This is NOT a lubricant.

Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
I used vaseline extensively for ages until I came to this site.

I think Alan and Michelle said that any coconut oil except Spectrum is good. Of course they said this right after I bought Spectrum oil. Its supposed to be good for cooking since it can handle high heat, but I find that food sticks horribly with coconut oil.
09/25/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
Oh this thread reminded me.... I was cleaning a room about 2 weeks ago, and I found a small container of Vaseline, pack of condoms... and a used condom covered in doo doo in the trash.

I had two thoughts: "ewwww" and "Someone hasn't been educated in this."
09/25/2010
Contributor: kck kck
A friend of a friend had his Mom rush him to the ER because shampoo had "dripped onto his penis while he was washing his hair," causing a terrible reaction in which his penis swelled twice its size.

Yeah. Well, that's what he told his mom. I think we all know what really happened.
09/25/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by kck
A friend of a friend had his Mom rush him to the ER because shampoo had "dripped onto his penis while he was washing his hair," causing a terrible reaction in which his penis swelled twice its size.

Yeah. Well, that's what he ... more
Big overreaction to an erection

Of course I assume in real life he knew the difference.
09/25/2010
Contributor: kck kck
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Originally posted by ScottA
Big overreaction to an erection

Of course I assume in real life he knew the difference.
LOL!!! Twice the size of his erect penis, I should have said.
09/26/2010
Contributor: B8trDude B8trDude
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
As long as I don't stroke fast enough to create excessive heat.
Thankfully the lube cancels the friction.
Just don't try and set yourself on fire
09/27/2010
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
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Originally posted by Tuesday
I used vaseline extensively for ages until I came to this site.

I think Alan and Michelle said that any coconut oil except Spectrum is good. Of course they said this right after I bought Spectrum oil. Its supposed to be good for cooking since ... more
Thanks. Wouldn't it be best to go to a health food store to buy it, rather than a grocery store to make sure it is a brand with no impurities?
09/27/2010
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
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Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
Thanks. Wouldn't it be best to go to a health food store to buy it, rather than a grocery store to make sure it is a brand with no impurities?
I've purchased pure coconut oil at Walmart. It lists the ingredients as: coconut oil. That's all nothing else added, just pure coconut oil. So unless I am missing something, I wouldn't think you need to go to a health food store.

I checked the package and it says it's great for fan frying, making pop corn, delicious brownies and baked goods. However, it is not labeled as a sex lube, no mention of vaginal or anal sex anywhere on the package, so we don't use it internally. We only use it for massage and hand jobs.
09/27/2010
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
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Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
Thanks. Wouldn't it be best to go to a health food store to buy it, rather than a grocery store to make sure it is a brand with no impurities?
I buy the extra virgin coconut oil it at whole foods - I just trust it more from there.
09/27/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Mr. E
I've purchased pure coconut oil at Walmart. It lists the ingredients as: coconut oil. That's all nothing else added, just pure coconut oil. So unless I am missing something, I wouldn't think you need to go to a health food store. ... more
It's possible to miss something - while the ingredients may be coconut oil there's no discussion of how they get the coconut oil and what helper chemicals they use. Think of it a bit like the decaffeinated coffee debate - different processes use different chemicals, and some might not be so nice.

Mechanically expelled oils are considered the safest - the producer just smashes and presses the material to get the oil out.
09/27/2010
Contributor: sextoygeek sextoygeek
My roommate told me her and her guy used shaving several times... ick
09/27/2010
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Anally?! For real? Those bottles say for external use only for a reason! I can see them working fine for male masturbation though.
External use only means don't eat it. Lol.

They're not really thinking about your ass when they put those warnings on there.
09/27/2010
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
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Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
I would love to try the cold-pressed coconut oil as a lubricant if I could be confident that it was pure and that there were no by-products in it. Does anyone know of a reputable place to buy it?
Any health food/supplement store should have it. Whole Foods. Even the grocery store organic section.
09/27/2010
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
I've had anal sex with a soapy dick in the shower oh... a hundred times?

Soap and shampoo, etc, can certainly cause a reaction in some people but most of us? Not so much.

In fact, enemas in the hospital are often given with glycerin soap added to the water.

It may irritate you a little but it's not, generally, going to kill you.

Lube is better, of course, but really? People have been jerking off with lotion, shampoo, conditioner, crisco, lard, vaseline, baby oil, whatever, for...

As long as people have been jerking off.
09/27/2010
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
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Originally posted by ScottA
It's possible to miss something - while the ingredients may be coconut oil there's no discussion of how they get the coconut oil and what helper chemicals they use. Think of it a bit like the decaffeinated coffee debate - different processes ... more
ScottA,

When I purchase the lubes designed and sold specifically as a sex lube(and I've bought my share) there is no discussion of all the many chemicals listed on the package or how they got them.


