Bob pleasure object - prostate massager by LELO - review by Paladin Fantasys

Cherry Bum Bob Busted.

Size might matter for achieving orgasm, but it doesn't matter for gentle, subtle stimulation. Merely rubbing the anal opening, without penetration, has its measure of pleasure. So while Bob won't make me quiver and shake, it can make me go, "mmmmm". Besides, it would be bad form to quiver and shake in public or at work, so Bob lets me pleasure myself subtly, without drawing unwanted attention.
Gentle for beginners
Nice ring for manipulation
Everyday, anytime wear
Too small for achieving orgasm after experience with larger toys.

Edge of ring can cause chafing
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


This toy can be worn anywhere discreetly. It provides gentle, subtle stimulation as you walk. You can rock it internally while sitting or driving. The side edge of the ring can rub you a little raw on the inside of the cheeks with extended wear.

For private solo or partner play, the ring allows manipulation for exploring pleasure places and responses. Especially pleasurable is using the ring to pull the bulbous portion of the toy against the inside of the sphincter. Pull until just before the widest point, then release and allow your sphincter to pull it back inside. Don't try to pull it back in by squeezing. While there is pleasure to be had by purposely pulling it back in, the better pleasure is letting the sphincter contract naturally, pulling the bulb back in. Repeat as desired for delicious sensation.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Solo
    • Travel friendly
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Anal

Material / Texture

Bob is very smooth and pleasant to touch.

The only time this toy has a smell is immediately after use and cleaning. It's not an overwhelmingly unpleasant smell. It is the same smell all my silicone toys have just after cleaning and it dissipates completely within a few hours after putting them away.
    • No odor
    • Smooth

Design / Shape / Size

This is the perfect size for my first anal toy - gentle and easy to accept.

It is still perfect for general, everyday, anywhere gentle stimulation.

Personally, it is too small for achieving orgasm, but is a wonderful first step in foreplay to prepare for the next bigger toy. This is currently a three step process.
    • Beginner
    • Ergonomic
    • Partner play


Bob is a non-vibrating toy, but I've tried using a Screaming-O bullet to manipulate the ring. It is pleasurable, but short lived because the bullet is smaller than the ring and once you get lube on your fingers it becomes difficult to hold onto.

Pressing the bullet against the outside of the ring is easier to sustain without lube interruption and adds a nice variation on play.
    • Comfortable
    • Easy to use

Care and Maintenance

Cleaning is as easy as it is for any silicone toy. Because the ring makes it easy to grasp and pull, even covered with lube, I've found it convenient to lather up my hands with soap before removing, then I can go straight to the sink and give it a good soapy stroking and rinsing. A second lathering and rinsing for sanitary measure, then dry and store.

Lelo packages Bob in a very nice shadow box that has made for simple, lint-protected storage.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store


Bob comes in a really nice black box that has a shadow cut out for storing. Under the shadow board is a white pull string pouch that I have yet to use, but appears would be very useful for carrying Bob in a pocket, purse, bag, or luggage.
    • Discreet looking packaging
    • Good for storage

Personal comments

For most of my life I was curious about anal play, but was always too guilt ridden to do much more than steal a moment with a finger in the shower every once in a while. After turning 50, thoughts and fears of woulda, coulda, shoulda, began to dominate all areas of life, sexual gratification and satisfaction among the top ticket items. After deciding to bust loose from all restrictions, I began to discuss these needs and curiosities with my spouse of 24 years. Thankfully, she wasn't totally freaked out and was not only willing to allow me to explore, but to participate as well. We still have some boundaries, but they are set by us, not society or unreasonable self-imposed phobias.

Bob was a perfect first toy to bust my cherry bum, gentle and pleasurable.

Now that I have more experience, Bob is too small to achieve orgasmic release, but I still use it for extended wear in public or around the house, for a constant, subtle, and pleasurable feeling.
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  • ~LaUr3n~
    Excellent account of a first time user! I look forward to seeing more bum adventures from you
  • Purpleladybug
    Thanks for the review!!
  • Lady Neshamah
    wonderful first review. welcome to eden!!!
  • The Curious Couple
    Awesome review, thanks for sharing!
  • Paladin Fantasys
    Thank you Lauren, Purpleladybug, Lady Dream Kitten, and The Curious Couple.

    I'm enjoying my break out into sexual freedom and am eager to share my experiences with others. Especially anybody who is self repressing. Don't do that to yourself! Take it from an old man, don't waste precious time.
  • ToyGurl
    Thanks for the review I was curious about this one for a long time. My husband really wants it!
  • Paladin Fantasys
    Happy Bobing to your husband!
  • Philia
    Best Review Title. Ever.
  • Paladin Fantasys
    Thanks Philia!
  • BlooJay
    Sounds like a great toy. Thx!
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    Thanks for reviewing! Great to hear from a first time anal toy user.
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    thank you
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    Great review.
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