Do you like pain during sexual encounters and if yes, do you have a history of self injury?

Contributor: itismedi itismedi
I like pain, but I have never self injured.
09/15/2012
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
I love pain and I've never self injured.
01/02/2013
Contributor: Gracefire Gracefire
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Originally posted by Pixel
I used to self injure, and under the right circumstances I adore pain mixed with sex. Masochistic tendencies, I haz them. However, I don't experience the same sort of release with kinky sex as I did with self injuring. With the SI stuff, I ... more
This is almost me exactly.

I felt the pain when I SI'd - it was the pain that was the release. When done for sexual satisfaction, it's a completely different release than the one I get during BDSM.

However - and this is huge - there are times when I will engage in BDSM not to sexually satisfy myself, but simply to feel pain. It's almost a "socially acceptable" form of self-injury (or, at least one that won't get looked twice at in certain circles).

It really all depends on my mindset and how I go into a scene.
01/03/2013