Venus butterfly - sex toy by Cal Exotics - review by js250

This Butterfly May Very Well Be From Venus.

I am not sure how women from Venus are built, but those of us here on earth really need to work it if we want to keep this butterfly where it belongs. My butterfly like to go where no butterfly should be, right on my pubic bone! It has a great bullet in it, but positioning is quite a trick when using this little flutterbye.
Good bullet
Easy controls
No butt floss!
Moves to wrong spot
Not hands free
Points are painful
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


I was excited when my husband came home with this hands free butterfly! A wild, sexy night of relaxing and getting off was foremost in my mind for the evening. And then I used it, wow. The straps were a bit uncomfortable, I was so glad there was not one going up my butt, however that I could overlook the discomfort. The butterfly was not staying in place, but it took one hand to solve that problem. The sharp pointy beak? Okay, this is not working out. I ended up taking the harness off and using my hand to position the butterfly for maximum contact. Yes! That worked great, I had two orgasms fairly rapidly. Oh, did I mention that I flipped it onto its back to avoid the points?

My husband had a great idea, try it with underwear when we went out. I agreed, this is after I cut and filed the sharp points off. I strapped it on, got my sexy panties in place and was excited about a fun and titillating time for me. I did not count on the butterfly riding its way up to my pubic bone! Thank goodness I was wearing a skirt, or it would have looked like I had a bit of a package going on. The vibrating pubic bone was also a turn off. Well, back to using it with my hands, yep, that worked.
  • Who / How / What
    [ ? ]
    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Gag gift
    • Solo
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • On a bed only
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Clitoris
    • Nipples

Material / Texture

The straps are elastic and are reasonably stretchy. They do dig in and chafe due to no soft material casing around them They are adjustable, so fit should not be a problem.

The butterfly is TPR, is fairly flexible and comfortable. There are a couple of points which were painful for me that I ended up cutting and filing for comfort. There are ribs and designs on the top and bottom that make some pleasurable sensations when held onto your clitoris.

This product could be good for intermediate to advanced users that know how to adapt toys to fit their needs, but might be pretty frustrating for beginning users. The material is compatible with water and silicone based lubes. I found the odor to be noticeable but not too strong or irritating.
    • Bumpy
    • Flexible
    • Porous

Design / Shape / Size

There are two elastic straps which are made to fit on each leg and a strap for going behind your lower back. They are very adjustable and should fit a wide range of women. The Butterfly has a 2" long by 1" diameter bullet encased in TPR material that is formed and textured to be a butterfly. The cord leading out to the controller is about 28" long and the controller is hard plastic with a dial towards the top.

The harness did not keep the butterfly in place for me, but that could be just my build. The butterfly was a bit uncomfortable, but felt nice after I adapted it. The bullet was great. I found the vibrations to be good, the controller easy to use and was happy with the product after I quit using it as it was designed. When I used my hand and held it in place, it was a fun clitoral stimulator.

It is meant to wear alone or under clothing. It could be great for travel if this fits properly, however the noise might be a serious deterrent. The bullet, while being reasonably powerful is also not very quiet. As far as being discreet? See for yourself in the pictures. You have a bulleted butterfly attached to a harness with a controller....Yeah, you guessed it!! And so will someone else.
    • Ergonomic
    • Whimsical / artistic

Functions / Performance / Controls

The controller has a door opening to the battery compartment, it takes 2 AA batteries. The dial is about an inch down from the top and just needs a turn to get you to the right speed. The cord is reasonably long for ease of use and the harness will adjust to fit almost anyone.

The vibrations are located throughout the bullet and are reasonably powerful. The motor is not very quiet, so please use this at your discretion. If you are wondering about being heard, the odds are that you will be.

The butterfly is waterproof, but I honestly have no desire to try it in the tub. Wet elastic just gives me the creeps. Sorry.
    • Easy to use
    • Not very discreet
    • Waterproof

Care and Maintenance

The butterfly washes well in soapy water, just be sure not to get the controller wet. I wipe that down with a damp cloth. I do use a toothbrush for the ridges shapes and dips in the butterfly, which makes cleaning a breeze!

TPR is porous, so do not share! It needs to be stored separately from your other toys or it can cause damage and discoloration. I keep mine in a zip lock bag.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store
Follow-up commentary
I ended up cutting the straps off the butterfly and using it as a hand held clitoral bullet. I am also considering removing the bullet from the butterfly for more versatility. I like the bullet and the controller is very enjoyable, the power is pretty good. I am a bit worried about the overheating of the motor due to is being encased in the butterfly. I have had no problems with this yet, but I also won't use this very often as a clitoral teaser.
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  • TameTemptress
    Thanks for the review. I think I'll pass on this one.
  • Boobs and Lubes
    these so do not look sexy, ty for the review, we're good!
  • Miss Anonymous
    I've been eying these for sometime, but all the reviews are three stars and below! too low for me to order one. Thanks for taking the time to share this review with us
  • emilia
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  • TheSlyFox
    Thanks for the review.
  • Stinkytofu10
    thanks for the great review, and all the information you provided. a lot of reviews also say the straps did not keep the butterfly in place, so I think it has to do with the toy's poor design and construction.
  • flyingpenguin
    thanks for the review
  • Teacookie
    thank you
  • richsam
    Thanks for the review
  • CaliGirl
    great review
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