light. Because of the material, you can see if there is any film or debris on the toy. Both water based and silicone lubes can be used on the Butterfly Kiss.

Once the toy has been cleaned and dried, it can be safely stowed in any toy box or dresser drawer.

Note: Be careful when manipulating the antennae of the butterfly. It looks like it will break off it is is handled too roughly. I don't think it will break off easily, but if something were to break on this toy, that would be it.
    • Easy to clean


The Butterfly Kiss came in a clear plastic, snap-shell packaging. The packaging is not made for long term storage. There are no instruction inserts in the packaging.

Personal comments

This is the best clitoral attachment I've seen on a rabbit styled Vibrator. However, if you are looking for intense/firm G-spot stimulation, this toy is not good for you. While the Butterfly Kiss can be inserted and thrusted to your heart's content, it truly shines as a clitoral vibe.

Still, this toy is a great addition to anyone's collection. It's a great price, comes in blue (which is a nice change from pinks and purples) and can be used for shower enjoyment. This is really a great value.
Follow-up commentary
I still like the butterfly kiss, but it's not a star in my collection. It is great for beginners and would make and affordable gift. Honestly, the color really drove me to buy it because there are not nearly as many blue toys as there are pink (and I have too much pink!)

My only thing is that the butterfly kiss collects lint, so if I want to use it, I always want to wipe it down first. Unless I specifically want the kiss, this makes me choose another toy.

For many, this toy will be a stepping stone on their way to intermediate toy use. It was fun, but it probably won't be the end all for most of us.
This product was provided at a discounted price in exchange for an unbiased review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.
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  • Various
    I didn't realize how big this was, I just assumed it was small so thanks for the pics! Great review.
  • Zombirella
    Great review. I've been looking at this one, still not sure but thanks for the pictures showing how flexible it is.
  • ksparkles16
    Great job!
  • Jimbo Jones
    Very helpful pictures. Thanks for the great review.
  • Mwar
    Thanks everyone It is a good value, but this will probably be that toy you add on if you have extra points from an order.
  • GONE!
    Wow, thank you for showing just how flexible it really is!
  • RavenWings
    Whimsy! And I like TPR over jelly any day
  • oopsy
    Great review! Wonderful pictures!
  • sweetpea12
    Thanks for all the great pictures, I am really thinking about purchasing this toy because my g-spot is really shallow and this might be perfect for me.
  • Do emu
    Thanks for reviewing this! I didn't realize that the material was TPR at first. Guess I didn't look hard enough. I'm sad to see that it's so flexible. I have a G spot attachment to my wand which is super flexible...sad to say it doesn't do the trick. I gotta find something that works better!
  • richsam
    thanks for the review
  • Jeanette
    thanks for great review!
  • nanners
    Thanks for the review!
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  • faust
    nice review
Discussion Posts Last Update
Worth the price difference? 3
Just fyi if you are replacing you butterfly kiss 6
Why is the blue one more expensive? 8
What's up with different Butterfly Kisses? 10
i used this one and after 7
Blue more expensive? 5
Jelly Deformation? 32
i have experiment attraction to women,,, i´m bicurious? 7
I'm having battery issues! 5
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