Bob pleasure object - prostate massager by LELO - review by eyeneerg1984

Hidden Treasure

The "Bob" prostate massager by Lelo is a veritable gold mine of buried pleasure. Once this smooth luxurious toy is plunged into your anus, the riches of prostate stimulation are unearthed and thoroughly enjoyed. Sure, it could afford to be a little longer so as to dig a little deeper into the prostate. But, the beauty, safety, and functionality of this toy make it one treasure a little too valuable to pass up.
Beauty and Safety of Design
Hands-Free Prostate Stimulation
High Quality, Easily Cleaned Silicone
A Little Too Short to Firmly Massage Prostate of a Taller Man
Rating by reviewer:
useful review


The real strength of this toy is its ability to be inserted anally and then allowed to do its work during intercourse. After generously lubing and massaging the anus, the pleasure object is carefully inserted into the butt with the curved end facing toward the belly button. Once inserted, it is kept in place by a small (but not too small) loop and does a wonderful job staying in place throughout masturbation or intercourse. Being my first anal toy, this plug/prostate massager was a wonderful introduction to anal play; therefore, I would recommend it to beginners who have already been experimenting with their fingers. Additionally, I imagine such a versatile object would be ideal for the more experienced as well.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Any couple
    • Couple foreplay/after climax play
    • Relaxation/alone time
  • Where
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    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere

Material / Texture

I could not be more pleased with the material. The Bob pleasure object is solid silicone and is silky smooth to the touch. Additionally, this high quality material has yet to retain any smell. The Bob is very firm which is a plus for prostate stimulation and, at the same time, the velvety, smooth texture make it a pleasure to slide in to the anus. First timers and veterans alike will appreciate the quality texture of this toy.

Design / Shape / Size

Truly, the Bob pleasure object is a work of art. It's simple and ergonomic design makes this toy both beautiful and practical. The thick end of the plug is firm which is helpful for prostate stimulation while the neck of the toy is narrow thus enabling a gentle prostate massage (due to the flexibility) and a secure fit (due to the tightening of the anus around the relatively small neck).
One of the most reassuring features of the design of this plug is its stopper ring. The ring is large enough to remove the fear of accidentally losing the plug into the rectum and yet is small enough to wear comfortably through intercourse.
When it comes to size, "Bob" is conveniently small and unintimidating. With the included silk pouch, it could easily fit into a pocket or shower kit and taken anywhere. The convenience of its size also can be a draw back for some. Seeing that I'm taller than most men, the pleasure object just barely reaches my prostate and therefore could afford to be a little longer in my opinion. For most, however, I would assume that it is the perfect size.


Hands down the best part of this toy is that it is hands free. Once Bob is inserted, it does its magic on the P-spot while freeing you to fondle and penetrate your partner or to fondle and please yourself. Although it was never a major problem, shifting in certain positions made me feel as if "Bob" had slid out of its ideal position resting directly on the prostate. A quick check however would normally reveal that the pleasure object was still in place. As was already mentioned, the prostate stimulation wasn't as strong as I would have liked due to my height. However, there is no mistaking that "Bob" was doing his job and has helped lead me to some of the strongest orgasms I've had in months.

Care and Maintenance

One of the most relieving pleasures of this prostate massager is its simple clean up. The high quality silicone can be boiled, bleached, or put in the dishwasher. Much to my satisfaction and peace of mind, I've been using extremely hot water and an anti-bacterial foam cleaner to clean "Bob." If kept in its storage box or silk pouch, the toy can be ready for action at all times; otherwise, it would be smart to rinse it off before playing since the silicone can easily pick up lint and dirt.
In regard to lubrication, I've been genuinely amazed at how well Bob retains lubrication. We've been using a thick water based lube (per the instructions) and I have on several occasions removed "Bob" to still find lube on its head. In other words, once it's been properly lubricated it will smoothly slide in and back out on command.


Even though you can't judge a book by its cover, the cover certainly helps. With the Bob pleasure object the quality packaging is a visual testimony to the overall quality of the toy. "Bob" comes in a sturdy box and plastic holder that could easily be mistaken for gift box for jewelry. In addition, a silk pouch is also provided for those who want to protect this plug from the elements but is limited in space for his or her sex toys.


Since buying this toy, I've been awakened to the body rocking orgasms reserved for those willing to participate in prostate stimulation. It's been so much fun to lube up my butt and slide "Bob" into me. Yet, the most pleasure comes from the work that Bob does on my prostate thereby helping me to achieve orgasm. When using "Bob" on my own, I noticed a pleasurable difference but the greatest thrills have come from the effect the pleasure object has had in my time with my wife. She noticed a significant difference in my orgasm when I used this with her for the first time the other day. While giving me a blow job, she actually got choked on the amount of cum I produced because it filled up her mouth. Seeing that I don't normally produce that much cum and that my orgasm lasted 10 seconds longer than usual, its only logical for me to attribute this heightened orgasm to the diligent assistance that "Bob" provided to my prostate.
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  • Kynky Kytty
    I would be curious to know how tall you are. The average height of a man changes depending on where you live. Thanks for the review.
  • ......
    Nice review, thanks!
  • Heather Shadrick
    Great review. Would you say the stopper ring would double as a good finger handle, or is it not that big? It seems like a good toy.
  • Sammi
    Good review!
  • eyeneerg1984
    Thanks for the feedback everyone. Kynky Kytty, I'm 6' 5". I obviously didn't think to mention that. Fyreflye, the stopper ring definitely doubles as a finger handle making insertion and removal a breeze.
  • Kynky Kytty
    Thank you! It helps to know in case I consider buying such a gift to a partner some day. I have so many plans and so few opportunities. Winking
  • Owl Identified
    Excellent review, you addressed the specific concern I had which was whether this would work for a man with a deeper prostate. Thanks!
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    killer review! :3
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    Thx for the review!
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    thanks for the review!
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    Thanks for reviewing! Great job.
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    Great review.
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    Thanks for the review.
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    great review
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