Prior to buying this product I had a standard Sportsheets harness, which didn't fit quite well as I am plus size, but did the best I could as it was the only one I could get my hands on at the local store. When I first came on EF, the Sedeux Divine was one of the first products I bought and I am in love. This product holds up very well under strong conditions so don't be afraid if you like it rough. This is also a wonderful product for genderqueer/trans people who use strap-ons and like the feeling of having your cock where it should be. It is perfectly situated and you can feel the tension against your lower pelvis during intercourse. It can also be worn discreetly under long pants/jeans with a packer -- just tuck the straps down. This harness is definitely for anyone and everyone out there!

The padding on the back makes for a very nice feel when strapping in/on as well as the thickness of the strap that is used around the waist, which makes it seem like the company put a lot of thought into their demographic for this product. It is very comfortable and even supports the lower back for quick maneuvering and thrusting. The straps making up the harness are softer than I expected for nylon and the buckles work perfectly to tighten and loosen quickly. I did find that the thigh straps are quite long, but have taken to tying them behind my back so they're out of the way. The waist straps can be useful to your partner to pull you closer to them, and feeling that tug makes the moments more enjoyable.

This comes with three plastic o-rings, which I switched out with metal cock rings because I tend to believe that the metal holds an o-ring capable dildo in place better as it doesn't stretch at the points of attachment from thighs/waist to o-ring, but that's just my preference. The front padding behind the o-ring is soft and comfortable as well. The straps going between the legs around the thigh and butt make for a crotch-less underwear feel and allows easy access for your partner while still wearing the harness.

When I have it on I feel like it is mine and a part of me instead of being as uncomfortable as I was with the old standard one. It is machine washable, although I always detach the o-ring and wash that by hand. It is also able to be machine dried.

The dildo I primarily use is about 8"x1 1/2" and the harness does not sag because of the weight of the dildo nor does it really pull on me. It says that it fits up to an 82" waist and I don't doubt that. I'm currently a 42" and I've been with both partners smaller and larger than myself who have this harness as well and they seem to love it just as much.

Have I mentioned how much I love this harness? My partner and I both enjoy the comfort it brings us. I noticed rust was starting to form on the inside of the snaps, and then I realized that I closed the snaps every time I put the harness in the wash. I have since left them opened to reveal the snaps no longer harbor such a problem. There is nothing negative I can say about the construction of this harness, and all materials have held up for the amount of use it gets... which is quite a bit. Very sturdy and flexible with one's body, as should be for us plus-size lovers. I recommend it 100%, which is a bit funny, because I tend to be a tough critic, especially in the sexual department.