Venus butterfly - strap-on vibrator by Cal Exotics - review by - Kira -


Unless you can orgasm from just putting something near your clit, you probably won't be able to get off with this. Frustrating product.
No strength, hard to get on.
Rating by reviewer:
useful review
I had high hopes since I've been told good things about the butterfly. Perhaps the biggest compliment I can give it is that it is really cute. Cute, however, is not the key to a good sex toy.

The first thing that bugged me was how difficult it was to figure out the straps. I ended up having to call in backup from my husband to get the straps to hook up properly. After getting it hooked up, I turned it on and felt pretty much nothing. The vibrations are minimal and the jelly that surrounds it diminishes any strength it might have had. I've tried this thing multiple times and have yet to orgasm once. In fact, it feels more annoying than pleasurable. I would get irritated with it after a while and give up. I might give it one or two more tries and then it will be banished to the drawer of sex toys that never get used.

It's also pretty loud. I'm sure my husband could hear the vibrations through the bathroom door. He probably heard my frustrated sighs as well.

My husband asked me yesterday why I don't use my butterfly and I got frustrated just thinking about it. Possibly the most sexually frustrating toy I own. Total disappointment. I'm extra disappointed because I had been eyeing these up for a while and thought it would be something fun to use around the house or for solo play. I love bullets, so I thought this would be a double win.

The only way I could recommend this would be someone who can orgasm from looking at sex toys or by the lowest possible range of vibrations. Sadly, that's not me. Maybe I'm doing something wrong, but I kind of doubt it. I orgasm pretty easily, so if something doesn't get me off, it speaks volumes.
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  • That Man from Mars
    It's a shame this was so bad for you. Ours is wonderful. It was easy for us to figure out how to get it on her and it works marvelously. Perhaps you had some sort of defect?
  • Destri
    Wow, this thing sounds terrible! Thanks for the honest review, or I might have gotten sucked into buying it because it looks good.
  • Silverdrop
    I had a butterfly once that was so poorly designed I couldn't even it open to add the batteries. It seems to be one of those ideas that work out better in theory than reality.
  • Miss Anonymous
    I love the color! I don't think I'd want to try it. Good review.
  • js250
    What about cleaning? Was it easy or difficult to clean? Sorry you had a bad experience, it has made me rethink my decision on this toy.
  • - Kira -
    It gets incredibly messy because of the type of jelly used, I guess. It works almost like a lint detector where if I put it down everything attracts to it from hair to dust. It takes a good bit of scrubbing to get all this off, and it seems to get right back on pretty quickly. Not the hardest toy ever to clean, but far from easy simply because of the jelly.
  • Sarah <3
    thanks it is really cute
  • PassionQT
    I've never had luck with this type of toy either.
  • flyingpenguin
    thanks for the review
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