Training My Unit Has Never Been So Fun!

This was the best $55 I have ever spent. Now I can masturbate using something that feels just like the real thing instead of using the dry death grip and desensitizing my cock for the real thing. The tightness, realistic feel, and interior nubs will drive every man insane. Ladies, if you are open (my gf is not), I urge you to buy this for your guy. He will love you for it.
Feels real, very tight, great sensations.
Very non discreet, could be packaged in a black "flashlight" instead of a bright gold one!
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


I wanted to try something more realistic than using my hand. I believe using my hand desensitized me over the years and caused me to have problems reaching orgasm during intercourse, hand jobs and oral sex. While it is billed as a training tool to help build the ability to not come quickly, I believe it can also be used by men like me who need to come quicker. It is that good! The premature ejaculation guys can use it by trying to keep from coming, but guys like me can just go for it!

The STU can be used hand-held or can be wedged in between the mattress and box springs to simulate real sex. It is very realistic and I knew within 5 seconds of putting my cock in it that I would successfully finish. It feels very realistic and is very tight. The texture inside hits just right on the head and sensitive area on the underside of the penis. The cap at the other end can be unscrewed to lessen the vacuum created, or you can leave it tightly screwed in order to get maximum suction.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples who enjoy toy play
    • Horny guys who don't get enough
    • Single guys
  • Where
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    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
    • Tub/shower/pool

Material / Texture

The STU comes in a plastic flashlight case, but make no mistake, it is obviously not a flashlight. The sleeve is made of a soft latex-like material, and the interior is coated with many, many nubs to drive your cock insane. The material feels very close to the real thing, just make sure to warm it up in water and also use plenty of lube. The vagina opening looks very realistic, and it feels realistic too -- especially if you have a girl who is tight, or if you want a girl who is tight. I loved how it felt inside and I built gradually up to an insane orgasm in about 7 minutes the first time I used it. I am going to try to come faster than that next time, and I am pretty sure I will. It felt that good.
    • No odor
    • Smooth
    • Textured interior

Shape / Design / Size / Fit

While I have not tried any other masturbator products, I feel like this one can not be topped. It fit me like a glove and I am not a large guy. I am 5 3/4 - 6" long and about 5" in circumference, an average guy, and this felt like a very nice tight pussy to me. I found that I enjoyed the sensation better when I held the toy on my desk and kept it stationary while pumping it. When I used my hand to move it up and down while sitting, it seemed a little awkward, and didn't feel quite as good to me. The toy is pretty large at about 14" in length with the top screwed on, so if you don't have a good hiding spot look for one before ordering. It could be taken on a trip, but the baggage inspector may ask you to take it out and it's pretty obvious that it's a sex toy.
    • Beginner
    • Realistic
    • Will fit most people

Functions / Performance / Controls

This toy is great in that it has no moving parts, no batteries to replace, and very little noise is produced when using it. It is noisiest with the small lid at the end screwed all the way down because there is no way for the air to escape so it makes a slight farting noise, which would be noticeable in close quarters. But this is offset by the suction it produces when closed. You can unscrew this lid and adjust the suction amount, and this reduces the noise. I personally liked the device with the lid unscrewed slightly.

It is so easy to use because it looks like a real pussy, just lube up and go to it (remember to remove the shipping rod from the device or you might get injured the first thrust though!). It's fun to experiment with the suction, and you can also hold it in different positions to change the stimulation points it hits on your cock.
    • Easy to use
    • Feels realistic
    • Very stimulating

Care and Maintenance

I cleaned it using hot running water, and I believe you could turn the sleeve inside out to give it a good cleaning. I haven't done so yet. The instructions are very clear that only water-based lubes should be used, and the unit comes with a sample package of Fleshlight brand lube.

If you are open with your girl, it can be stored in a dresser or on a closet shelf. If you need to have it in secret, you need to find a special place, because it is large and easy to spot.


It was packaged in a nice metal can, but it was not discreet. The can had the Fleshlight logo on it and a model in a bikini holding an STU, along with a picture of the interior and vaginal entrance. The instructions were easy to follow and very concise, because really, what instructions do you really need?

I cleaned it using hot running water, and I believe you could turn the sleeve inside out to give it a good cleaning. I haven't done so yet.

The instructions are very clear that only water-based lubes should be used, and the unit comes with a sample package of Fleshlight brand lube.
    • Not discreet

Personal comments

I have only used this once, and I can tell I am hooked. I have a great sex life, but on occasion I know this will be used when time for sex is elusive. I think it will also help me become more sensitive again, and enhance my sex life so that my girl can give me succesful handjobs or blowjobs (I have never come from either). It will also help me come faster during intercourse I believe (believe it or not, I sometimes last too long, and it is not as fun as the porn movies make it seem).

It feels like a tight virgin pussy would feel to me, and you can immediately feel very nice sensations on your cock upon entry. Guys with trouble lasting might not last more than a few strokes with it, it is that good. But if you have this problem, practicing with it and holding off as best you can may help you get better at lasting in real life.
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  • cherryredhead88 Contributor: cherryredhead88
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  • Contributor: cherryredhead88
    Excellent first review, and welcome to Eden! Glad to hear you liked this so much, I really like the one I got for my partner. Makes me want a penis.
  • Contributor: Bonanza Jellybean
    Really great review; thank you for sharing. I want to get my guy one of these for Christmas.
  • Contributor: M121212
    Glad to hear this one's working out well for you Great first review!
  • Contributor: B8trDude
    Great first review! I agree, the STU is fantastic! Welcome to the club!
  • Contributor: ShadowKitten
    Just so you know, you do NOT want to turn the fleshlight inside out, this WILL cause micro-tears and once they start they keep growing in size FAST, the fleshlight is stretchy but there is only so much it can take (at any part, the 'shaft' portion and the orifice, I also suggest you powder it once a month with corn starch (exterior mostly, rub it in not 'fluff' it, and don't use baby powder or talcum powder as this can damage the fleshlight) or whenever it starts feeling sticky after drying it out (remember 4+ hours, preferably 6-8 is wise to make sure all the tiny bits of water evaporate from inside the fleshlight as if you don't and put it away it CAN grow mold, not a fun thing for your penis!)

    overall great first review, I look forward to future reviews from you enjoy your newfound toy!
  • Contributor: CuteDee
    Welcome! Great review! = )
  • Contributor: Lucky21
    Great review! Thanks!
  • Contributor: fleshlightluvr1
    great review....agree that it definitely is not discreet!
  • Contributor: a6peter9
    Great Review, but I think most mens toys arent that discreet
  • Contributor: MrWishyWashy
    Yummy....want one, thanks!
  • Contributor: Entropy
    Nice review, thank you.
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  • Contributor: Missmarc
    Thank you for the review!
  • Contributor: BlooJay
    Thx for the review!
  • Contributor: spiced
    Thanks for a great first review! This toy does sound like fun.
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