Temporary Long distance relationship. How do you keep things spicy?

Temporary Long distance relationship. How do you keep things spicy?

Bittenflame Bittenflame
I''m going to be away from my lovely girlfriend for about 2 months, and am curious about how people keep the spice during that time period
05/13/2012
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VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
The longest we've been away has been 2 weeks, but even that is hard! We use Skype and the phone for nightly calls, we text and chat on messagers like AIM or Yahoo or GTalk. Sexting (sending naughty texts and pictures) is fun, and Skype can be for either naughty or nice video chat!
05/13/2012
Bittenflame Bittenflame
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Originally posted by VelvetDragon
The longest we've been away has been 2 weeks, but even that is hard! We use Skype and the phone for nightly calls, we text and chat on messagers like AIM or Yahoo or GTalk. Sexting (sending naughty texts and pictures) is fun, and Skype can be for ...
We've included those so far, and it seems to be going well
05/13/2012
SMichelle SMichelle
My boyfriend is in the UK, and I'm in the US. We have some naughty webcam chats regularly.. We also send each other naughty e-mails as surprises (nothing hotter than waking up to find that he sent me a naughty e-mail, with or without a picture).
05/13/2012
thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
Sending them photos - anything from sexy ones to just cute pictures of things you've done/places you've gone during the day - can be a fun way to stay connected and enjoy each other's presence long distance. Making little care packages to mail them can be fun, too. Texting, Skyping, phone calls, and all that are wonderful ways to stay close too, of course.
05/25/2012
marshmallow marshmallow
Photos and Skype, for sure. And funny stories and telling them how much you miss them.
05/29/2012
indiglo indiglo
Great suggestions so far, and I agree with them all. One fun thing to do with Skype is to leave it on all night. That way you can go to bed with each other, and wake up together in the morning! Great way to start the day! Not quite as good as actually going to bed together, but better than nothing.
05/29/2012
CaliGirl CaliGirl
we send a lot of random sexy "wish you were here" pictures.
05/31/2012
Bittenflame Bittenflame
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Originally posted by indiglo
Great suggestions so far, and I agree with them all. One fun thing to do with Skype is to leave it on all night. That way you can go to bed with each other, and wake up together in the morning! Great way to start the day! Not quite as good as ...
We actually do this all the time!
05/31/2012
Chief Chief
I love skype!
06/03/2012
SouthernBelle SouthernBelle
I was in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for a few months before we moved in together. It was hard, but we spent a lot of time talking on the phone, texting, sending photos. We even watched movies and tv shows together that we both wanted to see.
06/05/2012
Bittenflame Bittenflame
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Originally posted by SouthernBelle
I was in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for a few months before we moved in together. It was hard, but we spent a lot of time talking on the phone, texting, sending photos. We even watched movies and tv shows together that we both ...
How did you manage to watch movies?
06/22/2012
DarthTaco DarthTaco
I was in a long distance relationship for the first two years of my current relationship :'P. I envy your two months @_@! X-Box live made things easier for us :'D. So much Left 4 Dead...
06/23/2012
nori nori
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Originally posted by Bittenflame
How did you manage to watch movies?
My and one of my best friends do this now. and i've done this in every long distance relationship i've had so far. First things first, find yourself a movie streaming online. Or on netflix, or something of that nature. Or even the dvd if you both have it. But I've only done online movies. You call the person on skype, and mute the microphone, and move them to one side of the screen, streaming movie in the other half. Press play at the same time. It's nice, you can see them, you can message back and forth, and watch a movie with them. (Estimate about an hour more than the movie length. Due to buffering, chatting, pauses and rewatching. XD)

If either of you are geeky, you guys can also play a multiplayer game online. Ragnarok and maple story are good (but need to be downloaded!) and Runescape is a fun browser based MMO. I like those three best, but there are many, many more.

You guys can send boxes to each other, as well as hand written letters. I know a temp long distance couple who, the male sent his girlfriend a rubberducky each week, based on her interests, likes, etc. It was super cute. I've sent stuffed animals I've slept with, favorite tshirts, mix cds, etc. Things they'll enjoy, even if you're not there/not in the middle of conversations.

I really like doing the same thing with my lover. Recently, They've taken up artistic endevors. So I can watch them doodle on their tablet, or make things from yarn. and it often makes me feel creative too. She's my muse, and sparks my artistic drive. It's nice. Can also be applied to making music(if you guys play!) knitting, drawing, etc.

I also like picture walks. Go to favorite places, go on a long walk and take pictures along the way. (Like of pretty flowers, new graffiti, your meal at a favorite restaurant, pictures of you with crazy windswept hair) All very good for feeling more together. And they can do the same with their current location!

tldr; movies, video games, mailed boxes, arts and crafts, walking together.
06/24/2012
Bittenflame Bittenflame
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Originally posted by nori
My and one of my best friends do this now. and i've done this in every long distance relationship i've had so far. First things first, find yourself a movie streaming online. Or on netflix, or something of that nature. Or even the dvd if you ...
Lets se...we are going to try the movies. She is a bit busy for video games, we do send care packages with letters ), walking together sounds really cute!
06/29/2012
Woman China Woman China
One of the ways I kept things spicy with an old flame was a photo strip tease. I wrote a post about How to take erotic photos, I found the easiest way was to video tape it and the whole play time, then take snapshots and text message them over the course of a day or two.

Another one was he would record himself reading an erotic story, but the ones I loved more than that, was him out in his garage just working and talking into the phone telling me about his day. He sent it to me via Skype share file thingie and so when I went out for a walk, I got to listen to him putzing in the garage talking to me.

Another: with the time zones it was difficult, but we'd agree on a time, and plan a date. We both had to have stuff there to make say sandwiches, or fondue, or cookies even, and we set up the computers in the kitchens and made stuff together talking and laughing the whole time.

I know I am a little late to the conversation... but hopefully these help!!!
06/29/2012
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