Bsoft massager - sex toy by B Swish - review by PassionQT

This "B" Isn't For My Hive

I was confused when I first started to play with the B-Soft Contoured Clitoral Stimulator. Figuring out how to strategically place it to achieve the desired result was the most difficult part about using it; however, the controls and maintenance of the device are easy as 1-2-3. If it weren't for the amazing intensity of the vibrations, I would have given up on it after the first few minutes.
Rechargeable (no batteries!)
Easy controls
Easy to Clean
Not so soft (actually it's quite hard!)
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review
BSwish's newest clitoral stimulator, the BSoft, claims to be ergonomically designed to fit the shape of your body, yet exactly HOW it is supposed to do that may "B-confusing" to some at first; it sure was to me! With some experimentation and patience, the design will eventually make sense, but in the end, your personal preference will determine how you enjoy using the toy.

It's intended for external use only, specifically to tease the clitoral and labial region, although it could equally be caressed against other erogenous areas. It would best serve a solo player on a lingering mission of self-gratification, but it can certainly be enjoyed by a couple. As a matter of fact, my husband showed me what he assumed was the best way to hold it (see pics).

The packaging states that the toy is constructed of ABS plastics and Silicone, which are both phthalates and PVC free. I picked up a slight scent and taste, neither of which was bothersome.

Its name "Bsoft" is a reflection of the velvety-smooth, drag-free (won't attract lint either), matte finish that covers the surfaces of the toy, but the device itself it hard and not flexible whatsoever. The only areas of somewhat squishy (silicone?) material are the thin color band which contours the entire toy, the control button, and the DC cover for the charging unit. This banded area is also where the only seams are present, but I did not sense them during play.

Weighing a mere 2 oz, the Bsoft is extremely lightweight. It's not as small as some clitoral stimulators, measuring (by my dimensions, which differ from manufacturer's) just shy of 5 inches long lengthwise and 2-1/4 inches across the widest part. It's roughly 1-1/4 inch thick.

The overall shape could generally be described as an elongated egg shape, with a centrally-located, raised ridge, presumably to rub across the sensitive spots. The top portion of this egg shape (see pictures) is slightly more narrow than the bottom area. The underside (control side) is concave, creating a bit of a cupping effect if one wished to use the toy in that manner for less direct contact with the vibrations. When looking at the control side of the toy, the DC connector is located on the right side of the toy and is protected by a cover that must be secured before the toy is used for waterplay.

Here is where this toy really shines! The vibrations are amazing! Not Hitachi Wand strong, but for a toy this size, they are impressive. Mine arrived factory-charged so that I could begin testing it immediately. It takes approximately 2.5 hours to reach a full charge, during which time a blue-ish back-light on the control button will flash. The charge will allow the toy to run for roughly 2 hours straight. The stand-by time is up to 60 days. The packaging includes a charger which should be plugged in to the toy first, then in the wall socket. Never leave it plugged in the wall outlet for more than 24 hours and never use any other charger but a B-Swish one.

The pressure activated, two-sided, single control button is extremely easy to use and impossible to accidentally turn off. The lower half of the button turns on the power, the top button begins cycling through the 7 functions (must run through them all to go back to a favorite). The toy can be turn off anytime by pressing the power button. The vibrations are the strongest on the more elongated half above the controls, but because the toy is so light, they resonate well throughout its entirety.

The 7 functions are as follows:
- Low
- Medium
- High
- A series of bursts increasing in intensity followed by a long buzz.
- Repeating high level bursts.
- Even faster repetition of high level bursts.
- Two short bursts followed by a longer one.

Even though it sounds loud exposed in the open, under the covers and behind a closed door, it's almost undetectable.

The toy rests in a plastic tray within a paper box, which is suitable and classy enough looking to give as a gift or to store the toy in. The multi-lingual direction manual is a universal for ALL similar B-Swish toys, which includes some notable warnings such as: clean with warm water & (non-alcohol based) antibacterial soap only, do not use any oils or massage creams with this toy (water-based lubricant is best), and others which the user should take care to read before use. A black fabric, drawstring-style storage pouch is included with the product.
I think I held this toy about every which way I could while I was trying to figure out the most pleasurable way to use it. I suppose that with this toy, there really is no right or wrong way to hold it, which is why you have to be patient if you want to get the maximum pleasure from it. Some may enjoy cupping over the entire labial region it for a lighter touch while others will flip it over for pin-point precise stimulation.

By keeping the raised portion between my labia, I was able to easily control the device from the topside (button pointing away from body) with my index finger. I assume this is the correct way to hold it, but again, I found myself adjusting it when I was close to climaxing. I could not climax on my back, so I flipped both myself over and the toy, so that I was lying on my stomach (a position in which I have better control over my pelvic muscles) with the pointier end of the toy pressing against my vaginal entry and g-spot, yet not quite penetrating me. It's hard to explain, but whatever I did, it worked! It is a versatile toy that can be flipped around whichever way feels best for the user. The following images show some of the ways I experimented with it, either ridged/raised side in direct contact or the concave side cupping my genitals (which I didn't like as much):

I'm not going to lie though, it wasn't the most comfortable experience and was even, at times, very frustrating. If it weren't for the awesome vibrations, I would have not been able to climax. I may give it another shot every now and then, but I already can tell that is won't be a favorite, which is why I only give it a 3-star rating for the vibrations and the ability to recharge it. It looses 2 stars for overall awkwardness and hardness. I just don't like rock solid toys that feel like I'm rubbing myself raw, and that is kind of how I felt after working my ass off to cum.
Follow-up commentary
I cast off this little rowboat shortly after my initial review. It was one of the most confusing and awkward toys - not to mention, one of the hardest - I've ever owned. I would have probably enjoyed it much better had it been made with a little more flex and cushion.
This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.
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  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Masturbation
    • Solo
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Rechargeable
    • Travel friendly
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Clitoris
    • Genitals
    • Nipples
  • xxxbluexxx
    thanks for the review!
  • MK434
    Nice review! Thanks
  • AmethystQueen
    Wish I could see the pics. Maybe I'll just pm you. This looks a bit confusing to me too, but thanks for explaining how to use it as best you could!
  • eri86
    Thanks for taking the time to share.
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