Is there a dildo that provides a good threesome MMF experience?

Is there a dildo that provides a good threesome MMF experience?

StunningView StunningView
Hi--

My girlfriend and I are into the threesome MMF fantasy but want to keep it safe mostly because the STD risk and the relationship somehow changing, so we've been looking around for something that would help with a MMF threesome and there are pretty limited options. It's too hard to stick a dildo in her ass and thrust at the same time, has anyone else figured out how to simulate a MMF threesome as well as possible? She's so horny to be filled in both holes and I want to simulate it but just don't know how! Suggestions would be greatly appreciated, from BOTH of us !
12/26/2010
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Kindred Kindred
I can think of a couple of options that you can try:

1. The Menage a trois harness.

2. Your girlfriend could try a butt plug, although there would not be any thrusting involved.

3. The Bandito.

4. The Liberator Wing can be used for DP.

5. Here's another harness that EF unfortunately is not carrying currently link but is a possibility if you can find it elsewhere.

6. If you're willing, I believe any of the Feeldoe double dildos can be held by you anally and used for DP.

Those are off the top of my head. I will try to think of others if those don't seem like they will work for you.
12/26/2010
ToyGeek ToyGeek
I'd suggest a comfortable butt plug like the Ryder.
12/26/2010
ToyGeek ToyGeek
Oops, the link to the Ryder: link
12/26/2010
StunningView StunningView
Thank you for some of the posts,

That being said I think I should have been more specific,

I want double penetration where I am in her pussy and the dildo is in her ass.

I don't like tight cock rings around me, because it chaffs my skin which is not fun!

I'm looking into the Liberator Wing but that really is only good for if I wanted to be in her ass and the dildo in her pussy. I'm more of a pussy man myself ; ).
12/26/2010
Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
Quote:
Originally posted by Kindred
I can think of a couple of options that you can try:

1. The Menage a trois harness.

2. Your girlfriend could try a butt plug, although there would not be any thrusting involved.

3. The Bandito.

4. The Liberator Wing can be ...
Kindred provides a good list of options.
All of which you have eliminated except for the Feeldoe (or Share link )
but that requires you to be okay with anal insertion yourself and you haven't necessarily stated a preference there.
A lot of the simple strap on harnesses can be used for double penetration if you just put your penis below the thrust pad. I have used this one for this purpose: link
If you want to be in her pussy, she'll need to be in some kind of doggy style position so that the dildo goes in her ass.
Other than that, I'm not sure anything else is going to work that doesn't involve a cock ring.
12/26/2010
ScottA ScottA
I don't think I'd recommend the Share for holding anally. The bulb end is kind of big, and the way it's built it can start to "work out" because the "back" side doesn't have much of a lip on it. The Feeldoes are your best option if you want to hold a double anally, but remember that you'll need to subtract about two inches to take into account the space between your anus and your "front".

You can use a harness such as the Menage A Trois and still have penis-vaginal penetration by modifying positions. Doggy style works, or any other sort of reverse entry.
12/27/2010
PussyGalore PussyGalore
Plugs are best for beginners. Use that in conjuction with a realistic dildo. I think you are expecting the toys to do the majority of the work and that's not realistic.

This is also a fantasy my husband and I play around with. We purchased the doc johnson super silicone dildo and we built a beam of sorts to keep it harnassed. I ride the dildo while I suck on him or he fucks me and I suck on the dildo. I think double penetration where both 'cocks' are thrusting is going to be a bit dangerous and lead to tearing or general unpleasantness. It's necessary to keep each motion controlled. However, there are a lot of dildos that can fit in her pussy while your inside of it as well. Check out my personal store for a few ideas. It's on my profile. If you have any other questions give me a shout via message. This is one fantasy that we are hot and heavy in and believe exactly as you do - the risks outweigh the possible satisfaction. link
12/27/2010
dv8 dv8
A dildo with a suction cup attachment could work or use a harness to hold a dildo in place on a chair.
12/28/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by StunningView
Hi--

My girlfriend and I are into the threesome MMF fantasy but want to keep it safe mostly because the STD risk and the relationship somehow changing, so we've been looking around for something that would help with a MMF threesome and ...
Using a vibrating dil or vibrator in her vagina (where it will probably stay in) and using YOU for the anal works well.

We do this frequently and it's a lot of fun. We've never used any harnesses or anything, but even a regular realistic or semi realistic dildo for both PIV or oral (the woman can go back and forth between you and the dil while giving oral, a LOT of men really like this fantasy play) is fun. I'd suggest something nice from Fun Factory or LELO or JoyDivision.

100% Silicone is nice, because when it is washed it can be used in any orifice (unlike things like Jelly or Rubber or PVC) and isn't hard like glass or metal so it can be used for oral play, as well. Silicone is great for all around play, and especially for starting out. Most of our toys are silicone, and we've gone a long way from starting out. We like it and just kept using it and buying it.

It's simple and doesn't require a lot of extras, plus the vibe can be used for a LOT of things.
12/28/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by PussyGalore
Plugs are best for beginners. Use that in conjuction with a realistic dildo. I think you are expecting the toys to do the majority of the work and that's not realistic.

This is also a fantasy my husband and I play around with. We ...
PG said: "I think double penetration where both 'cocks' are thrusting is going to be a bit dangerous and lead to tearing or general unpleasantness." I agree. We practice double penetration a LOT (at least 4 or 5 times a week) and we almost always keep the dil or vibrator still, while he does the work of penetrating with movement.

When it's two living humans thrusting, they have a better idea of what is going on by the woman's response, and their own response but trying to MOVE a dildo while you are thrusting with your penis is going to be damn hard.

