I would recommend the Sedeux Divine Diva Plus Size Harness for any user looking for a good harness. It would be great for gender play as it can be hidden under your clothing. It is also easy to figure out. This was my first harness (owned for over a year) and it was very easy to use.

Being plus-sized, I was having difficulty finding a harness that would work for me until I came across this product. It fits me with room to spare(58 1/2 inches around my largest point). Because the harness is adjustable, it would also be great for some one smaller. I tightened the straps all the way and measured it to be about 25 inches.

I have never tried this for DP but it should work with the set up of the harness.

Nylon makes up a majority of this harness so it does have some texture to it. Personally, the texture has never bothered or chaffed me. The straps are about two inches wide for the one that goes around your waist and about 1/2 an inch for the straps that go between your legs. The padding on this harness has a nice, soft texture and keeps the harness from rubbing. The Diva is also a vegan product.

It does not have its own smell. However, if you leave it around a toy or anything that might have a strong smell, it will pick up that smell. This is easily solved by washing the harness. I have never personally used it in water, but it is washable. The fabric or clasps may tighten if used in water. The straps may also cause chaffing if the product is used in water, so use caution.

The Diva Harness is compatible with many O ring compatible dildos. It comes with three different O rings that can be interchanged on the harness. The ring sizes are 2" , 1 3/4" ,and 1 1/2". These are easily hand washed with hot water and soap. They have also been very sturdy.

This is a double strapped harness; this leaves your anal area open for play with no strings getting in the way. The straps are made out of nylon so it is very durable. As for putting it on, it is very simple because the straps are on the side and easily adjustable. Adjusting the straps can take a bit of getting use to; the key is knowing which one to pull to make it fit you perfectly.


IF you wear it a bit higher then you normally would for some it does leave the vaginal area open.

Even though the Divine Diva is meant for plus-sized woman, it could be worn by smaller woman as well (smallest setting is 25 inches). The adjustable straps also work nicely if more then one person will be using the harness. This feature is perfect for my girlfriend and me because we have at least a 10 inch difference in our waists. Additionally, if your weight fluctuates you do not have to worry about it affecting the use of this harness. Diva is very flattering as well.

The Divine Diva is also discreet under clothing if you adjust it properly. I have been surprised more than once by my girlfriend hiding it under her outfit.

The Divine Diva Harness works perfectly. However, if you are a larger person you may need to wear the harness a little higher than intended. I have to do this because if I wear it lower it gets in the way. For a smaller person(like my girlfriend), the product can be worn at the normal level.

The O rings are secured by three snaps that can be a bit hard to maneuver. This is located on the front padding of the harness. If you cannot slip the dildo in while the ring is in the harness, attach the O ring to the dildo and then attach both items to the harness. (This method may be easier.)

As for different positions, it has taken everything we have done and it does not chafe. The back part of the harness is also helpful to those with back problems since it is cushioned and helps avoid chafing. The straps do dangle so to avoid problems you can tuck them in.

The Divine Diva Harness is very low maintenance and easy to care for. I just toss it in the washer with the rest of my dark clothing and hang it up to dry (the washer is set on delicate and the water is cold). Spot treatments can be done between washes. I wash it about every 3-4 uses but it can be washed more often. I remove the O rings and wash those by hand as to not tear them up and it allows for more through cleaning.

I usually store it in with my under clothes if it has just been washed. If it is not clean I will store it in a bag until it is washed.

This product came in a clear baggy that I would not recommend using for storage since it can be easily torn and is not resealable. I do believe it came with picture instructions. Keep in mind the packaging may have changed since I ordered mine; I have had it for more than a year.

The Divine Diva Harness can leave you feeling sexy and beautiful with its sleek design, or tough and rough with all its durable material. It is discreet and lovely at the same time. It is everything I was looking for in a harness and more.

If you and your partner both enjoy using a harness from time to time, the Divine Diva Harness is great for you. It is adjustable and can be worn by many different sizes of people, so feel free to switch off every now and again and try something new.