Venus butterfly - strap-on vibrator by Cal Exotics - review by lovemuscle n cookie

Beautiful Butterfly, Good For An Assist!

The butterfly is a fun toy to use on your own or with a partner. While it does take time to get the toy aligned properly and it's not totally "hands free", it is a good little toy.
Great for clitoral stimulation
Coating gets sticky over time, not as "hands off" or discreet as claimed in product description
Rating by reviewer:
useful review


This is a cute fun little toy. It takes practice, but once you figure out how to align it just right it is a great clitoris stimulator. I enjoy using the butterfly during foreplay to help get me in the mood, or using it for clitoral stimulation during anal penetration. The straps are adjustable and I had no issues with them fitting.

While the description states the butterfly is discreet enough to use in public, it is not that discreet. While I've never tried it, the toy seems a little too bulky to wear under clothes that would hide it.
  • Who / How / What
    [ ? ]
    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Solo
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Clitoris

Material / Texture

The butterfly is basically a bullet wrapped in TPR, which feels like a sort of silicone, rubbery type of covering. This makes the butterfly soft and flexible. However it does become sticky if not dried and stored properly.
    • Flexible
    • Soft
    • Sticky

Design / Shape / Size

The butterfly is cute, which is what attracted me to this toy. As mentioned above, it does take practice to get the butterfly aligned just right to get the outcome you want. If the alignment is slightly off, you'll get a nice tease but won't cum. With that said, for being "hands off" it does require quite a bit of "hands on" to ensure the alignment stays in place for the experience you desire.

Functions / Performance / Controls

The control is a wired remote. The butterfly has multiple speed settings, and a simple dial control which allows for ease of use. When set on high and aligned just right it could definitely get the job done.
    • Discreet sound
    • Easy to use
    • Multiple settings

Care and Maintenance

It is not waterproof, so you don't want to submerge in water, however it's fairly easy to clean with toy cleaner. If the straps need to be cleaned or get damp, the toy needs to lay out for the straps to dry. Over time and/or by not storing or drying the butterfly properly, the rubbery coating became sticky which makes it harder to clean and maintain.


The toy lasted several years before we disposed of it. I enjoyed it while it lasted, especially for clitoral stimulation along with anal penetration. However, over time as it became sticky it became harder to clean and maintain, which in the end is why we disposed of it.
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  • Linga
    Good review, thanks
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    Thanks for the review!!
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    Thanks for your review!
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    Thanks for the review.
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    Good review!
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