I mean, with DP, the dil moves some, just from your body movements, but not outright thrusting. IMO, it works better this way. For our likes, anyway.
12/28/2010
Conor221b Conor221b
Hi
I really want to have an mfm with my gf but i dont know what way to get her interested in another cock.

Any tips
10/29/2018
gregtyska gregtyska
Quote:
Originally posted by StunningView
Hi--

My girlfriend and I are into the threesome MMF fantasy but want to keep it safe mostly because the STD risk and the relationship somehow changing, so we've been looking around for something that would help with a MMF threesome and ...
Hey there - my wife and I like this as well so I got her one of those dildos that has a fat base and rests flat on the bed so she can ride it and while I am behind her I can either slide my cock in her pussy for double vag or I will fuck her ass from behind for a full DP... works pretty well and feels incredible for her.
May 3, 8:26 pm
Leil@ Leil@
I suppose for the mimic MMF threesome double penetrator cock rings might be a good choice. Something like this penis ring, this double penetrator or this rabbit could help transform this fantasy to reality.
May 9, 10:53 am
orgasmicfarmer orgasmicfarmer
Quote:
Originally posted by Leil@
I suppose for the mimic MMF threesome double penetrator cock rings might be a good choice. Something like this penis ring, this double penetrator or this rabbit could help transform this fantasy to reality. ...
Out of curiosity, is this something women enjoy?
Oct 7, 5:46 pm
RonLee RonLee
Some years ago I purchased (from Eden Fantasys of course) a Fun Factory Sonic a flexible 16” double ended dildo tapered on both ends for easy insertion and sloped for G-spot and P-spot pleasure. Wifey and I have used it together and we both enjoy it very much. As long as the two "M" are ok with anal penetration... the combinations of who gets it is nearly unlimited. Sadly, I don't think that EF still sells the Sonic anymore.
Oct 9, 8:48 am
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by StunningView
Hi--

My girlfriend and I are into the threesome MMF fantasy but want to keep it safe mostly because the STD risk and the relationship somehow changing, so we've been looking around for something that would help with a MMF threesome and ...
This is an old thread but if there's anyone interested now, try a anal plug while you are in the Main entrance. Or purchase the anal thrusting vibrator, Swinger. It's not flexible like a human penis, but short.
There's videos on how well the Swinger performs.
Oct 9, 12:59 pm
Leil@ Leil@
Quote:
Originally posted by orgasmicfarmer
Out of curiosity, is this something women enjoy?
Of course, some women enjoy this, some other women don't since everyone has own preferences. You're welcome to read these reviews and see for yourself :
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Oct 9, 2:18 pm
Leil@ Leil@
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
This is an old thread but if there's anyone interested now, try a anal plug while you are in the Main entrance. Or purchase the anal thrusting vibrator, Swinger. It's not flexible like a human penis, but short.
There's videos on how ...
Excellent idea! And videos you may watch here, here or here
Oct 9, 2:23 pm
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by P'Gell
PG said: "I think double penetration where both 'cocks' are thrusting is going to be a bit dangerous and lead to tearing or general unpleasantness." I agree. We practice double penetration a LOT (at least 4 or 5 times a week) and we ...
I found this response interesting because the wife and I have tried DP in a variety of modes - some successful - some not.

The easiest of course is an anal plug with PIV thrusting. We both find this pleasurable - but like a lot of men, I'm often looking to push the envelope...

When she got to be relatively comfortable with anal sex, I would slip in one of her favorite dildos - which worked pretty well as long as the dildo was a little smaller because of the DP aspect. Downsizing from the Vixskin Maverick to Johnny seemed to do the trick (BTW Johnny was castrated long ago so the balls don't get in the way).

The next level was to purchase a harness that would hold the dildo - allowing for both me and the dildo to work in unison. This is where P'Gell's insight comes in to play. Two penetrators thrusting in unison can be a bit overwhelming - so it isn't long before she wants to stop.

Thinking about the MMF porn that I've seen, when both are thrusting it's often one going in while the other is going out - something that is not possible with the harness.

So for our future DP activities - it's back to the drawing board!
Oct 9, 11:35 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Leil@
Excellent idea! And videos you may watch here, here or here ...
Boy, some people sure like making videos
Oct 11, 8:19 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I found this response interesting because the wife and I have tried DP in a variety of modes - some successful - some not.

The easiest of course is an anal plug with PIV thrusting. We both find this pleasurable - but like a lot of men, ...
Gun,
Have you tried dp with a dil in the main orifice and you in the back door . We've done that successfully in the doggie position . I maneuvers the dildo as I'm thrusting away . This works well......That is until she takes over the thrusting. She ends up forcing me out

For something real special, let her wand away at her clit as you're doing double duty on her
Oct 11, 8:43 pm
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Gun,
Have you tried dp with a dil in the main orifice and you in the back door . We've done that successfully in the doggie position . I maneuvers the dildo as I'm thrusting away . This works well......That is until she takes over the ...
Maybe I wasn't clear - when we do DP with a dildo (not a plug) it's usually me in the rear and the dildo in the front.

However, when in the doggie position I'll go in the front and work a dildo in the back. She is rather large breasted and reaching back to work the dildo is difficult for her.

We also enjoy a cowgirl anal with a dildo in the front - she can use her clit wand in this position - but there is usually enough stimulation from the DP to get the job done.

What I have learned is that when doing DP - no matter which orifice is taking the dildo - it needs to smaller than what she usually likes - things get pretty tight down there

Thanks for the suggestions - I always find your ideas useful and insightful
Oct 12, 11:47 pm
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