Spread Me Open!

This is a great set. It comes with everything needed to start spreader bar bondage. While the durability is not great, everything is comfortable and works well with moderate use.
Price, comes with cuffs, lightweight
Could be more durable
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


The Fetish Fantasy Series Spread 'Em bar and cuff set by Pipedream is a great kit for couples interested in bondage. This is designed to be used for two (or more) person play. It is not tailored for solo use. These spreader bars are intended to restrict movement and keep your partner bound in a few different fun positions.

The set comes with a small and a large spreader bar, four cuffs, a connecting strap, a blindfold, and a storage bag and lock. All of the cuffs have a ring on them to connect them to the bars and other things.

Just as a warning, this set is not designed for incredibly rough play. It is very comfortable, but keep in mind that the durability is a bit lacking, so they are not indestructible.
  • Who / How / What
    [ ? ]
    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Bedroom / on a bed
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly

Design / Craftsmanship / Material

The bars are are decent in quality. They are not going to accidentally break on you, but they are not designed for rough use. At each end of the bars is a black plastic cap. There is also a chain with a solid ring attached that comes out of the plastic caps. This ring is where you attach your cuffs.

While the cuffs that are included may not look very good, they are actually quite comfortable. The cuffs are nothing too special, but they give everything that is needed and expected from them. They are comfortable, durable enough for moderate use, and not too bad looking. This set also comes with a blindfold that is, to be completely honest, awful. The blindfold is just a thin elastic strap attached to a piece of cloth. It is very breakable and also does not stay on the face very well.

The longer of the two bars is 24" long and has 4 rings on it to attach cuffs. The shorter one is just 10" long with 3 rings on it. The middle ring has an adjustable black strap on it with a maximum length of about 16".

The cuffs, as well as the collar, are Velcro with neoprene padding. The collar has about 17" of padding before getting to the Velcro strap. You can wrap the neoprene around if you have a smaller neck, as well as having a small section unpadded if you have a larger neck. The wrist cuffs have about 10" of neoprene and the ankle cuffs about 12". All of the cuffs are roughly 2" wide. The Velcro on these cuffs holds surprisingly well. Since the cuffs have simple D-rings and clips on them, you can easily replace them with other ones for use on the same bar.
    • Multiple ways to use


There are many ways to use this set. The cuffs are removable and can be attached in many different ways to all of the rings on the bars. A couple ways that I like include using all 4 cuffs on just the longer bar or doing the standard of both ankles on one bar and both wrists on the other. There are simply many different positions that you can be bound in with this kit.
    • Aids in positioning
    • Comfortable during use

Care and Maintenance

This is a very low maintenance set. Each piece can easily be handwashed if needed. Storage is even easier! This set comes with its own bag. Both of the bars, all 4 cuffs, the collar, blindfold, and strap can easily be put into the included bag and locked with the included lock for simple and discreet storage.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store
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