I just had a nice, lengthy reply for you and accidentally hit the exit button on my browser! AHHH! Ugh!

OKay! Let me see if I can remember the things I was typing and items I suggested. I hate when I screw up like that! Okay. I know I had asked if you were looking more for restraints or whips/floggers, ball gags or what? For some beginner kits that include some little things like your typical flogger/whip, blindfold and cuff, I'll list some below that seem nice to me. Also though, if you're looking into a good restraint system, I highly recommend the Under The Bed Restraint System by Sportsheets! I got it as a beginner and we adore that thing! Easy to use and will last for years. Okay, here goes for some nice beginner BDSM kits:

The Bondage Basics Restraint kit looks like one of the best to me... I'll put links and photos of the things I suggest.

Bondage Basics Restraint Kit


That one looks sturdy, sexy and has a few really nice products included! You could have some fun with that one. But I think it's out of stock at the moment.

And...Just maybe this one...

Sex & Mischief Kit

Not a bad price for that one.

And this one below, the Romantic kit looks nice. It has a little rubber whip and is by Sportsheets, which I'm a fan of their quality.

Romantic Restraint Kit



And Our First Bondage kit is very simple, pretty good quality and has your basics if you're looking to restrain and some light play.

Our First Bondage Kit


And I like this Lover Prisoner kit because it comes with more than just restraints.

Lover's Prisoner



And the Sex & Mischief intro to S&M kit looks neat! Comes with furry cuffs (I personally prefer the velcro restraints to cuffs, but these will do), a small whip and a blindfold that really looks like low quality, so you'd have to think on this one, but it is cheap for a beginning kit! Here's the link and pic...

Intro To S&M



And if you happened to not love those little whips in those kits, here is one sold by itself that I happen to really be wanting right now. Looks fun and nice to me! Here's a photo and link:


Black Rose Whipping Willow

Sexy Slave Kit


Not sure I'd go with this Slave kit over some of the others though.

Now if you're looking for ball-gags, I can't help there because I don't ever use them. But if you're wanting more suggestions on handcuffs and restraints or whips, I could give you some more in-depth info and suggestions if you'd like that. So far I just threw in some links and photos to kits that I thought were great beginning kits.

If you wanted to buy some cuffs and a whip separately from a kit, there are a few nice ones I could suggest.

Hope I didn't overwhelm ya with all this. I hope you find the perfect one! I played around with the pink Japanese Silk Rope for a little bit when I first go into tying my lovie up Lol. It's a cheap $9 rope, I believe so you could even look into that. It won't last long and soon you'd wanna try a good restraint system though.