Is there a dildo that provides a good threesome MMF experience?

Is there a dildo that provides a good threesome MMF experience?

StunningView StunningView
Hi--

My girlfriend and I are into the threesome MMF fantasy but want to keep it safe mostly because the STD risk and the relationship somehow changing, so we've been looking around for something that would help with a MMF threesome and there are pretty limited options. It's too hard to stick a dildo in her ass and thrust at the same time, has anyone else figured out how to simulate a MMF threesome as well as possible? She's so horny to be filled in both holes and I want to simulate it but just don't know how! Suggestions would be greatly appreciated, from BOTH of us !
12/26/2010
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Kindred Kindred
I can think of a couple of options that you can try:

1. The Menage a trois harness.

2. Your girlfriend could try a butt plug, although there would not be any thrusting involved.

3. The Bandito.

4. The Liberator Wing can be used for DP.

5. Here's another harness that EF unfortunately is not carrying currently link but is a possibility if you can find it elsewhere.

6. If you're willing, I believe any of the Feeldoe double dildos can be held by you anally and used for DP.

Those are off the top of my head. I will try to think of others if those don't seem like they will work for you.
12/26/2010
ToyGeek ToyGeek
I'd suggest a comfortable butt plug like the Ryder.
12/26/2010
ToyGeek ToyGeek
Oops, the link to the Ryder: link
12/26/2010
StunningView StunningView
Thank you for some of the posts,

That being said I think I should have been more specific,

I want double penetration where I am in her pussy and the dildo is in her ass.

I don't like tight cock rings around me, because it chaffs my skin which is not fun!

I'm looking into the Liberator Wing but that really is only good for if I wanted to be in her ass and the dildo in her pussy. I'm more of a pussy man myself ; ).
12/26/2010
Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
Quote:
Originally posted by Kindred
I can think of a couple of options that you can try:

1. The Menage a trois harness.

2. Your girlfriend could try a butt plug, although there would not be any thrusting involved.

3. The Bandito.

4. The Liberator Wing can be ...
Kindred provides a good list of options.
All of which you have eliminated except for the Feeldoe (or Share link )
but that requires you to be okay with anal insertion yourself and you haven't necessarily stated a preference there.
A lot of the simple strap on harnesses can be used for double penetration if you just put your penis below the thrust pad. I have used this one for this purpose: link
If you want to be in her pussy, she'll need to be in some kind of doggy style position so that the dildo goes in her ass.
Other than that, I'm not sure anything else is going to work that doesn't involve a cock ring.
12/26/2010
ScottA ScottA
I don't think I'd recommend the Share for holding anally. The bulb end is kind of big, and the way it's built it can start to "work out" because the "back" side doesn't have much of a lip on it. The Feeldoes are your best option if you want to hold a double anally, but remember that you'll need to subtract about two inches to take into account the space between your anus and your "front".

You can use a harness such as the Menage A Trois and still have penis-vaginal penetration by modifying positions. Doggy style works, or any other sort of reverse entry.
12/27/2010
PussyGalore PussyGalore
Plugs are best for beginners. Use that in conjuction with a realistic dildo. I think you are expecting the toys to do the majority of the work and that's not realistic.

This is also a fantasy my husband and I play around with. We purchased the doc johnson super silicone dildo and we built a beam of sorts to keep it harnassed. I ride the dildo while I suck on him or he fucks me and I suck on the dildo. I think double penetration where both 'cocks' are thrusting is going to be a bit dangerous and lead to tearing or general unpleasantness. It's necessary to keep each motion controlled. However, there are a lot of dildos that can fit in her pussy while your inside of it as well. Check out my personal store for a few ideas. It's on my profile. If you have any other questions give me a shout via message. This is one fantasy that we are hot and heavy in and believe exactly as you do - the risks outweigh the possible satisfaction. link
12/27/2010
dv8 dv8
A dildo with a suction cup attachment could work or use a harness to hold a dildo in place on a chair.
12/28/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by StunningView
Hi--

My girlfriend and I are into the threesome MMF fantasy but want to keep it safe mostly because the STD risk and the relationship somehow changing, so we've been looking around for something that would help with a MMF threesome and ...
Using a vibrating dil or vibrator in her vagina (where it will probably stay in) and using YOU for the anal works well.

We do this frequently and it's a lot of fun. We've never used any harnesses or anything, but even a regular realistic or semi realistic dildo for both PIV or oral (the woman can go back and forth between you and the dil while giving oral, a LOT of men really like this fantasy play) is fun. I'd suggest something nice from Fun Factory or LELO or JoyDivision.

100% Silicone is nice, because when it is washed it can be used in any orifice (unlike things like Jelly or Rubber or PVC) and isn't hard like glass or metal so it can be used for oral play, as well. Silicone is great for all around play, and especially for starting out. Most of our toys are silicone, and we've gone a long way from starting out. We like it and just kept using it and buying it.

It's simple and doesn't require a lot of extras, plus the vibe can be used for a LOT of things.
12/28/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by PussyGalore
Plugs are best for beginners. Use that in conjuction with a realistic dildo. I think you are expecting the toys to do the majority of the work and that's not realistic.

This is also a fantasy my husband and I play around with. We ...
PG said: "I think double penetration where both 'cocks' are thrusting is going to be a bit dangerous and lead to tearing or general unpleasantness." I agree. We practice double penetration a LOT (at least 4 or 5 times a week) and we almost always keep the dil or vibrator still, while he does the work of penetrating with movement.

When it's two living humans thrusting, they have a better idea of what is going on by the woman's response, and their own response but trying to MOVE a dildo while you are thrusting with your penis is going to be damn hard.

I mean, with DP, the dil moves some, just from your body movements, but not outright thrusting. IMO, it works better this way. For our likes, anyway.
12/28/2010
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