Siri - discreet massager by LELO - review by Ahatmadeofshoes12

No Better Toy for Partner Play then the Siri

Well worth the money, this toy is the best toy for partnered sex I've ever come across. A godsend to the 75% of the female population that need direct intense clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm during penetrative sex and a great option for anyone new to vibrators, I cannot recommend this toy enough.
Non-intimidating, Great for Partnered Sex, Beautiful Design
Not powerful enough for everyone, not waterproof
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


The Siri is an incredibly versatile external vibrator that can be used in so many ways to enhance any kind of sex solo or with a partner. The Siri is designed to be an external clitoral vibrator and I think this use suits it best although it works well for many more. Holding it on the clitoris, the nipples, and a partner's penis or taint can all elicit great pleasure. I also discovered that this toy is great to hold pressed against a butt plug or dildo to allow the vibrations to transfer down a non-vibrating toy. I love to hold the Siri pressed against a butt plug to turn any plug into a vibrating toy and for anal play this works great to produce vibrations that are noticeably powerful but not overwhelming. This toy shines as a clitoral stimulator and it works great in both solo play and couples play. It is by far the best toy I have ever used to provide vibration on the clitoris during partner play. Because it is such a small toy it fits between bodies in just about any position you can think of without getting in the way or being uncomfortable for either partner.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Everyone
    • Solo
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
    • Campus/roommate living
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly
  • Body / part areas
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    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • All over body
    • Clitoris
    • Nipples

Material / Texture

This toy is made of silicone in the colored part that is held against the body. The control port and the handle of the toy is made of a white plastic. The silicone this toy is made of is seamless, silky, and has a very luxurious feel to it. The silicone is hard and rigid but it feels soft because it is so velvety and smooth. There is no texture to this toy other than it being very smooth and it has no smell or taste. This toy is incredibly body safe since the silicone is non-porous and easy to clean. Its an incredibly good toy for beginners because the texture is not intimidating at all.
    • No odor
    • Not porous at all
    • Smooth

Design / Shape / Size

This design is one of the best designs for a clitoral stimulator I have ever seen. The toy has very little weight to it and its small size makes it fit easily in all positions. Its designed to fit perfectly in the palm of one's hand and this makes it incredibly easy to use to target stimulation exactly where you want it. The size is perfect for partner play because it will fit between bodies with ease even if you are pressed close together. My favorite way to use this toy is to hold it on my clitoris during vaginal and anal sex with a partner. Because the toy is so well designed I can control it easily even while I'm getting pounded by my partner. It targets the clitoris really well and isn't large enough to get in the way of your partner. This is great for women because 75% of us cannot orgasm from internal stimulation alone so this toy is the perfect toy to allow us to achieve orgasm easily during penetrative sex. The head of the toy gives a nice hybrid of pinpoint stimulation and broad stimulation. It targets the clitoris really well but also stimulates some of the surrounding portions of the vulva to give a slightly broader stimulation. This makes it great because it will work for a large diversity of vibrator users. I think this is one of the best toys you can purchase for someone who is new to sex toys because it is so beautiful and un-intimidating. Its very easy to hide because its so small and even if left out it doesn't scream "sex toy" when you see it. This also makes it easy to travel with and it stores very well. Although this toy is the perfect toy for a sex toy newbie its great for advanced toy users because its such a versatile and well designed product. Everyone's sex toy collection needs a small external vibrator and this one is by far the best toy for that purpose I've seen.
    • Beginner
    • Discreet look/design
    • Partner play

Functions / Performance / Controls

This toy performs very well. For its small size the toy produces very strong vibrations that will work for most vibrator uses. I will say though if you are a woman who needs a very high powered vibrator this will not work for you but for the majority of vibrator users the Siri will be plenty strong enough. This toy is rechargeable and has about 4 hours of battery life on a single charge. It warns you when the power is getting low with a flashing red light so it will not die on you in the heat of the moment. I found the controls very easy to use and it didn't take long to learn how to cycle through the different modes. The vibrations of the toy are located in the silicone portion of the toy which comes to a broad rounded point. Its somewhat in between a pinpoint stimulator and a broad area stimulator so it can be used to target the clitoris. Some of the vibrations may extend beyond the clitoris but less extensively then other toys I've used. This is one of the quietest toys I've used and it can definitely not be heard through a closed door. Unfortunately, this toy is not waterproof but despite this drawback the Siri still gets my vote for best small external vibrator.
    • Discreet sound
    • Easy to use
    • Rechargeable

Care and Maintenance

Caring for the toy is incredibly easy. Since the Siri is made of silicone it is non-porous so as long as its washed after every use it will not harbor bacteria. Even though the Siri is not waterproof it is splash proof as long as you keep the water away from the control port and the recharge port. I usually clean my Siri by running the silicone portion of the toy under warm water and using hand soap to clean it. Just keep the water off of the while plastic portion of the toy and you can do this without causing damage to your Siri. The Siri comes with a small satin bag that you can store it in and I typically store mine this way. Since the Siri is a silicone toy I would not use silicone-based lubes unless you spot test first to make sure the lube won't react with the toy. The Siri is compatible with all water-based lubricants.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store


Being that this is a Lelo product it came beautifully packaged. The box just shows a picture of the toy and is white and the color of the Siri that was purchased (red in my case). Its pretty discrete since it just shows the toy and has no sexual imagery (doesn't need to do the product itself is so sexy). Until this cardboard box is a black box that says Lelo on it and the toy is inside in a plastic shell. Its beautifully presented and can be used for storage. The box makes a great gift box too. I thought the instructions were more than sufficient but I didn't use them since the Siri is pretty self-explanatory. There was also information on the 1 year warranty enclosed.
    • Good for storage
    • Would make a nice gift


My experience with this toy has been incredible. I will say although it works pretty well for masturbation it is not my favorite toy for solo use because I tend to like more broad stimulation then the Siri provides. However, this is absolutely my best toy when it comes to use with a partner and it gets used 85% of the time I'm having sex with a partner. This toy is absolutely ideal for the vast majority of women who cannot orgasm from internal stimulation alone and its been a godsend for me in that regard. I love how non-intimidating it is making it a great first time toy and a great toy to bring into a new partnership. I know personally I can ejaculate if I'm getting intense pressure on my g-spot (from either a toy, fingers, or my partner's penis) but even with the g-spot stimulation I need vibration directly on my clitoris to knock me over the edge into an ejaculatory orgasm. The Siri does this perfectly for me and provides just the stimulation I need. For anyone wanting to get their first vibrator or wanting to buy a vibrator for a friend or girlfriend this is a great one since it will work for most people. A toy like this is a must for anyone who needs clitoral stimulation to orgasm during penetrative sex and this toy really works well for the purpose. I absolutely regard this toy as one of the best purchases I've ever made.
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  • GONE!
    Awesome review!
  • Lioncub
    Thanks for the review.
  • kaykay0427
    great review
  • Martiniman
    Great review, thanks!
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