Since coconut oil is a food product, wouldn't they have to list any chemicals added? It clearly states "pure" coconut oil, with no other ingredients listed. We've only been using it for a few months, but I can report that there have been no side effects. Other than my wife says she prefers to use it when giving me a rub down. That's reason enough for me!

I'm not saying that people shouldn't buy it at a health food store. I'm not really concerned where people buy whatever they want, I was just stating that it is not necessary to pay extra.
09/27/2010
Contributor: nolongerhere nolongerhere
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Originally posted by clp
The porn stories I've read regularly use butter. I imagine this would have been a go-to pre-lube days, but still. I'd want pancakes afterwards.
Haha! I love pancakes...
09/27/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by Victoria
I've heard good things about Coconut Oil too - but from what I've read, purity is a concern, some are cut with paraffin (wax). Worth checking out though.
OOOOO never knew that!
09/29/2010
Contributor: onehotmomma onehotmomma
I have sensitive skin, so I would NEVER use anything other than a specified lubricant. I just wouldn't feel comfortable doing it.
09/29/2010
Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
I never have, but in college one of my friends used hair conditioner. I think she was too drunk to notice if it stung or not.
09/29/2010
Contributor: Onanist Onanist
I once used soap to masturbate. After I ejaculated, I felt a burning sensation in my urethra and haven't used it since.
10/03/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
If I'm really drunk, we've used shit like saliva, but I'm pretty sure that I've NEVER reached for anything like BenGay hahahah that's ricockulous.
10/03/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Carrie Ann
I've had anal sex with a soapy dick in the shower oh... a hundred times?

Soap and shampoo, etc, can certainly cause a reaction in some people but most of us? Not so much.

In fact, enemas in the hospital are often given with ... more
"External use only" means that it hasn't been evaluated for internal use and for some reason the FDA doesn't think that it is "generally recognized as safe". It means don't eat, don't inject, don't put up your nose or in your eyes, and generally keep away from mucous membranes (which includes the lining of your intestinal tract). In fact it is more important to keep unknown chemicals away from your rectum than your mouth, because there aren't the same safeguards (taste, etc.) down there.

Concentrated soap won't kill you, true (in most cases, although they have had reports in the medical press of soaps damaging the lining of the intestine and causing serious colitis), but when used for masturbation or anything that uses extended rubbing it can get uncomfortable. Externally conditioner and lotion should be fine, but I wouldn't use them internally (i.e. only for rubbing your penis or clit, not for G-spotting).

Most coconut oil should be safe unless you're sensitive. The processes are either certified or "Generally recognized as safe", but from time to time the FDA does realize that something isn't quite so safe. For all the complaints the government generally is on the ball (unless they're interfered with), so I'd say go ahead and try whatever oil you want, and if you have a problem try a different one.

Not sure exactly what the process lubes need to go through is. I know that all of the warnings on "novelty toys" are because they don't test them or guarantee their safety, whereas the quality manufacturers (Tantus, Vixen, etc.) do guarantee their safety.
10/03/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
There was a woman who came into the ER with what had to have been one of the most flaming yeast infections in the history of womankind. She said she had run out of KY Jelly, so she thought grape jelly would be a good substitute. The infection was ... more
Oh...god.
10/03/2010
Contributor: Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
Have never thought of using coconut oil, I'm actually reviewing some for my family blog, I should try it out as lube!

We have used lotions, baby oil, stuff like that...no problems yet.
10/03/2010
Contributor: thatonegirl thatonegirl
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I was reading Cosmo and I was looking at the funny mini stories they always have. One of them I was more mortified by than humored by. The guy and his gf were in a hurry to have sex but needed lubricant. This dumb ass decided that SHAMPOO would be a ... more
No im always paranoid that i will end up having to go to the dr. if i use the wrong thing
10/07/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by Carrie Ann
I've had anal sex with a soapy dick in the shower oh... a hundred times?

Soap and shampoo, etc, can certainly cause a reaction in some people but most of us? Not so much.

In fact, enemas in the hospital are often given with ... more
We use dishsoap or glycerine soap enemas for impacted dogs and cats so it's not terribly dangerous so long as you don't do it more than once every few weeks. You don't want to prevent the mucous membranes from repairing the mucosal layer.
10/07/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by thatonegirl
No im always paranoid that i will end up having to go to the dr. if i use the wrong thing
Best answer is to ask your doctor before using the product if you have concerns. My doctor loves me really he does...
10/07/2010
Contributor: Sir Sir
I've never done this. I've always used her natural lubrication or water if I needed to get myself a bit wet. Other than that, no...oh god, that poor person...
10/07/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
LOL
Mmmmm, waffles.
10/07/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Saliva, and thats it. I am so sensitive down there who knows what certain products would do!
10/07/2010