Venus butterfly - strap-on vibrator by Cal Exotics - review by Jen&Clint

The Force is with you little butterfly!

If you are looking at this toy just buy it, you know you want it! I would suggest that every woman have this in her toy box! An amazing toy for an awesome price.
Strong vibrations and comfortable to wear.
Not one bad thing to say.
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


The Venus Butterfly is a strap on clitoral stimulator that you can even wear under your clothes for all day pleasure. Perfect for beginners and advanced users. It provides more then enough stimulation to give you a nice warm up before sex, or you can even wear it during sex for more pleasure and a really good time.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Any couple
    • Long / extended session
    • Special trip or occasion
    • Teasing a partner
  • Where
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    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Home

Material / Texture

I found this butterfly to be soft and flexible with just enough hardness to provide very comfortable and pleasurable direct stimulation.

The thigh and waist straps are adjustable and elastic so just about anyone can wear this little strap on. The attachment is almost like the hook and eye design making it very easy to get this butterfly on and off. The straps will start to tear if used a lot, but that just means it's well loved. A big plus to this little number is the fact that you can fully remove the straps from the butterfly as needed.

The TPR material gives the butterfly just a slight smell but only for a day or so. Fresh out of the box it really didn't even have a smell not even the new toy smell that just about all toys have.

Design / Shape / Size

The Venus Butterfly is just beautiful. Everything is pink from the butterfly right down to the bullet. The body or wings could have been a bit smaller, and it has a hard time staying in the right place while standing or walking. Some re-adjustments will be needed while in use.

The nose and tail nestles up to your most sensitive areas to provide hands free pleasure, sometimes powerful enough to bring you to your knees.

Everyone will love this little butterfly. Perfect for beginners to advanced users alike, providing everyone with a speed that they can handle and find pleasure in.

Traveling with this pretty little thing is easy. It fits in almost any bag ( batteries removed first ) and is fairly easy to hide. As long as you do not have it on high while you are out and about you can be discreet about your pleasure.

Functions / Performance / Controls

At first sight I thought the controls looked cheap. They're made of plastic and very light weight, but once the batteries were in it felt very strong and durable. By accident I did happen to drop it and it hit the floor pretty hard. I gave it a good look over and no cracks, so I flipped the dial on and there it was the buzz of vibrations. IT STILL WORKED.

The controller connects to the bullet by wires ( not very long wires ). Careful not to tug on them hard it may cause this toy to short out and not work properly and maybe not at all.

To control the mode of vibrations the controller has a dial at the top on both sides , and also has an arrow that points in the direction of what speed you want. With three levels of vibrations: Low, Medium, and High ( high is surprisingly powerful ). You can tell a distinct difference between all three speeds, unlike some I have used.

The bullet is removable for easy cleaning but caution it can be difficult to remove and replace the bullet. I would say that the bullet alone is somewhat hard to handle while on high, it just vibrates itself right out of your hand you would have to put one heck of a grip on this little thing to hold on to it. With the bullet in the butterfly it is placed in the center to give the head and nose the strongest vibrations but the tail hardly does anything to stimulate.

Requires 2AA batteries ( Not included ) and as much as I have used it which is daily and sometimes many times a day I still have the same ones in it for a week now. That is a big plus.

Care and Maintenance

This butterfly is not waterproof. You will have to remove the bullet before you wash this toy, just remember the wires are there and to be careful with them.

Being that this butterfly is made from TPR material it is less porous then some other materials like cyberskin but more porous then 100% silicone, so cleaning and maintenance are very important. Wash with warm or hot water and antibacterial soap and maybe even toy cleaner. Condoms are always suggested when sharing toys that are porous.

Silicone or water based lubes are best to use with these toys and can even add more pleasure to the play time.


Oh the package!! So nice and inviting, almost like it was saying come here, open me up and take a peek. Nice white box, with pink and purple writing all over. The back of the box had everything labeled and even showed the full picture of the toy.

The instructions gave a clear picture of how to install the batteries, but lacked in giving any insight on how the straps went on. Once you start to strap up you will figure it out, it isn't that hard.

Personal comments

For the creative minds out there. If you are looking for a really good strong hands free stimulator to use while having sex, then this is perfect. By switching the straps around (top straps on bottom, and bottom straps on top), it puts the head and nose facing down all while keeping the nose right above the clit. You now have your self a hands free stimulator and can still enjoy sex.


I have really enjoyed the strap on Venus Butterfly. Working through all the levels before landing on high and almost landing on my knees. High was amazing and very strong but remained pleasurable for me. After I figured out I could change the straps around I really had fun then. The butterfly is my top favorite and will stay there for the simple fact that it is hands free.
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  • ......
    Great review! Very smart thinking to turn it around.
  • Carrie Ann
    Good review! So few people like wearable vibes, I'm glad this one is good!
  • Jen&Clint
    This little butterfly is so much fun. I did a little combo with this and Mr Grape and had my first G spot O!! Thank you Newme21 and Carrie Ann. I didn't know what to expect with this but quickly found out. Big smile
  • MuffysPinguLove
    Good review! Smart idea to turn it around, I don't know that I would have thought of that myself.
  • Jen&Clint
    I haven't changed it back to the way it was supposed to be yet. It has been a real treat to have and use Winking
  • Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
    This looks so cute, very nice review! Big smile
  • Cream in the Cupcake
    Thanks! I wanna try this one out, the Vibro Wings doesnt work during sex, it gets in the way, so this one may be perfect.
  • Miss T
    Great review! Thank you!
  • awol
    great review. I want this SO much!
  • Lady Neshamah
    thanks for the review
  • emilia
  • TheSlyFox
    Thanks for the review.
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