This kit is a great starter kit. If your looking for something to get the ball rolling, you've found it. The harness takes a lot of adjusting at first. The actual adjustments themselves are easy, it just needs many adjustments when first using it. For those of you who are on the smaller or medium side there is quite a bit of slack once it's adjusted. There is tons of excess harness that hangs down so during intercourse there are definite possibilities of this excess getting in the way. The distraction from this does take away from the experience.

I was worried before purchasing this kit because of the velvet material on the harness. The velvet was surprisingly not uncomfortable however. It is very soft and doesn't feel out of place. It is harder to clean than most other materials though. Remember it is only hand washable.

The dildos are quite small, hence the name "beginner". They are perfect for introducing anal harness play. For vaginal use they do leave you craving more. The texture of the dildos is extremely soft, they lack any real stiffness at all. The dildos are made of silicone, and you never use silicone lube on a silicone toy. After experimenting with this kit I think it is perfect for beginners but beginners only. I have not had too much experience with harness play and when it first came up in the relationship I was nervous and kind of worried. This would have been an amazing kit to purchase first. I think it is a great tool for the couple that wants to try something new and exciting but are scared or hesitant about strap on sex. This is a wonderful kit to give you something to compare to and help you decide on what it is you like and are looking for in a strap on kit.