Bend over beginner harness kit - harness and dildo set by Tantus - review by NekoMama

It's okay

It is good for the money, and we've used it for well over a year without problems. The dildos are nice to have around if you're not up to something larger.
Harness is good for the price
Dildos are decent for beginners
Dildos are just way too small for experienced players
Rating by reviewer:
useful review


This is a very, very basic kit for super beginners. The dildos are well made. They are, however, fairly small, so anyone that has already used anal toys may be a bit disappointed. The harness is basic, but versatile. It not only works with the dildos that are included in the kit, but it's also fantastic on its own. No, it's not as fancy as other harnesses, but it does the job without being completely horrible. It comes with a bullet vibe, which is also nice.
  • Who / How / What
    [ ? ]
    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Pegging
    • Strap-on sex
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly


The harness itself can be a bit uncomfortable if you wear it for a long period of time, especially if you're a larger person. The dildos are standard silicone. They're not too hard or soft, which is nice. As far as I know, they all can be used in the shower.
    • Smooth

Design / Craftsmanship

The craftmanship is... eh. The harness is okay. The one issue I had was that the snaps are kind of crappy; one broke fairly quickly and doesn't snap correctly anymore. It's not a huge issue, but it definitely gets irritating. The dildos are pretty nice! No issues with any lube or cleaner thus far. The rings are also versatile; they're actually a bit too big for the dildos that it came with, so we've used it more with our larger ones, and they all work very well.
    • Fits many size toys
    • Interchangeable o-ring

Size / Fit

The harness fits me well, and it is easily adjustable. It's sized to fit anyone, and it's very easily adjusted. One problem is that it isn't very flattering. It is pretty basic, and in order to get it to sit well on your body, you have to pull it a bit tight, which can make things... bulge a bit.
    • Adjustable
    • Will fit most body sizes and types


It works well. We have used the harness a lot more than the dildos. It does chafe if you wear it for too long, so beware! The dildos are just very small; anyone who has experimented with anal play will probably not find them very fulfilling. They're thin and short, so I found myself constantly popping out while pegging. We didn't use them for very long. That being said, if you're a true beginner, they are a decent place to start. You can use the harness a lot, and the dildos aren't intimidating. The bullet that it comes with is just meh. It's better on its own, as when it's in the harness I can hardly feel it.
    • Chafes
    • Easy to put on
    • Holds toys very well

Care and Maintenance

It's easy to clean, and there's no issues with toy cleaners. We just rinse the harness off with cold water, and put the padding in the washer on cold.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store

Personal comments

Again, just beware that the dildos are small. That really was my main gripe with it. It's pretty good though for a starting harness, especially for the money.
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  • SMichelle
    Great job on your first review!
  • Herzer
    Nice review. Welcome to the community.
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  • dannorth
    useful review, thanks
  • Hentialover
    This looks perfect for my to start out with. Thanks for writing.
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