So to begin with this harness and dildo set has been extremely tough and sturdy. My partner and I have been through many harnesses and dildo sets in the last five years and by far this one has lasted the longest, going on about one year. If you are looking for something that is good for the rough and tough play this is your harness. My partner and I are into some rough play and bondage and this bad boy can definitely keep up. Never had to worry that it was going to unstrap, fall apart, or unsnap while in action.


We have had several in the past that just could not keep up during play and this one has stood the test of time. Also if you are looking for something for some out-of-the-house wear this will be your friend; quite comfortable when worn under boxers or if you want the packed look in some boxer briefs, high and tight do nicely. However long-term wear is not recommended in my opinion. The straps will rub you raw if worn for too long. But will be just fine for the couple hours out of the house for that wild adventure at the movies or in a parking lot. Makes for quick access if role-playing in costume.


Also just all around good for when you are in the moment. However it does take a bit longer to attach and strap on in the heat of the moment, it's better for those planned moments. It can be a mood killer when you have to say hold on a second while I take a minute and have to strap and tighten and whatnot. All over satisfied with this product. I would definitely recommend this product to another couple looking for a little adventure in bed or elsewhere; quick and easy to get used to and good for beginners.

All together, good and fun.